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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa? - OP "

Well... younger, cute, teddy bears are very appealing x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I look my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get away with looking younger then I am by about 5-6 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being thought of as younger is the bomb!

I'm young at heart, so that levels it out. Kinda strange being handed flyers for raves by much younger people when out and about though - especially when my son's with me, he hates it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive always bin told told that i look younger then my age i hated it when i was younger could never get in2 pubs but now i lv it and my eldest son whos 35 gets asked for id all the time hahahaha he hates it

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think I look my age but I'm not sure what a 42 year old is meant to look like!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My latest is being told I don't look like a grandma, even got proper chatted up when I had daughter in law and baby with me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I got told I looked early teens and I still get asked for ID which is a compliment but not when you don't have any and no fags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 33 and told a lot i look more 23.

I call it the deadzone of dating. Anyone older thinks i look way too young, girls the same age think i look too young and dont want people to think bad of them. Slightly younger are fine with it til they realize my age and i still live with my parents, they expect any guy my age to have a home, car, successful job, then younger 18+ are fine with looks, living at home but hate the age gap.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am..."

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all "

Aww...thank you sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 38 yr old looking like a 28 yr old is one thing,a 28 yr old looking like an 18yr old is a totally different ball game. I've been told I look younger,I don't feel younger

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all

Aww...thank you sweetie "

No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Get told often they can not believe i am 60 kept my looks and body in good shape with out trying very hard i go swimming every week thats all never been to a gym eat well and have a drink most days.

But it has its down side as well i know i get nasty comments from other women my age always dress smartly never tarty when people look at my photos on here been asked a few times is that me or someone else photos

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all

Aww...thank you sweetie

No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood "

Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I'm 32 and get told I look 23/25.... It used to annoy me, but to be honest it suddenly occurrd to me to think of it as a compliment

And as someone else here busy said .. What is my age supposed to look like.

I dnt act my age..i feel younger and forget sometimes I'm meant to be a certain way ha ha

Or am I?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all

Aww...thank you sweetie

No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood

Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me "

Ok enough of that I don't want to give your ego any further attention

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all

Aww...thank you sweetie

No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood

Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me

Ok enough of that I don't want to give your ego any further attention "

Its not my ego that currently requires attention

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I regularly get told that if it weren't for my hair I'd get put at a whole lot younger than I actually am...

Can I just say what a fantastic body you have...that is all

Aww...thank you sweetie

No worries don't usually do public displays of pwwwoooarrnes but hey ho I'm in a good mood

Nothing wrong with a bit of 'pwwwooarness'...especially when it's aimed at me

Ok enough of that I don't want to give your ego any further attention

Its not my ego that currently requires attention "

I'm not going to ask

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I think it's lovely being told I look younger but my mirror never lies

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 30 and I look 30 (except when I got ID'd buying superglue last year )

I'm totally happy with that, I'm not the babyfaced type and I don't really want to spend my life wishing my face looked different. I may change my tune when I'm 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about looking younger but I get told I act much younger

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm the woman who owns the body of a much younger woman and the face of a much older one. Luckily, I'm only 28 in my head so it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look much younger than I am, apparently. Regularly get asked for ID. I don't mind so much. But being called cute really pisses me off

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

It is THAN, not then!

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires


"I'm 33 and told a lot i look more 23.

I call it the deadzone of dating. Anyone older thinks i look way too young, girls the same age think i look too young and dont want people to think bad of them. Slightly younger are fine with it til they realize my age and i still live with my parents, they expect any guy my age to have a home, car, successful job, then younger 18+ are fine with looks, living at home but hate the age gap."

I'm 33 and some girl thought I was 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is THAN, not then!"

Bit pedantic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is THAN, not then!"

Thanks for the english lesson m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I look late 20's, early 30's. As someone who is nearing 38, I'll take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told i look about 10 years younger than i am. Happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told i look older alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww you're cute

i used to get that a lot, but not so much now. (thankfully)

I don't mind people looking younger, but probably not fancy someone if they were 35-40 and looked 60 odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look my age. I have grey hair.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"I look my age. I have grey hair."

ah, but the ladies love a silver fox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I look younger

Agree. Some ladies love a silver fox or in my case a hairy silver back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look my age. I have grey hair.

ah, but the ladies love a silver fox "

If there was such a thing, I'd be more like a silver cheetah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I told a lady who used to be on here, we are still in touch, that I'd just had my 50th, she acted very surprised!

