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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London

People who ask for a recent face picture, what is recent.

The reason for the question is that I've been thinking of updating my face picture on fab, but the best years are behind me, and I don't want to be frightening off any suitors.

So should we all be updating every lunar month, or should I just leave the one I've got when I was 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not about looks , it's the person you are that counts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Concidering you have yr age as 50,a pic of you at 21 is hardly recent,by any stretch of the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks do count on here initially I'm afraid.

There has to be a physical attraction for me to carry on chatting to someone who messages me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 11 months old. But I still look the same, but it's now at the age is ceasing to be 'current' so I need to update it. And smile. I keep getting told to smile! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all looked better when we were young but they aren't meeting us 20 year ago they are meeting us now

If recent face pics will put people off what makes you think they will like you in the flesh

Best to be honest

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Not about looks , it's the person you are that counts x "

That's correct, but it is what your photo looks like that gets people to open that front door, then once that door is open, then they can see what a great guy I am.

Well my mother thinks I am

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Not about looks , it's the person you are that counts x

That's correct, but it is what your photo looks like that gets people to open that front door, then once that door is open, then they can see what a great guy I am.

Well my mother thinks I am "

If you look 20 years older than your photo then I'm afraid I'd shut the door. Being economical with the truth is the same as telling fibs in my view. You're not a great guy if you lie to get someone to meet you.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"We all looked better when we were young but they aren't meeting us 20 year ago they are meeting us now

If recent face pics will put people off what makes you think they will like you in the flesh

Best to be honest "

I agree wholeheartedly, so what is honest in your view 6 months, 1 year, or 1 week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not about looks , it's the person you are that counts x

That's correct, but it is what your photo looks like that gets people to open that front door, then once that door is open, then they can see what a great guy I am.

Well my mother thinks I am

If you look 20 years older than your photo then I'm afraid I'd shut the door. Being economical with the truth is the same as telling fibs in my view. You're not a great guy if you lie to get someone to meet you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP my face pics are within the last 2 months.

I suppose it depends on how quickly your looks are changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks do count on here initially I'm afraid.

There has to be a physical attraction for me to carry on chatting to someone who messages me."

^^^ This

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Mine is 11 months old. But I still look the same, but it's now at the age is ceasing to be 'current' so I need to update it. And smile. I keep getting told to smile! Lol "

This has made me smile..

My pics all have dates on them and range from 2 months ago to 2 years...

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Not about looks , it's the person you are that counts x

That's correct, but it is what your photo looks like that gets people to open that front door, then once that door is open, then they can see what a great guy I am.

Well my mother thinks I am

If you look 20 years older than your photo then I'm afraid I'd shut the door. Being economical with the truth is the same as telling fibs in my view. You're not a great guy if you lie to get someone to meet you. "

So you agree that I'm a great guy, because I want to update my face picture, but alas you haven't answered my question,

How old should the picture be, and how often should it be updated

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"OP my face pics are within the last 2 months.

I suppose it depends on how quickly your looks are changing "

At lest an answer,

But every two months

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"How old should the picture be, and how often should it be updated "

Um... I would say it should be a recent picture that's an accurate match to your appearance.

Update it when it stops being accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's best to upload a recent pic of someone hot. When they turn up all horny they don't realise I look nothing like Beyonce.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"How old should the picture be, and how often should it be updated

Um... I would say it should be a recent picture that's an accurate match to your appearance.

Update it when it stops being accurate. "

Lol I like that one

Although I'm shaved bald I still see an afro on my bonnet

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It's best to upload a recent pic of someone hot. When they turn up all horny they don't realise I look nothing like Beyonce. "

Well I'm the spitting image of Denzel

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well when you don't look like the picture anymore, some people look the same for years, I look sod all like this time last year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't let a year go by without updating the face pic. So, a on year maximum, in my opinion.

If the face pic has a beard and you no longer have one, update it. If the pic has no beard, but you now have one, update it.

If you have added a face tattoo, update the pic.

Any face piercings added or removed? Update the pic.

-Courtney

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OP it depends how well you're aging.

Between 25 and 35, I could have used one pic. Since then, there ha definitely been small changes - I don't look older, as such, just different.

And that's the key. Change it as often as necessary to avoid having Dirty Girl slam the door in your face....

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Well when you don't look like the picture anymore, some people look the same for years, I look sod all like this time last year"

You were Cinderella then?

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