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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you step oot of it or stay were you know your happy and that feeling of being safe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my private or sex life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any walk of life really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my working life im about to step into the unknown and take a chance instead of playing it safe. Im nervous as hell but i dont want the regret years down the line.

Sex life i just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my working life im about to step into the unknown and take a chance instead of playing it safe. Im nervous as hell but i dont want the regret years down the line.

Sex life i just go with the flow"

Good luck for the future, sounds great

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I fluctuate, outside of work I'm not the greatest planner and tend to be spontaneous which stretches me outside of my comfort zone. Although I'm more impulsive in most things and that zone can be stretched at those times, for good and 'well that was a life experience' times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step out of it but boy is it a struggle battling on and I think I might get there

Bit not sure it's good to do all the time occasionally yes of course but you got to prepare yourself before you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to push my boundaries as I'd hate to become trapped in some sort of stasis, afraid afraid to try new things.

For example, I have aspergers and a bit of social anxiety as a result, so I'll message people on here who I like the look of (for friendship or sex) so it doesn't get the better of me.

In real life my most recent boundary pushing is joining a gym. I've never set foot in one before as they terrify me, but I have my induction session tomorrow!

I know these things probably seem minor to most people, but to me they're big achievements and I'm dead chuffed with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my working life im about to step into the unknown and take a chance instead of playing it safe. Im nervous as hell but i dont want the regret years down the line.

Sex life i just go with the flow

Good luck for the future, sounds great "

Thank you.

How about yourself then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fluctuate, outside of work I'm not the greatest planner and tend to be spontaneous which stretches me outside of my comfort zone. Although I'm more impulsive in most things and that zone can be stretched at those times, for good and 'well that was a life experience' times "

Spontaneity can definitely take you oot of your comfort zone I enjoy being spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to push my boundaries as I'd hate to become trapped in some sort of stasis, afraid afraid to try new things.

For example, I have aspergers and a bit of social anxiety as a result, so I'll message people on here who I like the look of (for friendship or sex) so it doesn't get the better of me.

In real life my most recent boundary pushing is joining a gym. I've never set foot in one before as they terrify me, but I have my induction session tomorrow!

I know these things probably seem minor to most people, but to me they're big achievements and I'm dead chuffed with myself."

Not minor at all...well done you and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my working life im about to step into the unknown and take a chance instead of playing it safe. Im nervous as hell but i dont want the regret years down the line.

Sex life i just go with the flow

Good luck for the future, sounds great

Thank you.

How about yourself then?"

I step oot of mine regularly , sometimes it can be daunting other times its amazing .I enjoy pushing boundaries and I always know I can run back to the comfort zone if I desire.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I fluctuate, outside of work I'm not the greatest planner and tend to be spontaneous which stretches me outside of my comfort zone. Although I'm more impulsive in most things and that zone can be stretched at those times, for good and 'well that was a life experience' times

Spontaneity can definitely take you oot of your comfort zone I enjoy being spontaneous "

Absolutely, keeps things interesting I say. Also, knowing there's a safety net (comfort zone) should things not go as planned'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you step oot of it or stay were you know your happy and that feeling of being safe..

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hey sexy yes,just stay in bed its cold out here and if it's about men don't meet em " theyre bad" stick to women at least they smell nice you can always wear ear defenders ,just a thought

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I like to push my boundaries as I'd hate to become trapped in some sort of stasis, afraid afraid to try new things.

For example, I have aspergers and a bit of social anxiety as a result, so I'll message people on here who I like the look of (for friendship or sex) so it doesn't get the better of me.

In real life my most recent boundary pushing is joining a gym. I've never set foot in one before as they terrify me, but I have my induction session tomorrow!

I know these things probably seem minor to most people, but to me they're big achievements and I'm dead chuffed with myself."

Everything is relative, so whether it's minor to others doesn't matter, you should be rightly chuffed

Hope the induction goes well, gyms are quite swish now I believe, not all spit and sawdust, but the fair bit of grunting I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are times I don't realise I'm out of my comfort zone until after the event, however, there are also times I'm so overwhelmed that I freeze up and cannot continue. Surprisingly, it's simpler things that this happens with, and the stuff other people find harder, I'm fine with

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I move in both zones, just to keep my scales balanced (which I might add is bloody hard at times)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I move in both zones, just to keep my scales balanced (which I might add is bloody hard at times) "
yes you're gorgeous but your lower half outweighs your top ,it's all about the pivot point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning lovely

You know all too well I do on occasions

Sometimes they are disasters, but sometimes it can one of the best things Iv done moments x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning lovely

You know all too well I do on occasions

Sometimes they are disasters, but sometimes it can one of the best things Iv done moments x"

Good morning lovely...yes I do know that and I take my hat of to you for it x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I drift over the edges a fair bit but doing what you love is no bad thing. I'm not on a continuous pursuit of novelty but some for variety is cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning lovely

You know all too well I do on occasions

Sometimes they are disasters, but sometimes it can one of the best things Iv done moments x

Good morning lovely...yes I do know that and I take my hat of to you for it x"
sexy do you have long nails, you are always putting your finger in wrong hole xxxx damn qwerty keyboards and damn fat fingers

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I move in both zones, just to keep my scales balanced (which I might add is bloody hard at times) yes you're gorgeous but your lower half outweighs your top ,it's all about the pivot point x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I move in both zones, just to keep my scales balanced (which I might add is bloody hard at times) yes you're gorgeous but your lower half outweighs your top ,it's all about the pivot point x

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well it is a gorgeous bottie

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Do you step oot of it or stay were you know your happy and that feeling of being safe..

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I don't think I'd call it a comfort zone. It's not always comfortable. In the last few years though I've been tentatively moving out of this place. I've realised that essentially I'm never actually truly happy or truly myself in this 'comfort zone'. I NEED to step out of it more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you step oot of it or stay were you know your happy and that feeling of being safe..

I don't think I'd call it a comfort zone. It's not always comfortable. In the last few years though I've been tentatively moving out of this place. I've realised that essentially I'm never actually truly happy or truly myself in this 'comfort zone'. I NEED to step out of it more."

That's the first step to doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always good to do one thing every day that pops you out of your comfort zone.

It gives you a feeling of being alive , and as long as it doesn't endanger others

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Its always good to do one thing every day that pops you out of your comfort zone.

It gives you a feeling of being alive , and as long as it doesn't endanger others "

I think it was Eleanor Roosevelt who said 'Do one thing every day that scares you'. Not sure if that's possible. But I like the idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its always good to do one thing every day that pops you out of your comfort zone.

It gives you a feeling of being alive , and as long as it doesn't endanger others

I think it was Eleanor Roosevelt who said 'Do one thing every day that scares you'. Not sure if that's possible. But I like the idea."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stepping out of my comfort zone all the time now and it's a good feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always step out of my comfort zone damn nerve racking at time but exciting to i learnt the hard way that lifes to short so i push my boundaries and live for the both of us now

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey

I believe stepping outside your comfort zone is the best way to accelerate things. If we don't take chances we just tick along with little change or impact.

Even when the result hasn't been a good one, it's still had it's learnings, but on the whole 90% of the time it's turned out to be a fantastic experience. This is in both my work and private life.

Fab has definitely given me plenty of opportunities to test this theory!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I move in both zones, just to keep my scales balanced (which I might add is bloody hard at times) yes you're gorgeous but your lower half outweighs your top ,it's all about the pivot point x "

Are you saying LPP has a fat arse?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I get restless if there's no challenge

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