Although maybe she thought I looked older!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 24 and get told I look 20 all the time, plus having a six pack helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I challenge anyone to top this.

I was 21 at the time, went to asda to buy a DVD rated a 15.

Got asked for ID despite the fact I've got a full sleeve tattoo and had my car keys in my right hand, handed the guy my drivers licence which he still proceeded to take several moments to work out my age despite having to be 17 to have a license

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?"

In your case. ..no..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

Jesus... I'm 26 next week but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"No!

....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off. "

Strange that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!

....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.

Strange that "

It's like you're implied that I attract perverts

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"No!

....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.

Strange that

It's like you're implied that I attract perverts "

You calling me a pervert?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!

....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.

Strange that

It's like you're implied that I attract perverts

You calling me a pervert? "

Are you a pervert?? Be honest now

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"No!

....but people still mistake me for being about 17/18 but it doesn't seem to put people off.

Strange that

It's like you're implied that I attract perverts

You calling me a pervert?

Are you a pervert?? Be honest now "

As far as you are concerned, most definitely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though iv got silver hair im told i look younger than my years,no wrinkles ya see!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to look a lot younger than my age up until I turned 40 - people used to ask my age and be shocked but now they don't say anything

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a pity in many ways that we have magnified the benefits of youth today. It used to be kids that emulated adults, wanting to appear older, now it's more often than not older adults who start emulating old teens somewhat.

Polyfilla is your friend. Followed by a few coats of high quality paint. But I am no DIYer, so please try on an inconspicuous area first.

My visible age varies a fair bit. I wake up and think it's halloween most mornings when I look in the mirror. If I'm rested (but not after a night's sleep) I can look 100X better and a few years younger.

I think if we just accept ourselves as we are and get on with life it's far healthier. I'm going to etch my bathroom mirror soon, so that it shows a foggy look, which I could accept.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

First thing in the morning I definitely look my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i get told all the time i look way way younger its a curse now but every one says it will be a blessing later. only time will tell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always assume I'm younger than my 21 year old brother - he haaaates it so obviously I milk it Think it's just having big eyes tbh.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Hey, as long as men find me attractive,

That's good enough for me and no I certainly don't feel my age.

I for one am growing old disgracefully lol

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I was told tonight that I look younger than I am - and it was a thorough inspection! That'll do nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody can ever guess my age, they always sat around mid to late twenties which I'm always happy to accept, apparently I'm a northern version of Benjamin button lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told tonight that I look younger than I am - and it was a thorough inspection! That'll do nicely. "
hey was he wearing his glasses hugs

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?"

Funnily enough only yesterday I said I need guys that are over 35 that look under 30.. As I like younger looking guys mostly but don't feel comfortable meeting anyone too young!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from when I couldn't get served in pubs back in the day for looking too young I think it's benefited me especially in these later years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before i joinned the world of fab i used to think that being told i look younger then i am was a good thing. But being here as made me think it goes against me. Would that put any girls off guys or vice versa?"

Yes it would put me off. Hate men that look younger, how dare they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the woman who owns the body of a much younger woman and the face of a much older one. Luckily, I'm only 28 in my head so it's all good."
Wish I was 28 in the head in fact I would be happy to be 40 in real life lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would want proof before chatting further/meeting so yes it does a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say I look late 20s which is all good. If I put a beanie hat on or something iblook younger due to my slightly receding hairline being covered and a few greys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get told often they can not believe i am 60 kept my looks and body in good shape with out trying very hard i go swimming every week thats all never been to a gym eat well and have a drink most days.

