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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Afternoon ladies and gentlemen, I have only been a member of FAB for just over two weeks and I must say I am very much enjoying engaging in all it has to offer.

However I get the feeling there is a general consensus towards the fact that there are alot more single men than single women using the site. (I know I am pointing out the obvious)

Women seem constantly inundated with messages, I my self have sent afew messages without receiving a response, this for me is totally fine as I lead an active social life were I am engaging with Women and understand that not everyone will be interested (fact of life), but I get the distinct impression Men get annoyed when they do not receive a response, maybe they are relying on FAB as there sole source of female interaction and feel a response is obligatory.

What are your thoughts

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think too many concentrate too much on here for their sexual fun, too many eggs in the swinging basket. Their shout but I think it's an add on to an existing great sex life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

As long as men are men and women are women, it will always be the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have about 20 unread messages mostly asking if I'm free to meet (I can see that much) I'm not reading them on the principle they have not read my profile..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think too many concentrate too much on here for their sexual fun, too many eggs in the swinging basket. Their shout but I think it's an add on to an existing great sex life "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have sex outside fab and haven't for over 18 months - for a number of reasons! However - I have a vagina - which means sex is readily available.

The sex is secondary to the great friends I've made here though! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x"

Well that would make forum a lot quieter! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think too many concentrate too much on here for their sexual fun, too many eggs in the swinging basket. Their shout but I think it's an add on to an existing great sex life "

I couldn't care less if there's loads of guys on here because there's only one of me.

Great sex away from Fab means that you'll never be frustrated by Fab. It will always just be an exciting add on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x"

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be correct. You have a lovely cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x"

If all the men on here were bi us women wouldn't get a look in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Afternoon ladies and gentlemen, I have only been a member of FAB for just over two weeks and I must say I am very much enjoying engaging in all it has to offer.

However I get the feeling there is a general consensus towards the fact that there are alot more single men than single women using the site. (I know I am pointing out the obvious)

Women seem constantly inundated with messages, I my self have sent afew messages without receiving a response, this for me is totally fine as I lead an active social life were I am engaging with Women and understand that not everyone will be interested (fact of life), but I get the distinct impression Men get annoyed when they do not receive a response, maybe they are relying on FAB as there sole source of female interaction and feel a response is obligatory.

What are your thoughts

"

I'm a fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to bleach my inbox, its got a bit messy lately

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x

If all the men on here were bi us women wouldn't get a look in "

I wouldn't say that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Afternoon ladies and gentlemen, I have only been a member of FAB for just over two weeks and I must say I am very much enjoying engaging in all it has to offer.

However I get the feeling there is a general consensus towards the fact that there are alot more single men than single women using the site. (I know I am pointing out the obvious)

Women seem constantly inundated with messages, I my self have sent afew messages without receiving a response, this for me is totally fine as I lead an active social life were I am engaging with Women and understand that not everyone will be interested (fact of life), but I get the distinct impression Men get annoyed when they do not receive a response, maybe they are relying on FAB as there sole source of female interaction and feel a response is obligatory.

What are your thoughts

"

Sorry, I was distracted. My thoughts are if the USA has stayed on the gold standard then the '29 crash might have been averted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of guys use this as their sole approach and yes as such get frustrated. To my mind though they're going about this totally wrong.

Fab wasn't designed primarily as a means of meeting people, it was designed as a way for people to stay in touch and meet like minded friends. It's great if you already know people have connections and are willing to get yourself known. But if you're approaching it cold its very hard. To get the most from fab you need to go to parties, clubs and socials. Get your face seen and recognised, then you'll do fine. That's how I find it at any rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x

If all the men on here were bi us women wouldn't get a look in

I wouldn't say that "

Steve,have you seen the men on here? Imagine every single one of them would have sex with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead simple really the "single men ain't single and are too tight or don't have enough money or talent to pull.

So they think swingers clubs are full of women gagging for it and men who will let them fuck their wives.

I'm being honest and basing it on obvious evidence in front of my face and simple mathematics.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x

If all the men on here were bi us women wouldn't get a look in

I wouldn't say that

Steve,have you seen the men on here? Imagine every single one of them would have sex with you "

I'd run away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x

If all the men on here were bi us women wouldn't get a look in

I wouldn't say that

Steve,have you seen the men on here? Imagine every single one of them would have sex with you

I'd run away. "

Not all at once!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i tell you what i see, the guys that come on the forums moaning (your not moaning op)have a crap profile, no pictures or cock pictures and blame everyone else for there lack of success. some will ask for advice and take it, most just want a moan.

