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"i'm a total wall flower and will often say what i think others want to hear ![]() It's true. I told her to say that. ![]() | |||
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"i'm a total wall flower and will often say what i think others want to hear ![]() ![]() thank you Sir ![]() | |||
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"ye want me to pick yer skelfs oot??? ![]() Never had a prick in the arse so first time for everything ![]() | |||
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"I wish I was tall enough to climb onto a fence in the first place ![]() See i dont have that problem lol ![]() | |||
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"When we post on forums, especially on big sites like this, are we confident enough to post what we really feel, regardless of what others will think of us, or do we sit on the fence and try and be non committal because we dont like confrontation. I believe you should be true to yourself and post what you really feel. Noone else may agree with you, you may get people who come across as very blunt, or try and make you feel uncomfortable, but to me there is little point in trying to blend in with the crowd. But... from the point of say single guys who are hoping to get meets with certain ladies, would you rather sit on the fence and bypass anything that may get uncomfortable because you dont want to risk upsetting anyone who you'd like to meet. Or will you say what you feel. ![]() I dont think its a matter of confidence is it? What it is a matter of perception. ![]() | |||
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"I have tried to, but i cant, but in all honesty when i see others that do I think, oh come on dont be non committal. Ive learned loads from these forums. Views I may have had, when you see others challenging those and giving their reasons, its really interesting. is it men that sit on the fence more than women - are they just conditioned to say yes to everything we say ![]() i have seen it....but i hope it means they share your opinion! i like it that you can argue with someone on one thread and go and support them on another...there's the odd tiff, but they never seem to last and the good thing is, you do learn. | |||
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"Bet ya legs reach the floor at the same time too ![]() ![]() ![]() Thats the problem which picket fencing the pointed bit lol ![]() | |||
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"I have tried to, but i cant, but in all honesty when i see others that do I think, oh come on dont be non committal. Ive learned loads from these forums. Views I may have had, when you see others challenging those and giving their reasons, its really interesting. is it men that sit on the fence more than women - are they just conditioned to say yes to everything we say ![]() Whatever you say dear....ooops! Slipped back into married mode there!! ![]() | |||
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"When we post on forums, especially on big sites like this, are we confident enough to post what we really feel, regardless of what others will think of us, or do we sit on the fence and try and be non committal because we dont like confrontation. I believe you should be true to yourself and post what you really feel. Noone else may agree with you, you may get people who come across as very blunt, or try and make you feel uncomfortable, but to me there is little point in trying to blend in with the crowd. But... from the point of say single guys who are hoping to get meets with certain ladies, would you rather sit on the fence and bypass anything that may get uncomfortable because you dont want to risk upsetting anyone who you'd like to meet. Or will you say what you feel. ![]() I would say almost all people on the forums think about how they are perceived before posting. They may sit on the fence on some topics and quite rightly do so because venting, arguing or being confrontational will bring, scorn, avoidance and possibly a ban. An intelligent man/woman sits watches and assesses, the fool is the one who jumps in without thinking. I think its fair to summarise the fence sitters are considerate not to offend others, often intelligent and dare I say it smart for not upsetting potential meets. Also it’s a bit like saying if you get pulled up by the police whilst driving you should say what you think rather than using guile and diplomacy to reduce a potential negatives. Well that’s one way of looking at things. | |||
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" I would say almost all people on the forums think about how they are perceived before posting. They may sit on the fence on some topics and quite rightly do so because venting, arguing or being confrontational will bring, scorn, avoidance and possibly a ban. An intelligent man/woman sits watches and assesses, the fool is the one who jumps in without thinking. I think its fair to summarise the fence sitters are considerate not to offend others, often intelligent and dare I say it smart for not upsetting potential meets. Also it’s a bit like saying if you get pulled up by the police whilst driving you should say what you think rather than using guile and diplomacy to reduce a potential negatives. Well that’s one way of looking at things. " I couldn't agree less. | |||
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"sitting on the fence means you are not being honest to your self or others, but do see why some people keep stum or just nod in agreement, its much easier to do so. ![]() with out knowing everything and the person you cant always its not fair on people. And thats being honest. | |||
