FabSwingers.com forum: What has FAB taught you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just recently there have been certain things I have learnt through FAB especially the forums the biggest clear one for me is never be afraid to ask.

I used to look at a lot of the regular forum users and think I would never stand a chance. Just recently that has changed and I'm so damn happy

So what have you learnt?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

loads of people think differently to me, that doesn't make them wrong

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That I'm pretty sane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there is a place where you can express your deepest sexual side openly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that the queen owns a 6th of worlds land mass

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I'm pretty sane

Lol love that especially as your profile pic of the chicken in your bra proves how sane you really are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.

A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I'm pretty sane

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"That I'm pretty sane

Lol love that especially as your profile pic of the chicken in your bra proves how sane you really are lol

Xx"

Don't disrespect Colin he is a loyal cock...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I'm pretty sane

Lol love that especially as your profile pic of the chicken in your bra proves how sane you really are lol

Don't disrespect Colin he is a loyal cock...

Oh you can't beat a good loyal cock

Apologies Colin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.

A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want. "

Agreed on both counts

Sadly the second one is something many of us can't change which is a great shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it is, in some cases, possible for a guy to fuck his own ass. And take pics at the same time.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I'm pretty sane

*chokes on coffee*

Fuck that's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've learnt to be a bit bolder and be honest and say what I want and I've also learnt my love of arses gets me what I want! X

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

There are some genuinely lovely women out there. Real God's honest women.

Women are more perverted than men.

Some people on here are crazier than shithouse rats but this still doesn't stop them getting meets.

If you're a man, having a great body will really help to get you noticed.

I'm not as physically unappealing as I thought.

There's way too much shaving going on.

Women go crazy for mens bums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not really a proper swinger. That I need some strings and like to belong. Luckily I found what I needed....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"That I'm not really a proper swinger. That I need some strings and like to belong. Luckily I found what I needed....

That Jinty McGinty isn't her real name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I'm not really a proper swinger. That I need some strings and like to belong. Luckily I found what I needed....

That Jinty McGinty isn't her real name

Shoosht you!!!! It is so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confirmed that it's probably worth waiting for the good people in life.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

There are some wonderful people on here.

That some swingers aren't as open minded as one would hope.

That despite 12 years of no cock (before March), it can be quite fun.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"That I'm not really a proper swinger. That I need some strings and like to belong. Luckily I found what I needed....

That Jinty McGinty isn't her real name

Shoosht you!!!! It is so...

Yeah we hen, thousands would believe you

Derby is only aboot ....... that far away on the map if ya look at it upside doon, then ya can tell me in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To take everything with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Patience

Have you been private messaging Shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To take everything with a pinch of salt.

Especially tequila

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That if you have a shed, you only need one man for a gang bang crew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To follow your gut instinct...

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There are some really nice people on here. Red

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

How easy it is to make a major difference in others' lives.

And what great people there are here, most of them likely to not meet each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are some really nice people on here. Red "

You just have to take the time to find them X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To follow your gut instinct..."

Absolutely good shout indeed sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some people really are as shallow as they seem

That some people really are fantastic and genuinely warm

That I am an attractive person...

To be honest theres loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some really nice people on here. Red

You just have to take the time to find them X "

Or go let them find you as the case may be

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Don't believe or trust anything your told

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I've much to learn and do

That I'm happier with NSA

There's also some that I cannot mention but the biggest one is

I can still be myself, and I can still have sex, and love, sex, and relationships are different words for a reason

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

That anything is possible and although there are some really rude, scary people on here - the nice ones outnumber them.

It has also helped push my boundaries and allowed me to me meet someone I would have discounted.....you know who you are ??????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.

A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want. "

same - and that some dont learn their lesson and keep on doing the same - hurts people when it doesnt need to -

i for one have toughened up a lot and not always i think in a good way - i always used to think good of people and now it takes a long time to trust a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A positive answer: How it's changed my opinion on on things and people.

A Negative: learning how much men and some women lie. And to lie to get what they want.

same - and that some dont learn their lesson and keep on doing the same - hurts people when it doesnt need to -

i for one have toughened up a lot and not always i think in a good way - i always used to think good of people and now it takes a long time to trust a person "

Sadly, I start from not trusting new people until I know them better

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"There are some genuinely lovely women out there. Real God's honest women.

Women are more perverted than men.

Some people on here are crazier than shithouse rats but this still doesn't stop them getting meets.

If you're a man, having a great body will really help to get you noticed.

I'm not as physically unappealing as I thought.

There's way too much shaving going on.

Women go crazy for mens bums!"

I seem to be agreeing with you rather frequently today. Sorry, I'll stop stalking you soon.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

I already knew most but fab gave me a reminder.

Gut feel is real and exists for a reason.

From general contact not meets - Lies, bulls#it, no morals, unhappy in themselves is part of more people's make up than expected.

The person described is rarely the reality.

You certainly have to dig for diamond people.

Shyt or synthetic personas soon kill beauty or appeal.

Good people, and there's many about, are worth their weight in gold.

Some couples have the most amazing relationships. To be trusted & welcomed into that socially & sexually is quite something.

