FabSwingers.com forum: How do men prefer us lady's to behave when you meet us?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

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By *agariWoman
over a year ago

South Lincs

I'd only do the second anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a whore please

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

Definetly be yourself. Save the whore inside you for later

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Like a whore please

A question directed at men asking how they would like women from a swingers website to behave? I could be wrong, but the replies are likely to follow just one pattern

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Two answers opposite opinions x very short what's been the agenda on your best meet what was that like ? Why did it work for you? What made it special?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Like a whore please

A question directed at men asking how they would like women from a swingers website to behave? I could be wrong, but the replies are likely to follow just one pattern"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself and have a laugh and a joke at first

save the naughty stuff for the bedroom.

But the perfect meet is a lot more that just sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself then be a whore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enjoy the time we have and have a laugh but once we get down to the fun be as filthy and slutty as you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just be myself, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll just be myself, thanks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax, wear jeans trainers and a jumper and have a laugh, want to meet you, not an image with you behind it.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'll just be myself, thanks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself pretending to be someone you are not makes for a uncomfortable meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relax, wear jeans trainers and a jumper and have a laugh, want to meet you, not an image with you behind it.

I like this outlook.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Be yourself and have a laugh and a joke at first

save the naughty stuff for the bedroom.

But the perfect meet is a lot more that just sex x"

Thats so true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you are interested in the person as well and not just getting a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a whore please

A question directed at men asking how they would like women from a swingers website to behave? I could be wrong, but the replies are likely to follow just one pattern"
I know. I recon the same that noone else will choose that option lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer laid back with people around then when alone if you act like you can't keep your hands away with a cheecky grin gets me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sexy sassy, slutty, whorey. No wonder we got kicked out of costa coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're acting all slutty and when you get to the bedroom you're the opposite what's the point? It's much better to be the other way round or even better to just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a whore please

A question directed at men asking how they would like women from a swingers website to behave? I could be wrong, but the replies are likely to follow just one patternI know. I recon the same that noone else will choose that option lol."

Surprisingly, different people, like different things, we are not all programmed the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

However you feel most comfortable

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

"But the perfect meet is a lot more that just sex x"

I totally agree, but young girls nowadays are afraid of any sort of string

Thanks internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a whore please

Surprisingly, different people, like different things, we are not all programmed the same."

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Am myself and couldn't be a 'whore' if I tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if being yourself is acting a whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if being yourself is acting a whore

Even better!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Just be 'you', not all women are or want to be 'whores' and likewise not all men desire that either..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely just be your self because that's exactly what you would get from me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I want to meet anyone but yourself

Your personality is you, so why try to be anything else, unless it's part of some role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

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oh a laugh everytime if it develops great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather you be you, I can't stand falseness and it makes my skin crawl. Be yourself, that's who I'm going to be.

OP who would you rather then up? A gentleman or a person?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you are interested in the person as well and not just getting a fuck?

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I am yes I don't care about sex if it gets to that great

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Like a whore please

You want me to turn up, lie on my back waiting for you to finish, then charge you £100?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a question for fantasists and there's plenty of them on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a whore please

You want me to turn up, lie on my back waiting for you to finish, then charge you £100?"
YEs I would that, but free, just cos its called a whore, doesn't mean its a pay check lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like a whore please

You want me to turn up, lie on my back waiting for you to finish, then charge you £100?"

With no kissing or anal

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Mature, dignified and all that I was told she would be, The rest is then up to the both of us.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How do you define looking and behaving like a whore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do as you're bloody told and also bring me A subway.

No. Be yourself. Relax. Being whore-ish isn't an attractive trait to me....outside the bedroom of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should you when in a swinging couple on a meet be who you are yourself or who you think he wants you to be ? X

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

self....slut.....whore.....funnnnnnnn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ow there's no problem there I'm barking fucking mad! Constantly and clumsy as fuck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does a " whore" dress like anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like that song...

A lady on the street, but a freak in the bed...lmao

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll just be myself, thanks."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be themselves, friendly and a little flirty!

Full on slut mode doesn't really do it for me, I'm looking more for the 'girl next door' when I meet off here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do define behaving like a whore mmmm let me see doing more than the normal positions lol... Having many men at the same time and taking part in DP and DVP and maybe sucking two cocks at the same time, ya know being over busy trying too hard to impress lol.... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet anyone who doesn't like me for me.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

Any woman I meet for the first time I just want her to be herself not what she thinks she should be or what she thinks I will like .

If your cheeky be cheeky if your forward be forward if your shy be shy because at the end of the day its pointless putting on a act as its only going to end badly if you do that because a mask always slips in the end .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can someone be too confident ? Is there such a thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

Any woman I meet for the first time I just want her to be herself not what she thinks she should be or what she thinks I will like .

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone be too confident ? Is there such a thing?

Yes. Its called being cocky, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone be too confident ? Is there such a thing?

Yes. Its called being cocky, no?"

Arrogance and cockyness is such a turnoff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A guy with good taste lol.... subway mmm Italian BMT x yes please !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cocky But in a fun sort of way and a female is that bad? I'm one crazy lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can someone be too confident ? Is there such a thing?

Yes. Its called being cocky, no?

Arrogance and cockyness is such a turnoff. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

A mix of Jamie Lee Curtis in true lies and trading places please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your making me feel like a bad person except your right I'm never just myself till afterwards, like a show we put on x bit I thoroughly enjoy the fun x but like I said I'm utterly crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your making me feel like a bad person except your right I'm never just myself till afterwards, like a show we put on x bit I thoroughly enjoy the fun x but like I said I'm utterly crazy!

Do you mean me?