There are far more men than women, but there are plenty of ways to get attention

1) good well written profile with good pictures

2) joining in the forums getting yourself known

3) go to swingers clubs, get yourself known as a decent guy

4) go to social events and network.

It takes effort, but people will start to recognize you, doors will open.

i play as a single female, im looking for guys, lots of women are and also lots of couples, but who are they going to play with? the decent guys, and being decent doesnt mean you have to have the biggest cock or look like an adonis,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez! I reckon if single guys put that much effort in with vanilla women then they may not be single guys in the first place! Just my 2 cents of course.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its all very well for the men on here who are successful with women in real life. They're the ones who tend to be more successful on here. But you get the guys who think that women are people to do sex to, not have sex with, and tailor their messages that way, and don't understand why women think 'ew no'. I mean, how very dare us uppity women not reply immediately asking for a meet?

If men are consistently unsuccessful on here they should look to the one constant - them. And they shouldn't treat this site like a sex site. It isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This why everyone should be bisexual solves every problem x

If all the men on here were bi us women wouldn't get a look in

I wouldn't say that

Steve,have you seen the men on here? Imagine every single one of them would have sex with you

I'd run away.

Not all at once!"

He's being modest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the effort in and result is not worth the effort in the long run. Although maibe some effort but not to much.

I have seen some online statistics that a guy have to send about 20 emails a day to different profiles just get one pussey a month lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im trying almost everything but social stuff to meet women, i have social anxiety and dont drink so the club/pub scene not for me.

On about 20 dating sites looking for relationships and just fun on here but get nothing.

I find women to be very shallow, they have a list of stuff they go through first, looks, height, weight, distance, age, car, money, job, home, spelling/grammar, if their friends would like you, then maybe personality.

Sadly most will accept about 3 of these things if they have a bad personality in hope they can change that person and then complain they can never find anyone decent when they get cheated on, lied to, used or even hit.

Its like a lot of profiles they put a photo and then say something like no one reads the about me section.

Yet genuine guys will, they want something to read about a girl as they arent gonna judge you purely on a photo.

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London


"Afternoon ladies and gentlemen, I have only been a member of FAB for just over two weeks and I must say I am very much enjoying engaging in all it has to offer.

However I get the feeling there is a general consensus towards the fact that there are alot more single men than single women using the site. (I know I am pointing out the obvious)

Women seem constantly inundated with messages, I my self have sent afew messages without receiving a response, this for me is totally fine as I lead an active social life were I am engaging with Women and understand that not everyone will be interested (fact of life), but I get the distinct impression Men get annoyed when they do not receive a response, maybe they are relying on FAB as there sole source of female interaction and feel a response is obligatory.

What are your thoughts

"

You are right, many more men, and women call the shots. A lot of men are, well, men, and not entirely sensitive about their posts....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lower your standards.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Lower your standards."

Wanna shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lower your standards.

Wanna shag? "

Maybe one day Steve. But I'm not playing at the moment. Thanks for dropping to my league, you're a sweety. X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"im trying almost everything but social stuff to meet women, i have social anxiety and dont drink so the club/pub scene not for me.

On about 20 dating sites looking for relationships and just fun on here but get nothing.

I find women to be very shallow, they have a list of stuff they go through first, looks, height, weight, distance, age, car, money, job, home, spelling/grammar, if their friends would like you, then maybe personality.

Sadly most will accept about 3 of these things if they have a bad personality in hope they can change that person and then complain they can never find anyone decent when they get cheated on, lied to, used or even hit.

Its like a lot of profiles they put a photo and then say something like no one reads the about me section.

Yet genuine guys will, they want something to read about a girl as they arent gonna judge you purely on a photo."

They won't be judging you on your photos

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Lower your standards.

Wanna shag?

Maybe one day Steve. But I'm not playing at the moment. Thanks for dropping to my league, you're a sweety. X"

What sort of sweety? Malteser? Liquorice Allsort? Gob stopper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all very well for the men on here who are successful with women in real life. They're the ones who tend to be more successful on here. But you get the guys who think that women are people to do sex to, not have sex with, and tailor their messages that way, and don't understand why women think 'ew no'. I mean, how very dare us uppity women not reply immediately asking for a meet?

If men are consistently unsuccessful on here they should look to the one constant - them. And they shouldn't treat this site like a sex site. It isn't."

Very well said!

A lot of guys don't seem to realise that - to most women - personality is just as important on fab as it is on a dating site! They think it's just about looks and penis size!

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