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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be brutally honest. They might think you're just a jealous ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be brutally honest. They might think you're just a jealous ex "

This is true but trust me, being away from him is the best thing I have done in years lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And another angle... I wouldn't want to play any part in someone's divorce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would that really help with your divorce? Sounds like giving up your interest in his antics and moving on would be more beneficial.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Did these women all know about eachother?

If not, why would your ex divulge any information of new flings to these women?

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"This is rather a strange post but when I split with my ex, he was seeing no less than 5 women here. One was such a nut case I even had to get the police involved.

I know he sets up profiles under different names and areas so would never actually find him as such.

What I need to know is, should I approach those ladies (except the nutcase) and try to see whether he is seeing anyone now to go towards my divorce.

This guy has promised people he will marry them, that he will deal with their finances and basically changes persona for each different woman.

Long drawn out messages but just wondered of anyone had any advice"
Leave it. He sounds like a serial womaniser with no scruples, emotional intelligence or integrity, if you don't mind me saying.. Stay out of it..x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"This is rather a strange post but when I split with my ex, he was seeing no less than 5 women here. One was such a nut case I even had to get the police involved.

I know he sets up profiles under different names and areas so would never actually find him as such.

What I need to know is, should I approach those ladies (except the nutcase) and try to see whether he is seeing anyone now to go towards my divorce.

This guy has promised people he will marry them, that he will deal with their finances and basically changes persona for each different woman.

Long drawn out messages but just wondered of anyone had any advice"

Leave it...get your divorce with whatever evidence you already have, and move on.

Believe me, it's not a healthy approach, no matter how much of a loon he's been.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally I am hundreds of miles away and happy for it. Thanks for your replies, I appreciate it. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I dont think you should contact the 5 woman. They are here under a profile and what goes on fab should stay on fab, I would be really annoyed if someone I met from here ex contacted me. I would feel that the confidentiality is breached and they may not even know about you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I dont think you should contact the 5 woman. They are here under a profile and what goes on fab should stay on fab, I would be really annoyed if someone I met from here ex contacted me. I would feel that the confidentiality is breached and they may not even know about you "

I have had 3 of the women contact me here after the nutcase let them know that I was still on the site. As I said before, I was just asking for advice.

If what goes on in fab should stay here, maybe the nutcase should have stayed away from my house in the first place.

I am not meaning to cause any animosity by this post. I am just not used to all this divorce business and needed advice

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd go get some legal advice. They'll be able to advise you what you need to do for your divorce but I'd be inclined not to get involved with any of the other women. Your business is not theirs. Move on and heal yourself. Let someone else worry about other people he's involved with. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd go get some legal advice. They'll be able to advise you what you need to do for your divorce but I'd be inclined not to get involved with any of the other women. Your business is not theirs. Move on and heal yourself. Let someone else worry about other people he's involved with. Good luck. "

I will do just that, thank you so much for your help xx

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