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By *dam_Tina OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !

I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.

Do any of you have any opinions on this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !

I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.

Do any of you have any opinions on this ?"

I agree. The fun is in the whole of the act, the start, the middle and all the bits In between and the orgasm is the "cherry on top"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel the same as Tina.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's kinda hard to tell, as I'm not a woman...

Quite a fan of orgasms...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had times when I've not cum. But That.i usually because I've had a little too much to drink.

I find the woman I'm with at the time can take it personally. Or they pull out some special move that "always works".

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Some days it's just not going to happen. I'm happy taking part cause it's all lovely but there comes a point when I know I'm never going to cum and to keep going is pointless. I wouldn't bother faking it. I'm happy to stop and not disappointed I didn't cum. I took part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.

Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.

How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it. 

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Woodbridge

You are, of course, right. In Eastern practice (e.g. Tantric, Taoist), as you are probably aware, ejaculation is avoided although orgasm often achieved, and multiple times. But in my experience women feel ejaculation is a validation of their attractiveness.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Entirely depends on the sex, the situation and the person.

Not everybody has to cum all the time, every time.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The Beatles-Come Together

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfI4111pc0s

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By *dam_Tina OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"The Beatles-Come Together

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfI4111pc0s"

Finally you post a proper song

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"The Beatles-Come Together

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfI4111pc0s

Finally you post a proper song "

For you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ&feature=youtu.be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.

Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.

How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it. "

Iv had times where this has happened and the only thing that's worked is the rabbit ears and using it myself. It's nothing to do with guy, sometimes it just doesn't happen.

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By *dam_Tina OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"The Beatles-Come Together

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfI4111pc0s

Finally you post a proper song

For you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ&feature=youtu.be"

Rude

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

Journey's and arrivals...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.

Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.

How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it. 

Iv had times where this has happened and the only thing that's worked is the rabbit ears and using it myself. It's nothing to do with guy, sometimes it just doesn't happen."

Bet the guy was frustrated lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"You are, of course, right. In Eastern practice (e.g. Tantric, Taoist), as you are probably aware, ejaculation is avoided although orgasm often achieved, and multiple times. But in my experience women feel ejaculation is a validation of their attractiveness."

What is this taoism which you speak

I rarely ejaculate but I do orgasm multiple times

Many ladies cannot grasp that orgasm and squirt are different, and some seem intent on ignoring my desires striving hard to make me squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Beatles-Come Together

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfI4111pc0s"

Girl don't come - Sandie Shaw.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTuzSwu8YLo

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. But I always enjoy myself! I think some women are under the impression that a man cumming is a basic thing so if he doesn't, it might create a bit of insecurity.

Just explore and talk. I think that's the best thing.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

An interesting topic of which I am enjoying reading all your comments...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing it from her point of view.. She won't be satisfied until you've cum.

Had a bird who'd go mad at me for doing the same but then she explained the fact she won't be fully satisfied until I am.

How's you feel if you pulled off all your moves but your girl never cum? I'm sure you'd be questioning yourself and her about it. 

Iv had times where this has happened and the only thing that's worked is the rabbit ears and using it myself. It's nothing to do with guy, sometimes it just doesn't happen.

Bet the guy was frustrated lol"

It didn't show if he was, he was happy watching

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !

I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.

Do any of you have any opinions on this ?"

I would not say just the credits, I love simultaneous orgasm too much for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So last night we had sex, which isn't particularly unusual, and as always we tend to make a bit of an evening of it. Occasionally I (Adam) don't cum and Tina thinks I must be disappointed and wants to suck me until I do but I'm really quite satisfied !

I said to her that the male and female orgasm are very different, certainly in my experience. She is multi orgasmic but for me the real fun is in the whole of the act and the cum is just a pop at the end of it. I described it as sex is like a film, and the cum is just the credits.

Do any of you have any opinions on this ?"

I agree that cumming doesn't necessarily mean enjoyment, however, I don't think cumming and orgasm are the same as I've had full body orgasms without cumming, and I'm a guy.or was last time I checked

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do feel disappointed if he doesn't, like I've let him down? ?

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By *Brinksy xxWoman
over a year ago

Halesowen

I very rarely cum with a new meet, it's got nothing to do with the guy and doesn't mean I enjoy it any less, if anything I keep going longer, however in my experience guys see it as some kind of failure or that there's something wrong with me... There also seems to be a big stereo typical thing about women who squirt, that this is somehow a better orgasm.

Also the harder a guy tries, the less it's likely to happen. Get over the ego guys.

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