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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, not a reference to the posh seats on an aircraft, but a reference to an episode in Doctor Who where a decision to either turn left or right at a traffic junction dramatically alters the course of history

Have you ever had a major decision to make that could have gone either way and, just for fun, how would that have changed your Fab life and life in general?

For me straight after uni I had 2 equally enticing job offers - one in London, one in Manchester. I chose London, but had I chosen Manchester I reckon I would have ended up shacked up and married to Suranne Jones, and I'd be her sub and regularly paraded around on a leash at the Townhouse, and our kids would be called Liam and Noel and support Man City

What is your life changing event and how does your Fab life pan out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I was unhappy in my marriage and met someone at work who offered me the chance to start a new life with him in London. I stayed, had children and left him anyway, eventually. It was my turning left moment.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney"

Are you both from the US?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney"

Why did you decide to move here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Are you both from the US? "

Yes....why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?"

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP "

No this is FAR more interesting! keep going ... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP

No this is FAR more interesting! keep going ... Lol"

I used to like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP

No this is FAR more interesting! keep going ... Lol

I used to like you

"

Mods: can we change the title to 'Ask Courtney'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP "

I'm just being nosey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP

No this is FAR more interesting! keep going ... Lol

I used to like you

Mods: can we change the title to 'Ask Courtney'? "

Good idea! Courtney, why Leeds of all places?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Why did you decide to move here?

The job had more "potential for growth" or whatever. Answer the OP

No this is FAR more interesting! :-vD keep going ... Lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really wanna hear an American accent now love it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'll play alone.

Another big decision was going to law school. I could have become a stripper instead. In which case I also wouldn't have found fab and I would probably be doing lap dances for $60 in some skeevy New York strip club.

-Courtney

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Are you both from the US?

Yes....why? "

My family was originally from the other side of the pond

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"My big life decision was probably to move to the UK and for Marc to take the job here over a different one in the US.

If we had remained in the US I would never have found fab. We would have become a version of a 1950s American couple with a white picket fence. But I would have spent my free time watching threesome porn and masturbating to group sessions online.

-Courtney

Are you both from the US?

Yes....why? "

I'm nosy, can't you see my curtains twitching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My turn left moment was walking away from a legal career in the city and retraining for my current role. I took a massive pay cut but it was the best thing I ever did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok, I'll play alone.

Another big decision was going to law school. I could have become a stripper instead. In which case I also wouldn't have found fab and I would probably be doing lap dances for $60 in some skeevy New York strip club.

-Courtney"

That would be 60 bucks well spent though for sure!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My turn left moment was walking away from a legal career in the city and retraining for my current role. I took a massive pay cut but it was the best thing I ever did. "

money doesn't always bring happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was stay in Scotland and become the part time working single mother or move to England and be what I am now !! Glad I did just wish I hadn't moved down to be with the clown I was with he mad life hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choices that seem insignificant at the time can also be turn left moments. I decided to buy a packet of crisps instead of looking behind me. Had I have looked, I just might have seen that time traveller who was destined to go back in time and kill my grandfather. Oh, erm, fizz, sparkle, kerpoof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My turn left moment was walking away from a legal career in the city and retraining for my current role. I took a massive pay cut but it was the best thing I ever did.

money doesn't always bring happiness "

True. I reckon I'd have been a partner by now. I remind myself of this the day before the mortgage is due most months...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My turn left moment was walking away from a legal career in the city and retraining for my current role. I took a massive pay cut but it was the best thing I ever did.

money doesn't always bring happiness

True. I reckon I'd have been a partner by now. I remind myself of this the day before the mortgage is due most months... "

Ah, it's only money!

Takes proper guts mind to do that, properly admire you for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sliding doors moment? So many of them! If I hadn't gone into Yates that morning I'd never have met my ex and have 4 wonderful kids... The major choice was after finishing training I could've bought into a house share in Leeds and joined a touring company or gone into a popular Yorkshire drama. Instead I chose to come home and build up some cash behind me to move to London where the good work is...

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