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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Off the back of another thread that's got me thinking..

Single ladies..would you attend a club on a night when no single men were allowed?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you do there if no men was allowed?.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

No

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I would but only because I'm not into the club scene and only go for socials occasionally.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I would if no couples were allowed though

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Off the back of another thread that's got me thinking..

Single ladies..would you attend a club on a night when no single men were allowed? "

Nope, but then I am straight, and why I would never entertain the club we have up here as no single men allowed (but then it isn't really a swingers club)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I like to have the option to play or not with single men

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, that's the purpose of going for me

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"What would you do there if no men was allowed?."

Some clubs are couples and single fems only on some nights x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do there if no men was allowed?.

Some clubs are couples and single fems only on some nights x"
Ah yes. I didn't think of that x.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I would if no couples were allowed though"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever a club offers, it wouldn't be somewhere I would be comfortable having sex.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have been on couple/single fem nights, usually with a male friend (and sometimes a female one too) but I much prefer nights with single men there and if going alone would only go on such nights.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"I have been on couple/single fem nights, usually with a male friend (and sometimes a female one too) but I much prefer nights with single men there and if going alone would only go on such nights.

"

Yeah I would go on such a night if I was going with someone but def not if I was attending purely as a single fem

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nah... I like options.

I think it's a great idea for the club to open a little early to show new people round and explain how things work without any pressure though. I think that would encourage a whole lot of single girls to have the confidence to go along on their own.

It can be done with hand holders though so new folks can come without feeling intimidated or scared. I don't know if that still happens but if not it should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you do there if no men was allowed?."

I'd just have sex with the ladies instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I want to play I'd like single guys to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman who is completely not single....I even prefer nights where single men are allowed. The greater the number and type of people present, the more fun and interesting it is.

If I were ever to go to a club alone, which I have never done, I would rather go on a night when single men were allowed as well. Not only are there more people, but I generally feel that the atmosphere is more friendly and relaxed.

Sorry for nosing in on another single woman thread

-Courtney

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"It can be done with hand holders though so new folks can come without feeling intimidated or scared. I don't know if that still happens but if not it should. "

Its not hands I hold when I am at clubs.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Nah... I like options.

I think it's a great idea for the club to open a little early to show new people round and explain how things work without any pressure though. I think that would encourage a whole lot of single girls to have the confidence to go along on their own.

It can be done with hand holders though so new folks can come without feeling intimidated or scared. I don't know if that still happens but if not it should. "

Should I offer my services to clubs to be a handholder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, would be boring & pointless.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"As a woman who is completely not single....I even prefer nights where single men are allowed. The greater the number and type of people present, the more fun and interesting it is.

If I were ever to go to a club alone, which I have never done, I would rather go on a night when single men were allowed as well. Not only are there more people, but I generally feel that the atmosphere is more friendly and relaxed.

Sorry for nosing in on another single woman thread

-Courtney"

Lol, I only addressed it to single ladies as on another thread some people were saying you don't see many in clubs. I thought that maybe one of the reasons were the clubs that don't allow single guys on certain nights. And from the answers on this thread (even though I know it's only a tiny percentage of people) looks like I might be right z

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Nah... I like options.

I think it's a great idea for the club to open a little early to show new people round and explain how things work without any pressure though. I think that would encourage a whole lot of single girls to have the confidence to go along on their own.

It can be done with hand holders though so new folks can come without feeling intimidated or scared. I don't know if that still happens but if not it should.

Should I offer my services to clubs to be a handholder? "

I think the clubs are missing a trick by not asking their regulars to handhold for an hour at the start of the evening. I know we aren't kids but it was friggin scarey the first time I went. I'd go along on my own now but I would never have done that the first time. I used to be in total awe of Polo being a regular in clubs... from a business angle, it's a no brainer to get more single women through the door.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It can be done with hand holders though so new folks can come without feeling intimidated or scared. I don't know if that still happens but if not it should.

Its not hands I hold when I am at clubs. "

Indeed not but would you mind hanging out with a new person at the beginning of the evening to show them round for an hour and sharing your knowledge of the club scene?

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I go for the social scene so I have no credible answer

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

Should I offer my services to clubs to be a handholder?

I think the clubs are missing a trick by not asking their regulars to handhold for an hour at the start of the evening. I know we aren't kids but it was friggin scarey the first time I went. I'd go along on my own now but I would never have done that the first time. I used to be in total awe of Polo being a regular in clubs... from a business angle, it's a no brainer to get more single women through the door. "

There are some hands I might struggle to hold.

On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I go for the social scene so I have no credible answer "

So you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Should I offer my services to clubs to be a handholder?

I think the clubs are missing a trick by not asking their regulars to handhold for an hour at the start of the evening. I know we aren't kids but it was friggin scarey the first time I went. I'd go along on my own now but I would never have done that the first time. I used to be in total awe of Polo being a regular in clubs... from a business angle, it's a no brainer to get more single women through the door.

There are some hands I might struggle to hold.

On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

"

I can't speak for other couples, but we have never approached a single woman in a club. It seems...daunting. But we have approached couples.

-Courtney

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

There are some hands I might struggle to hold.

On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

"

I don't mean literally doofus! I mean in general. Would you be happy showing a single bloke round?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are some hands I might struggle to hold.

On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

I don't mean literally doofus! I mean in general. Would you be happy showing a single bloke round? "

I have shown single men around. But this is during the day when it's not so busy. I've seen a single man sitting on his own and gone and spoken to him & shown him round the place. I was looked after very well on my first visit so I want to make other newbies feel welcome on their first time too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

There are some hands I might struggle to hold.

On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

I don't mean literally doofus! I mean in general. Would you be happy showing a single bloke round? "

I have, without being asked, in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no tho i wouldnt go to a club anyway aint my scene

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

There are some hands I might struggle to hold.

On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

I don't mean literally doofus! I mean in general. Would you be happy showing a single bloke round?

I have shown single men around. But this is during the day when it's not so busy. I've seen a single man sitting on his own and gone and spoken to him & shown him round the place. I was looked after very well on my first visit so I want to make other newbies feel welcome on their first time too."

That's exactly why I'm nice to newbies when they turn up here. People looked after me when I started... I was super lucky in that respect and I'm still friends with the same crowd now.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Nope, like to have a choice ??

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I've not been to a club as I'm too chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been to a club as I'm too chicken "

I'll go with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually discovered fab from going to a club on my own, which isn't the usual progression, but hey, I made some good friends and have been very lucky to find willing victims each visit lol

I am intrigued that some couples find single women hard to approach, makes me feel a little less like a knobhead because I'm terrible at making moves when it comes to single women, although I'm getting more confident and I'm not as useless as I was lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"On a divergence from the main thread, I find it much harder to get any action when I go on my own. If I go with a male friend (even though we are platonic) I get offers galore. On my own I appear to be untouchable.

"

Ditto, although it doesn't have to be a male friend. Caz draws 'em in and I benefit.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Off the back of another thread that's got me thinking..

Single ladies..would you attend a club on a night when no single men were allowed? "

Both my local clubs are couples and single ladies only on Saturday nights. Shame really as Saturday night is my favourite night of the week to go out.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

No. I don't go to swingers clubs to listen to music or dance to anyone else's tune. I go to meet like minded folk who want to ... 'Party'...

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I go for the social scene so I have no credible answer

So you say.

"

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I've not been to a club as I'm too chicken "

OK I'll be your hand holder if you want

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