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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What makes a guys message stand out to you ladies?

I'm fed up of guys tirelessly sending messages to women on here and clogging up there inbox when there time wasters anyway!

Let the serious guys get noticed!!

Rant over

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You're three days early, it's Thursday you're looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a guys message stand out to you ladies?

I'm fed up of guys tirelessly sending messages to women on here and clogging up there inbox when there time wasters anyway!

Let the serious guys get noticed!!

Rant over"

How do you know they are all timewasters?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, don't concern yourself with what you think other people do - do your own thing and your fab experience will be happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im confused as to how you get to read other peoples messages...im very nosy,i'd love to be able to do that!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not just men......"I'm fed up of guys tirelessly sending messages to women on here and clogging up there inbox when there time wasters anyway!....."

I received the most filthy message of a lady recently and it almost put me off my luncheon.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Lol - no idea on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are sending messages to lots of ladies why are you different to the other fellas who are doing the same?

Distil that down and put it into words, pictures, song or the power of dance. And there's your answer.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"im confused as to how you get to read other peoples messages...im very nosy,i'd love to be able to do that!"

You can read mine

"Oh steve, you're so handsome and a good fuck and can I meet you asap when I've done the shopping ps have you got a freezer for the chips?"*

*not really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a guys message stand out to you ladies?

I'm fed up of guys tirelessly sending messages to women on here and clogging up there inbox when there time wasters anyway!

Let the serious guys get noticed!!

Rant over"

Is that one of those white knight posts? They usually end up going wrong ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message: I want to destroy your pussey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice, don't go for the scattergun approach. Message a small number of people you really like the look of, but do it properly and make it personal. Good luck!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"My advice, don't go for the scattergun approach. Message a small number of people you really like the look of, but do it properly and make it personal. Good luck! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice, don't go for the scattergun approach. Message a small number of people you really like the look of, but do it properly and make it personal. Good luck! "

And if it doesn't work, keep messaging them. Persistence is attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get ur best best picture and message a few sentences. Don't make too much into the first message. Mostly if he or she likes the looks of u, you'll get a message. The words will sweeten the deal. Once talking then move in with the smoother shit to show depth. No point using all ur material on every girl. Will exhaust u and get u feeling there's something wrong with u when there isn't. On average even stud guys struggle on these sites compared to average females. It's just how it goes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a guys message stand out to you ladies?

I'm fed up of guys tirelessly sending messages to women on here and clogging up there inbox when there time wasters anyway!

Let the serious guys get noticed!!

Rant over"

I think there's 4 main put offs in a message;

A message that says nothing, either because it's three words long, written in txtspk or boringly generic.

A message from someone who doesn't fit the type they're looking for, DESPITE that type being clearly stated on their profile.

A repeated message, identical to the letter in one they sent the same woman less than a few days ago. This gives the impression that the guy is simply blasting out the same message to every woman within a certain radius that is online. This impression is probably true.

Four is applicable not to every woman, but the majority I'd imagine; messages without piccies, women like to appreciate the goods before trying and a blurry shot of your bell end does not deliver the goods!

Hardly rocket science.

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