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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall

At the end of August I turned 41 which is a curse instantly in the space of a day suddenly out of age range of what so many people are looking for. One of my close female friends described me as being like having to 20 year olds. The only thing that has changed is she now says it's like having a 20 year and 21 year old in the bedroom. Just think how harsh these mail filters can be. Anyone else feel they have been written off prematurely???

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you may now have entered a new age range

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There are loads of women who won't care about your extra year. Approach them.

I don't feel any older now than I did when I was 20. I'm just much more in touch with myself. There's joy in having a younger outlook with the experience age brings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got a 60yr upper limit on your preferences, so spare a thought for those 61yr old hotties that you wont meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope - we are over the 50 marker and never had so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the transition from 45 to 46 would be bad, but there's been no bad bumps, only good humps

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Nope

We were over 40 when we started and there are plenty out there looking our age group.

You'll be fine

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's out of your control, no point worrying about the negative aspects...stay positive

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I thought I'd get less messages when I turned 50 apparently there seems to be a market for the 50+

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Where would the softer filter option stop?

There are those who set out their age preference but don't set their filters to block those outwith that preference.

It's not the end of the world.

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"There are loads of women who won't care about your extra year. Approach them.

I don't feel any older now than I did when I was 20. I'm just much more in touch with myself. There's joy in having a younger outlook with the experience age brings.

That's thing it doesn't bother me I am happy to approach anyone it's just the automatic exclusion from the message filters that's the problem.

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"You've got a 60yr upper limit on your preferences, so spare a thought for those 61yr old hotties that you wont meet"

Lmao I guess you are right maybe fairer to remove my upper lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck it up buttercup plenty will meet you. You have the verifications that look like you have built up a little network of friends.

We use the age limits as an extra filter but go looking regularly outside them. Many we know do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your pain, best way around it is to go to clubs and socials. People don't care when you're standing in front of them

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"Suck it up buttercup plenty will meet you. You have the verifications that look like you have built up a little network of friends.

We use the age limits as an extra filter but go looking regularly outside them. Many we know do the same. "

Great pictures by the way,it was more meant as observation than a moan lol.

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"I understand your pain, best way around it is to go to clubs and socials. People don't care when you're standing in front of them"

Don't get me wrong I go to clubs and parties all the time I am not short of people to meet its just an observation at how harsh the filters can be.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Try being a 53 yr old bisexual smoker, it's heaps of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The filters aren't harsh...the guys that won't meet me are harsh....damn them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry, sure you will be fine

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Hi

If they've messaged you already then you can keep in touch and still message. Maybe everyone should check their filters occasionally they may need tweaking! Lol

I'm having fun at 47

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By *hiterabbit69Man
over a year ago

Romford


"At the end of August I turned 41 which is a curse instantly in the space of a day suddenly out of age range of what so many people are looking for. One of my close female friends described me as being like having to 20 year olds. The only thing that has changed is she now says it's like having a 20 year and 21 year old in the bedroom. Just think how harsh these mail filters can be. Anyone else feel they have been written off prematurely???"

Get thyself to a fetish site and marvel at the phenomena of babygirl/daddy fetishists.

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"The filters aren't harsh...the guys that won't meet me are harsh....damn them all "

Holy shitttttt looking at your pictures I find it hard to believe any guy wouldn't want to meet you, with the obvious exception of them being homosexual lol.

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"Hi

If they've messaged you already then you can keep in touch and still message. Maybe everyone should check their filters occasionally they may need tweaking! Lol

I'm having fun at

"

Still having fun it's just a pain that one day you can message the next you are chopped liver lol.

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By *inger Si OP   Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"At the end of August I turned 41 which is a curse instantly in the space of a day suddenly out of age range of what so many people are looking for. One of my close female friends described me as being like having to 20 year olds. The only thing that has changed is she now says it's like having a 20 year and 21 year old in the bedroom. Just think how harsh these mail filters can be. Anyone else feel they have been written off prematurely???

Get thyself to a fetish site and marvel at the phenomena of babygirl/daddy fetishists."

Interesting lol the thing is I don't know that would entirely work as I still feel like I am in my twenties. Although it's something to explore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you now fall out of some peoples age range. But you might actually now come INTO the age range of a whole lot of others!

Don't worry about those you can't meet, concentrate on those you can!

Oh, and if you're nice to some people, sometimes they can be flexible on filters ...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I noticed I was out of some peoples age ranges when I turned 45 but I'm well within a lot of other people's

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