I never fail to appreciate savvy, switched on, good minded others.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That I'm not cut out for NSA so meet rarely but when I do meet I have amazing sex and a laugh and go on my merry way...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That there are other more needy people than myself, and that I should let them have a go first before I get shot down in flames

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That people lie.

That my gut instinct is always right.

That I like watersports.

That I love bedroom shoes.

That I like sploshing.

That people can be unkind.

That I like being kind to newbies.

That I'm quite funny sometimes.

That I'm fair and quite a reasonable person.

That I like people.

That I like latex.

And bondage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not a lonely muppet.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"There are some genuinely lovely women out there. Real God's honest women.

Women are more perverted than men.

Some people on here are crazier than shithouse rats but this still doesn't stop them getting meets.

If you're a man, having a great body will really help to get you noticed.

I'm not as physically unappealing as I thought.

There's way too much shaving going on.

Women go crazy for mens bums!

I seem to be agreeing with you rather frequently today. Sorry, I'll stop stalking you soon."

Woo hoo!! Looks like I've got my first Fab stalker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should 'go with my gut'.

That married men in particular are incredibly persistent!

That if you're patient, the right people will come along and make you smile.

That a cock-shot and 'Hi Babe/hun' grinds my gears.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that people can do the same over and over and over and never click that the outcome is driven by this, if they don't change THEIR approach, they will never get what they seek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That anything is possible and although there are some really rude, scary people on here - the nice ones outnumber them.

It has also helped push my boundaries and allowed me to me meet someone I would have discounted.....you know who you are ??????????????"

Was he black and furry and called Marshall X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To trust myself because I'm generally right. And that I can overcome shyness and enjoy meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To trust myself because I'm generally right. And that I can overcome shyness and enjoy meeting new people. "

It's amazing how many people still feel shy despite the naughtiness FAB can bring me included X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To trust myself because I'm generally right. And that I can overcome shyness and enjoy meeting new people. "

I was just going to post roughly the same thing.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

That there are lots of 'genuine' people here as opposed to figments of my imagination in the big wide world outside

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

That it takes all sorts and is a microcosm of society. I also trust my instincts more, but it has opened my mind. It's also about what you put into it but that life goes on and the world keeps turning regardless

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"That anything is possible and although there are some really rude, scary people on here - the nice ones outnumber them.

It has also helped push my boundaries and allowed me to me meet someone I would have discounted.....you know who you are ??????????????

Was he black and furry and called Marshall X "

No, he has a liking for coco pops xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That swinging is not for the feint hearted

That gay is contagious

That BBW should only be discussed in the positive

That the world is filled with egotists and lunatics

That there are a lot of naive people out there

That the thoughts of others can be as scary as they are hilarious

That chatting shit to random strangers is addictive

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

That I won't learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taught me to be careful who I trust and don't let things get to me as much as they used too.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never to wear my heart on my sleeve. (harsh lesson learnt early on)

Dont message men first, they dont seem to like it

The theory of "you dont ask you dont get", should be reversed to "you ask and you dont get". Seems men dont like hints or direct requests for things.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

It has taught me I shall always be alone. .. Not a bit cynical ..

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nothing that I didn't know already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative: found out my ex was on here and he had cheated on me several times. Cheated on his latest partner and got married to her. She passed away and even slept with a woman on the night of her funeral. (A true lowlife)

Positive: met some nice guys and had some of the best sex ive ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Negative: found out my ex was on here and he had cheated on me several times. Cheated on his latest partner and got married to her. She passed away and even slept with a woman on the night of her funeral. (A true lowlife)

im lost for words "

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over a year ago

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By *exymatcplMan
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm pretty normal in what I like in sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm pretty clueless sometimes..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That my women's intuition is pretty finely tuned.

That as much as you would like to you can't trust anyone on here.

I like women more than I realised

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

im lost for words "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some women and men on here have 2 faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To explore my sexual fantasies and my bi curious side and to not be as trusting as I once ones and that closed minds should come with closed mouths.

And how naïve some people really are and that a few can live a life of lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To explore my sexual fantasies and my bi curious side and to not be as trusting as I once ones and that closed minds should come with closed mouths.

And how naïve some people really are and that a few can live a life of lies."
wow sexy that was DEEP its taught me how to write quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To explore my sexual fantasies and my bi curious side and to not be as trusting as I once ones and that closed minds should come with closed mouths.

And how naïve some people really are and that a few can live a life of lies."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to believe everything you see or read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That some women and men on here have 2 faces. "
no you're thinking of that movie "face off" you're not a morning person are you get out of bed slower next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That what they say about Swingers is true.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that people look to have children with people they meet on the internet, I find that truly staggering

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"It has taught me to be careful who I trust and don't let things get to me as much as they used too.xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How judgmental some on here are.

That people use the site in very different ways, no one way is the right way.

That I'm definitely more bi-curious than I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people cant read or just fail to read profiles before messaging.

Half the couples profiles are single blokes or the wife doesnt know.

Not to be too excited about meets untill there's a knock on the door.

Being patient as what you want will be here its just finding it.

New and exciting ways to have a fab time.

And finally.... Its ok and acceptable to be different

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