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"sitting on the fence means you are not being honest to your self or others, but do see why some people keep stum or just nod in agreement, its much easier to do so. ![]() personally, I just want to get along with every one, and perhaps the time i speak my mind best is when someone is rude, and deserves a reply befitting to them.. | |||
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"I am often surprised by the number of people that assume that because someone passes an opinion they are arguing or angry or attempting to be accepted by right by the majority. Can't recall who has attempted to define intelligence through the medium of forum post but to whoever it was i offer a resounding Bollocks !" Gan over 2010 your posts have been good and make me think at times ... which i like x | |||
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"sitting on the fence means you are not being honest to your self or others, but do see why some people keep stum or just nod in agreement, its much easier to do so. ![]() I agree, but sometimes I think people post very strong opinions knowing (hoping even) they will cause offence. We all edit what we say to people every single day, if we didn't you'd probably get a smack in the chops most days ![]() ![]() | |||
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"sitting on the fence means you are not being honest to your self or others, but do see why some people keep stum or just nod in agreement, its much easier to do so. ![]() ![]() ![]() Some people just like to take offence. It's amazing how many people rally to the cause of whiners. Playing victim is a tremendously powerful tactic for winning the less perceptive over. Make someone look bad and bathe in sympathy. | |||
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"I am often surprised by the number of people that assume that because someone passes an opinion they are arguing or angry or attempting to be accepted by (*as*) right by the majority. Can't recall who has attempted to define intelligence through the medium of forum post but to whoever it was i offer a resounding Bollocks !" Indeed. | |||
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"sitting on the fence means you are not being honest to your self or others, but do see why some people keep stum or just nod in agreement, its much easier to do so. ![]() ![]() ![]() How dare you!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If ever you took your hand of your bollocks and pointed the teeny thing straight at me THEN your intentions would be clear ( insert own smiley according to how much umbrage you have taken ) pssssssssst none intended tis all in the depth of the beholder." Is it not in the depth of the receiver??? ![]() | |||
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"BTW _nvictus... I never know what the smileys mean ....... here bel.... Shit I'll start a post " Definition of Fab smileys: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I do think there is a section of single males that sniff around the single females like horny dogs, nodding their heads in agreement at anything they say. Personally I couldn't be arsed I have way too inflated an ego to curb what I say. I do however try not to upset people in the process." Ooooh I do like you!!! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I do think there is a section of single males that sniff around the single females like horny dogs, nodding their heads in agreement at anything they say. Personally I couldn't be arsed I have way too inflated an ego to curb what I say. I do however try not to upset people in the process. Ooooh I do like you!!! ![]() ![]() I completely disagree woman! And I have a nice bum....shame you're not closer really! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"BTW _nvictus... I never know what the smileys mean ....... here bel.... Shit I'll start a post Definition of Fab smileys: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I thought: ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"BTW _nvictus... I never know what the smileys mean ....... here bel.... Shit I'll start a post Definition of Fab smileys: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No wonder we all argue so much! Our smileys are all different! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I do think there is a section of single males that sniff around the single females like horny dogs, nodding their heads in agreement at anything they say. Personally I couldn't be arsed I have way too inflated an ego to curb what I say. I do however try not to upset people in the process. Ooooh I do like you!!! ![]() ![]() I like you to lots but I'm also vewy vewy fwitoned of you. ![]() | |||
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"I do think there is a section of single males that sniff around the single females like horny dogs, nodding their heads in agreement at anything they say. Personally I couldn't be arsed I have way too inflated an ego to curb what I say. I do however try not to upset people in the process. Ooooh I do like you!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh I'm weally, weally a fwuffy, wuffy puddy tat: in this cold weather I warm up the lube! Christmas makes me soft! ![]() | |||
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"What did Polo say? Only I was in the back dancing... ![]() Oi! Back in the back you!… I’ve put us down for a duet “Dead Ringer for Love”… you’re being Cher btw. | |||
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