But it has its down side as well i know i get nasty comments from other women my age always dress smartly never tarty when people look at my photos on here been asked a few times is that me or someone else photos "

Must be something in the water around these parts , as I'm 61 and people often say what????.......nooooo....really?..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a nice compliment from a chap I was chatting to in a club last week. He said I looked good for my age. I think I look younger than I am because I have never smoked and have fewer wrinkles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get told i looked younger than i was...it was a common thing for me to get asked for ID when buying cigarettes in my 20s. Then i had kids and funnily enough i now look like a 42 year old mum. Who would have thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being told I only look mid 40's (who wouldn't at 54?), especially as when I was mid 40's I looked a lot older . I'm guessing it's got something to do with me now being single (less stress).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I received a nice compliment from a chap I was chatting to in a club last week. He said I looked good for my age. I think I look younger than I am because I have never smoked and have fewer wrinkles. "

Ive never smoked myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny - I've never heard anyone on Internet say they look older than they are.

Almost seems compulsory for people to say they look younger than they are. Hi, I'm 30/40/50 but everyone says I look younger.

See Pof etc. try asking a teenager how old you look and come back tell us

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Funny - I've never heard anyone on Internet say they look older than they are."

Hungover right now so definitely looking older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a nice compliment from a chap I was chatting to in a club last week. He said I looked good for my age. I think I look younger than I am because I have never smoked and have fewer wrinkles.

Ive never smoked myself.. "

Bet you wish you could sometimes tho!!!

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

They told me I look 24yo once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get told often they can not believe i am 60 kept my looks and body in good shape with out trying very hard i go swimming every week thats all never been to a gym eat well and have a drink most days.

But it has its down side as well i know i get nasty comments from other women my age always dress smartly never tarty when people look at my photos on here been asked a few times is that me or someone else photos

Must be something in the water around these parts , as I'm 61 and people often say what????.......nooooo....really?..lol"

Id love to pay that compliment to you in real life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often get told I look around mid twenties, apart from my grey hair.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I quite often get told I look around mid twenties, apart from my grey hair. "

Just for Men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite often get told I look around mid twenties, apart from my grey hair.

Just for Men? "

I've considered it but I'm too lazy to keep it up.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I quite often get told I look around mid twenties, apart from my grey hair. "

Well grey hair is better than no hair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do just for men, it looks terrible.

Keep the grey, it's very hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They told me I look 24yo once "

When you were 24?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I quite often get told I look around mid twenties, apart from my grey hair.

Just for Men?

I've considered it but I'm too lazy to keep it up."

I've grown out my hair dye too. I'm happy to go grey gracefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm regularly told I look nowhere near my age, so really pleased when that happens. How old I feel depends on what i'be been up to - if i've been in the gym it's all good, but if it's the paper Round in Beirut not so hot!

Enjoy it while it lasts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It almost as if there is a default condition that compels crossdressers to wear clothing more suited to someone 20 years younger......

Thank the lord....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird on the real world I always get told I look older. No ones said that here yet. I really am 29, hard life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told all the time I don't look my age. It is very flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is THAN, not then!

Thanks for the english lesson m8 "

It's mate not m8, no need to thank me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a theory......i think people's perceptions of what people of certain ages should look like are way out of balance with what people actually look like. That is why so many claim to be told they look younger than they actually are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weird on the real world I always get told I look older. No ones said that here yet. I really am 29, hard life "

You do look younger varra, sorry I peeped!!! Gulp great ass too I gotta say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone thinks I look 27ish when I'm 35. I always used to get asked for ID when I was younger in pubs even though I was the right age to be in there

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I look up to 12 years younger than I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a theory......i think people's perceptions of what people of certain ages should look like are way out of balance with what people actually look like. That is why so many claim to be told they look younger than they actually are. "

I think you're right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weird on the real world I always get told I look older. No ones said that here yet. I really am 29, hard life

You do look younger varra, sorry I peeped!!! Gulp great ass too I gotta say "

The power of the camera I guess . Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weird on the real world I always get told I look older. No ones said that here yet. I really am 29, hard life

You do look younger varra, sorry I peeped!!! Gulp great ass too I gotta say

The power of the camera I guess . Thanks"

Hmmm doubt it, some people just aren't photogenic, you obviously are, looks very scrumptious :-

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have a theory......i think people's perceptions of what people of certain ages should look like are way out of balance with what people actually look like. That is why so many claim to be told they look younger than they actually are.

I think you're right."

I concur. It would explain an awful lot (including why I always guess ages wrong).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't really consider age an issue, and am flexible as a result. The person matters, not their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look teenage and I'm 28! I hate it because I'm treated like a teen

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