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"Good for you.... Though i do feel that on the whole women are more likely to be be comfortable with exploring this, only once in a relationship. Prior to this maybe fearfull of opinion or being judged.. prior.. When in alk honesty its healthy and does not in any waychange the every day outwardly chararactor... Bugger i think that makes sense.." Well it's not something I'd get into with a stranger. There needs to be a certain level of trust. I'm not sure it's anything to do with being judged, it's just not something to be done casually for everyone. | |||
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"Good for you.... Though i do feel that on the whole women are more likely to be be comfortable with exploring this, only once in a relationship. Prior to this maybe fearfull of opinion or being judged.. prior.. When in alk honesty its healthy and does not in any waychange the every day outwardly chararactor... Bugger i think that makes sense.." I think you misjudging liberalism and relationship dynamics. I am very liberal, but am only submissive to R. This isn't for fear of being judged or the other assumptions you have made. This is because that is our dynamic together. I don't want to place the level of trust I need to submit in a stranger. I don't want to discuss my deepest fantasies with a potential meet. That isn't through fear of being judged, that is through believing that some aspects of my sexual character can be better facilitated by the few rather than the many. There are some subs I know and/or played with that enjoy submitting to meets that they know little about and great for them, but they aren't more liberal than me, I don't believe. Just looking for different kicks. I doubt will change your opinion but I have never associated sub women as needing a man to release that inner sub. Although it is very common for subs of both sexes to be only willing to trust a special partner. The way I see it is if I'm willing to lay out my body and mind to be controlled by another, I want to make damn sure that other deserves and appreciates that. Rach x | |||
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"I am not submissive. I am not dominant either. I think I have a very average personality However, I have been told many times that I am sexually submissive. And looking back, I think that is correct. Having that that, I have been 'demanding' on a few occasions but those I do remember so that must be the exception to the rule [for me] Although playing with multiple partners at the same time was a fantasy I fulfilled last year, I felt extremely embarrassed after. I felt that all these men must have thought that as a single woman, I was an 'easy lay' and probably a bit desperate Since that time, I have repeated my fantasy but with a male friend present with whom I present as a couple. I don't know why that makes me feel better, but it does" multiple men, thinking easy lay...?? No i think its quite the opposite.... I would think this is a powerfull woman who knows what she likes and give her the upmost respect... Not to mention the inner confidence that will be gained from the experience... Good for you.. | |||
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"I am not submissive. I am not dominant either. I think I have a very average personality However, I have been told many times that I am sexually submissive. And looking back, I think that is correct. Having that that, I have been 'demanding' on a few occasions but those I do remember so that must be the exception to the rule [for me] Although playing with multiple partners at the same time was a fantasy I fulfilled last year, I felt extremely embarrassed after. I felt that all these men must have thought that as a single woman, I was an 'easy lay' and probably a bit desperate Since that time, I have repeated my fantasy but with a male friend present with whom I present as a couple. I don't know why that makes me feel better, but it does" multiple men, thinking easy lay...?? No i think its quite the opposite.... I would think this is a powerfull woman who knows what she likes and give her the upmost respect... Not to mention the inner confidence that will be gained from the experience... Good for you.. Remember some men prefer an assertive woman in the sex area.. | |||
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"Why in this perceiced age of " liberalism" It is still regarded a bit taboo for ladies to to be open about preference of being submissive, or enjoying sex with multiple partners. Yet its acceptable for a fella or a gayguy.. Do wonder how many women are going round feeling repressed and wanting to scream.. But still feel safe enough to exspress this side of there sexuality once commited to a relationship. That is of course if partner is understanding in this subject." Don't think your initial premis is correct. | |||
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"I see less of the taboo on being submissive with the ladies in fact I think it's more taboo for gents to show what they really enjoy " That read wrong haha 
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