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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm facing a bit of a moral dilemma.

I have a 19 year old lad who I subcontract work to and he often works along side me.

He was suggested to me do? a mate who knows his mum as someone who I could call on to do jobs I don't have time to do and so can make a bit of profit rather than turn the work down.

Over time his mum and I have become mates, she knows my nsa lifestyle choice and understands why I choose not to form emotional attachments at the moment.

Now I'm a bit of a cheeky chap so when she invited me over for a takeaway I instantly responded "just a takeaway hey?", an auto flirt reaction, to which she responded "well we could always fuck"

She is quite serious and up for it and understands that it would be a one off but I have no idea how her son would react...

So...

What would you do?

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Shag her , and say nowt to her son ... Simples

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wouldn't mix business with pleasure no matter how tempting. You could ask him 'can I fuck your mum?' And see his reaction...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I wouldn't mix business with pleasure no matter how tempting. You could ask him 'can I fuck your mum?' And see his reaction..."

Brings a whole new meaning to the age old mum jokes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The thing is he lives with her.

At 19 he's pretty clued up and from all accounts has no issue with his mum having an active sex life and I did ask her how she thought he might take it - she said "oh he'll be fine"

The problem is this has happened today and she wants me to go round this evening.

He is out but will be home later - I wouldn't even contemate it if I thought he was going to be subjected to the sounds of us fucking but he's going to know in the morning....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're both adults and it's nothing to do with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is he lives with her.

At 19 he's pretty clued up and from all accounts has no issue with his mum having an active sex life and I did ask her how she thought he might take it - she said "oh he'll be fine"

The problem is this has happened today and she wants me to go round this evening.

He is out but will be home later - I wouldn't even contemate it if I thought he was going to be subjected to the sounds of us fucking but he's going to know in the morning...."

you don't have to stay the night

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By *ornynwcplCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Invite her to your place?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Dont invite the son in..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The thing is he lives with her.

At 19 he's pretty clued up and from all accounts has no issue with his mum having an active sex life and I did ask her how she thought he might take it - she said "oh he'll be fine"

The problem is this has happened today and she wants me to go round this evening.

He is out but will be home later - I wouldn't even contemate it if I thought he was going to be subjected to the sounds of us fucking but he's going to know in the morning....

you don't have to stay the night "

She lives a bit far out for taxis and is planning for us to have a few glasses of wine so staying the night is pretty much the only option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give him a fiver and tell him to go to the movies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go eat your takeaway and then eat each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Invite her to your place? "

I did but she declined as she feels more relaxed at home.

She has had guys round before and from what I can gather her son has been fine....maybe I'm over thinking it?

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By *ucks4funCouple
over a year ago

london

Yes yes the smart choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I wouldn't mix business with pleasure no matter how tempting. You could ask him 'can I fuck your mum?' And see his reaction..."

This!!!

But it looks like were talking for deaf ears, you've already started diggin' yourself in hole...
"She lives a bit far out for taxis and is planning for us to have a few glasses of wine so staying the night is pretty much the only option"

Good luck with the business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In fact why the hell not? I'll tell her my concerns and ask if she will mind me texting him to check he will be ok with it

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol


"

I'm seriously considering sending him a text asking if it would bother him if I did fuck his mum"

Oh PLEASE let us know how that goes

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just tell him she's invited you over for a takeaway?

No need to mention sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In fact why the hell not? I'll tell her my concerns and ask if she will mind me texting him to check he will be ok with it"
dude if you txt me to ask if you could fuck my mum I'd prob be mortified just screw her before you eat then b4 he gets home and kip in spare room

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't mean to delete that! Got over zealous hitting the back arrow on my phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you more mates with his mum than you are with him? That's how I read things from the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You;ve clearly got reservations, listen to your instincts as the potential for drama is clearly worrying you

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The thing is he lives with her.

At 19 he's pretty clued up and from all accounts has no issue with his mum having an active sex life and I did ask her how she thought he might take it - she said "oh he'll be fine"

The problem is this has happened today and she wants me to go round this evening.

He is out but will be home later - I wouldn't even contemate it if I thought he was going to be subjected to the sounds of us fucking but he's going to know in the morning...."

Okay... my take on it? Explain to his Mum that you'd like to but you're not entirely comfortable with the situation and then perhaps ask your colleague how he'd feel if you asked his Mum out on a date? That way you'll gauge his reaction and go from there. If he has a problem with that, I would be inclined to steer clear.

If he's cool with that then take her out for dinner then fuck her. It's a delicate subject, think with the brain in your head rather than the one in your pants.

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By *oopy097Man
over a year ago

east mids

put a chair under his door handle, fuck her very loudly and then fuck off... wait for him to complain about a 'unknown man'fucking his mum and bitch about him together lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck the son and then see how the mum feels about your nsa lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big believer in your gut instinct, your worried about the son that you work with and that's brilliant but at the same time do you want to fuck her, is it going to be a one time thing, will she expect it more and more (women are fickle remember!).

Go with your gut x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just got off the phone to his mum, she's told him I'm staying the night but didn't go into details.

I explained my reservations and so the takeaway is going to be ordered later and I'll stay in the spare room! Result!

Thanks for helping me think with the correct organ....I just couldn't see past the issue

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Just got off the phone to his mum, she's told him I'm staying the night but didn't go into details.

I explained my reservations and so the takeaway is going to be ordered later and I'll stay in the spare room! Result!

Thanks for helping me think with the correct organ....I just couldn't see past the issue "

Have a nice evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"put a chair under his door handle, fuck her very loudly and then fuck off... wait for him to complain about a 'unknown man'fucking his mum and bitch about him together lol."

Love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"put a chair under his door handle, fuck her very loudly and then fuck off... wait for him to complain about a 'unknown man'fucking his mum and bitch about him together lol."

now that would be funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm off for takeaway, have fun, play nicely and stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got off the phone to his mum, she's told him I'm staying the night but didn't go into details.

I explained my reservations and so the takeaway is going to be ordered later and I'll stay in the spare room! Result!

Thanks for helping me think with the correct organ....I just couldn't see past the issue "
winner winner chicken dinner

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I'd fuck the son and then see how the mum feels about your nsa lifestyle "

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