If so, I don't mean to make you feel like a bad person. I personally don't like cockyness. At the same time, I'm not sure what 'cocky in a fun way' means - you seem like a nice person. Be you and don't care what twats like me think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No you haven't upset me just made me think that's all x so don't worry love and thank you for your lovely reply I feel very Honoured lol... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always be myself and I will always want to like the person and get to know the person I'm meeting before fucking them.

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

The obvious answer is no matter our gender we should always be ourselves. Unless of course you've agreed with the other party to behave in a certain way as say some part of a role playing fantasy.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I will always be myself and I will always want to like the person and get to know the person I'm meeting before fucking them."

This!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm up for acting like a whore.

The meet will basically be the same, but you can tip me at the end. Fanx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bless ya

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

tbh, I wouldn't know how to act like a whore. I'm just me, take me as you get me. I swear, smoke, have a laugh, rip the piss and talk football..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you should just be who you are in any normal circumstances, if you are an insatiable cock muncher or if you are more of the timid type, people should appreciate that and be respectful of it

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

i doubt if most of the male contributors on here have ever been with a 'whore' and its probably just a fantasy thing for some..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to meet you, not a sexualised you, not a version of you you think I will like, just you.

I think it leads to a better click and relaxed fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like to meet for a coffee at 10- am in town on a Tuesday in my stockings basque and heels with a short leather skirt carrying my array of flashing dildos in my bag made up to the nines and hair styled to perfection

Sometimes people look at me not sure why

Isn't this expected for a meet off fab ?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I personally like to meet for a coffee at 10- am in town on a Tuesday in my stockings basque and heels with a short leather skirt carrying my array of flashing dildos in my bag made up to the nines and hair styled to perfection

Sometimes people look at me not sure why

Isn't this expected for a meet off fab ? "

one would expect that you are able to squirt copiously just by the beau winking at you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people look at me not sure why

Isn't this expected for a meet off fab ?

one would expect that you are able to squirt copiously just by the beau winking at you.."

The coffee shop seems to have an umbrella stand for some reason , waiter has a problem with his eye a tick or something I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmmm I don't think I should be on here but you guys seem really nice Thank you for being nice to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The problem is when you don't know who you are ? Does that make sense ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

I'd want you to be yourself, have a laugh and enjoy the time ... especially if you do it looking and behaving like a whore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Food for thought best go to bed up early new job tomoro x thanks x Mary x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourselves

I'd rather have a good laugh than bad sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trouble is I usually have a good laugh and good sex too? X too good that's the problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trouble is I usually have a good laugh and good sex too? X too good that's the problem x"

Isn't that what it's all about?

Having a good time and enjoying a good bonk too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will just be me thanks

Like it or leave it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suppose when it boils down to it your right guys! X

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Sometimes people look at me not sure why

Isn't this expected for a meet off fab ?

one would expect that you are able to squirt copiously just by the beau winking at you..

The coffee shop seems to have an umbrella stand for some reason , waiter has a problem with his eye a tick or something I think "

must be many Fab ladies who also frequent the place..

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Sometimes people look at me not sure why

Isn't this expected for a meet off fab ?

one would expect that you are able to squirt copiously just by the beau winking at you..

The coffee shop seems to have an umbrella stand for some reason , waiter has a problem with his eye a tick or something I think

must be many Fab ladies who also frequent the place..

If only ...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Mature, dignified and all that I was told she would be, The rest is then up to the both of us."

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Relax, wear jeans trainers and a jumper and have a laugh, want to meet you, not an image with you behind it.

How refreshing to hear. Oh I can don the black lace, stockings and heels, and often do - but there is NOTHING as sexy as someone desiring ME, regardless of what I am wearing, or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

Madness..

I would behave naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to be myself. I find it a bit odd to put on a act. Unless it's a pre planned kinky thing. What is a whore anyway? Somebody who has sex with loads of people. Well that's half of us on here. So do we act like whores?. No. I don't think I've ever met a whore who acts like a whore when you meet her.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Pffft. They'll get what they're given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be who you want to be, be who you are, everyone's a dreamer, evey ones a star

(Brownie points to the person who can say what song that is from and the artist

Seriously though I am going to be myself, nice polite and funny, so as long as your not rude then I don't mind how you act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can be is yourself when you meet most enjoy meeting me ,occassionally you get a weird one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relax, wear jeans trainers and a jumper and have a laugh, want to meet you, not an image with you behind it.

I feel on the grand spectrum, and only forming my opinions from messages i get, that men don't want jeans and jumpers. Any time i chat to guys, its always will you be wearing stockings when we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Intrigued, do you want us to look and behave like whores? Or just be ourselves and have a laugh and enjoy the time we have?

I prefer people to act naturally. Nothing worse than a fake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Relax, wear jeans trainers and a jumper and have a laugh, want to meet you, not an image with you behind it.

I feel on the grand spectrum, and only forming my opinions from messages i get, that men don't want jeans and jumpers. Any time i chat to guys, its always will you be wearing stockings when we meet"

Funny you should say that I had a social the other day and said id be in my trainers and joggers...have to say the lovely gent he is never battered an eye and said come in whatever makes you comfortable..I didn't wear them as I don't even own joggers wouldn't be seen dead in em wore a dress and went as me ...I don't do the people who pretend to be something they are not ..just be yourself and enjoy..so im happy to go along as me and if they don't like it...next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you are interested in the person as well and not just getting a fuck?

This exactly. I prefer to get to know the person first and if it leads to more then that's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know he's a bloke, but look how Worzel Gummidge used to turn up, and he regularly had Aunt Sally or Saucy Nancy on his arm. Phwoar, nice one Worzel!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just act the same as always. Sweet and innocent

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