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Baby loss awareness week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

9-15 October is Baby loss awareness week.

My thoughts are with those that have suffered.

I would have been a mother of a 6 year old if I hadn't been though the loss of an unborn child.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two of my friends have lost babies.

One was stillborn and the other had something severely wrong with him in the womb so had to be terminated.

My heart goes out to all who have suffered the loss of a baby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never know the pain of this, but my heart goes out to each and every one of you. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have had 3 brothers or sisters had they been stronger. My thoughts are with everyone who has been through such sadness xx

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

I lost two both at twelve weeks , what hurt the most was my mother saying they wernt really babies , i do have a wounderfull son now im very lucky x

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West

I should be 6 months pregnant, unfortunately 3 weeks ago I went into labour early and sadly baby didn't make it ... It's been a hard 3 weeks, I'm staying away from Facebook today, don't want to upset myself with the things people are posting.

Mrs Curious

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"I should be 6 months pregnant, unfortunately 3 weeks ago I went into labour early and sadly baby didn't make it ... It's been a hard 3 weeks, I'm staying away from Facebook today, don't want to upset myself with the things people are posting.

Mrs Curious "
im so very sorry try and be strong , mail me if you ever need to talk xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I should be 6 months pregnant, unfortunately 3 weeks ago I went into labour early and sadly baby didn't make it ... It's been a hard 3 weeks, I'm staying away from Facebook today, don't want to upset myself with the things people are posting.

Mrs Curious "

Big hug though the emotional times xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I should of had a 4 year old running about....it's getting easier as the years go on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend had twin boys. One survived and the other was stillborn. It was the best and worst day of her life rolled into one.

Sending love to all who have loved and lost.

Mrs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I should be 6 months pregnant, unfortunately 3 weeks ago I went into labour early and sadly baby didn't make it ... It's been a hard 3 weeks, I'm staying away from Facebook today, don't want to upset myself with the things people are posting.

Mrs Curious "

Xxxxxxx

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Thank you for your thoughts.

Sorry for your loss too

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West

Thank you both, we're getting there. I'm a very lucky lady in that I have an awesome husband and 3 year old supporting me through it, it wasn't the best thing I've had to do but so many people out there who are worse off than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you both, we're getting there. I'm a very lucky lady in that I have an awesome husband and 3 year old supporting me through it, it wasn't the best thing I've had to do but so many people out there who are worse off than me. "

Whilst this is very true, there is always somebody else worse off it is still ok to grieve and have all the associated emotions. Be kind to yourself. Sending you a big cwtch. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to everyone affected by this.

I lost a baby girl at 22 weeks pregnant on my 21st birthday, she's my little angel xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you both, we're getting there. I'm a very lucky lady in that I have an awesome husband and 3 year old supporting me through it, it wasn't the best thing I've had to do but so many people out there who are worse off than me.

Whilst this is very true, there is always somebody else worse off it is still ok to grieve and have all the associated emotions. Be kind to yourself. Sending you a big cwtch. Xxx"

Sorry I didn't mean that to come across as patronising. I know you are grieving. I just didn't explain myself well. I meant, although there are people worse off and its good to put things in perspective and focus on the good things. It is fine to feel all the emotions such as anger, frustration, pain etc etc. I speak from experience of always putting everyone else first and trying to just put a brave face on and get on with things. Sometimes you just need somebody to say hey, it doesn't matter what is happening to anyone else, your going through this now and its very real to you and if you have a bad day and feel like shit, that really is ok. Hope that makes sense. Xx

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Thank you both, we're getting there. I'm a very lucky lady in that I have an awesome husband and 3 year old supporting me through it, it wasn't the best thing I've had to do but so many people out there who are worse off than me.

Whilst this is very true, there is always somebody else worse off it is still ok to grieve and have all the associated emotions. Be kind to yourself. Sending you a big cwtch. Xxx

Sorry I didn't mean that to come across as patronising. I know you are grieving. I just didn't explain myself well. I meant, although there are people worse off and its good to put things in perspective and focus on the good things. It is fine to feel all the emotions such as anger, frustration, pain etc etc. I speak from experience of always putting everyone else first and trying to just put a brave face on and get on with things. Sometimes you just need somebody to say hey, it doesn't matter what is happening to anyone else, your going through this now and its very real to you and if you have a bad day and feel like shit, that really is ok. Hope that makes sense. Xx"

It's okay ... It wasn't, I understood. Today is a bad day so I've been ordered by Mr Curious to run a hot bubble bath and turn the technology off for the day. I realised its been 4 weeks not 3. They've all merged into one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you both, we're getting there. I'm a very lucky lady in that I have an awesome husband and 3 year old supporting me through it, it wasn't the best thing I've had to do but so many people out there who are worse off than me.

Whilst this is very true, there is always somebody else worse off it is still ok to grieve and have all the associated emotions. Be kind to yourself. Sending you a big cwtch. Xxx

Sorry I didn't mean that to come across as patronising. I know you are grieving. I just didn't explain myself well. I meant, although there are people worse off and its good to put things in perspective and focus on the good things. It is fine to feel all the emotions such as anger, frustration, pain etc etc. I speak from experience of always putting everyone else first and trying to just put a brave face on and get on with things. Sometimes you just need somebody to say hey, it doesn't matter what is happening to anyone else, your going through this now and its very real to you and if you have a bad day and feel like shit, that really is ok. Hope that makes sense. Xx

It's okay ... It wasn't, I understood. Today is a bad day so I've been ordered by Mr Curious to run a hot bubble bath and turn the technology off for the day. I realised its been 4 weeks not 3. They've all merged into one "

Your Mr speaks sense. Just take things day by day. If only we could send virtual wine and chocolate. Xxx

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