FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guys giving gays a bad name

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I met a guy on Friday from a popular gay site said he is gay had a great time etc etc. low and behold he is on this site as straight. And its the gay guys who get the push on this site, come on guys be honest with yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drink from the bathroom tap.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Some bi guys admit it ...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Looool

the guy who put me on to this site (I met him on a gay site elsewhere) - his profile here says he's straight and a non-smoker.

Both of which I'd happily contest in court.

People say all kindsa shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all part of attracting the 'straight' guys.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, I just don't get why bedding a 'straight' guy or bi guy is seen by many gay guys as the golden goose.

If they're bi and married, even better. That's loads of extra kudos points with the guys down The Blue Oyster.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"It's all part of attracting the 'straight' guys.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, I just don't get why bedding a 'straight' guy or bi guy is seen by many gay guys as the golden goose.

If they're bi and married, even better. That's loads of extra kudos points with the guys down The Blue Oyster."

I must admit to getting a particular kick out of fucking married/partnered men.

Ho hum.

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By *hiterabbit69Man
over a year ago

Romford

Lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Lots of stuff at work. Societal and Fab pressures. Plus sexuality isn't always cut and dried.

Just let others enjoy their journey and behave as you see fit. Trying to change the world isn't going to happen today nor the ways we'd often prefer it.

And just accept others for where they're at. It's too easy to knock and put down the rest when we're never perfect ourselves. Enjoy that cock fellas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm listed as straight and never been with a guy but my profile says I'm interested in ts. Does that make me bi? I've just got the urge to try out dick in me whether from a ts or a guy. I guess I'm just curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all part of attracting the 'straight' guys.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, I just don't get why bedding a 'straight' guy or bi guy is seen by many gay guys as the golden goose.

If they're bi and married, even better. That's loads of extra kudos points with the guys down The Blue Oyster.

I must admit to getting a particular kick out of fucking married/partnered men.

Ho hum.

You're terrible Muriel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's all part of attracting the 'straight' guys.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, I just don't get why bedding a 'straight' guy or bi guy is seen by many gay guys as the golden goose.

If they're bi and married, even better. That's loads of extra kudos points with the guys down The Blue Oyster."

No don't work like that a guys a guy and if it matters the straights are getting gayer ( camper) and usually want to bottom or a blow job, not many about who are into fucking guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree ; there is definately a 'kudos' amongst gay guys for bedding straight, bi or married men.

You only have to look at the profiles on here to see that.

And 'a lot' of the so called bi guys on here have not been near a fanny since they came out of one.

Their sexuality status is listed as bi purely to attract guys who wouldn't jump into bed with them if they were listed as gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would bi guys actions affect gays?

I mean unless you're worried women are going to start turning you down :o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you could name names I could list over 30 profiles just in my local area of guys on here listed as bi who live entirely gay lifestyles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I disagree ; there is definately a 'kudos' amongst gay guys for bedding straight, bi or married men.

You only have to look at the profiles on here to see that.

And 'a lot' of the so called bi guys on here have not been near a fanny since they came out of one.

Their sexuality status is listed as bi purely to attract guys who wouldn't jump into bed with them if they were listed as gay.

It's all a game to some, but hey, it works for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could name names I could list over 30 profiles just in my local area of guys on here listed as bi who live entirely gay lifestyles."

How do you know so much about their "lifestyle" also what's the gay lifestyle now you mention it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could name names I could list over 30 profiles just in my local area of guys on here listed as bi who live entirely gay lifestyles.

How do you know so much about their "lifestyle" also what's the gay lifestyle now you mention it.

Prehaps they want to try some lettice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe people are more harsher on you here in you're set has bi/gay.

I've had a few mails from guys who are straight on here offering me a blowjob or more.

It dont bother me. I don't judge people on what their profile says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looool

the guy who put me on to this site (I met him on a gay site elsewhere) - his profile here says he's straight and a non-smoker.

Both of which I'd happily contest in court.

People say all kindsa shit. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And 'a lot' of the so called bi guys on here have not been near a fanny since they came out of one

This made me laugh

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

And 'a lot' of the so called bi guys on here have not been near a fanny since they came out of one

This made me laugh

It's the increase in caesareans thas doing it. No fanny baptism at birth and straight to cock.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought I'd post on this one simply because it had 'bi' in the title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this interesting because none gay girls looking for girls on dating sites always get the raw end of the deal and are generally avoided and seems to be the opposite for guys on here then from what's been said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the problem here .

If the gay guy who says he is bi is meeting a guy it's all good .

He wouldn't meet a woman so no problem .

He may meet a couple and get his rocks off with the male half , happy days .

Where's the issue ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab post be a swinging site not a dateing site for gays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab post be a swinging site not a dateing site for gays"

Gays swing too !

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By *uddy and hollyCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Fab post be a swinging site not a dateing site for gays"

So where does that put us buddy is bi I'm straight we meet guys for 3sums if the guy is straight we play straight but your comments make it sound like buddy has no right to be here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Fab post be a swinging site not a dateing site for gays

So where does that put us buddy is bi I'm straight we meet guys for 3sums if the guy is straight we play straight but your comments make it sound like buddy has no right to be here "

The flexible thing about being bisexual is that one can have sex with both sexes quite happily. That includes having straight sex with just ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could name names I could list over 30 profiles just in my local area of guys on here listed as bi who live entirely gay lifestyles.

How do you know so much about their "lifestyle" also what's the gay lifestyle now you mention it.

Without going into too much detail, I led a mixed (some would say 'mixed up') life for many years and spent a lot of time on the Manchester gay scene whilst retaining an open straight relationship.

I know a lot of them both intimately and personally and in some cases, both.

'Lifestyle' you can read as lives i.e. in real life they identify as a gay man. On certain sites, they identify as bi because it atrracts a certain kind of guy who may be unavailable if they identified as gay on sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you could name names I could list over 30 profiles just in my local area of guys on here listed as bi who live entirely gay lifestyles."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of stuff at work. Societal and Fab pressures. Plus sexuality isn't always cut and dried.

Just let others enjoy their journey and behave as you see fit. Trying to change the world isn't going to happen today nor the ways we'd often prefer it.

And just accept others for where they're at. It's too easy to knock and put down the rest when we're never perfect ourselves. Enjoy that cock fellas."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

LOL

The guy who introduced me to this site - his profile on here says he's straight and a non-smoker (both of which I'd happily contest in court).

I know another guy on here who lists himself as bi when he's really gay...

And another guy I shagged who's now changed his status from bi to straight.

Bottom line:

PEOPLE SAY ALL SHADES OF SHITE

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab post be a swinging site not a dateing site for gays"

This is a site for swinging, gay straight, bi, tv and those who don't know there is no "straight" mission statements I am aware of for this site. and the lovely few who find love.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Fab post be a swinging site not a dateing site for gays

This is a site for swinging, gay straight, bi, tv and those who don't know there is no "straight" mission statements I am aware of for this site. and the lovely few who find love. "

Totally!

Who is this... person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we're happy to meet bi or gay guys. If their straight but say they're bi then puts us on the back foot as not sure if they are really or just saying that. Proof is in the pudding as they say so normally find out by the time Gingers told me to suck their cock then asks if they'd like to suck mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 of your three veris say their straight on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I drink from the bathroom tap."

I really do.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I drink from the bathroom tap.

I really do."

The difference is, Jim, that cos you're straight, you have two taps, one for hot and one for cold water. Cos I'm bi, I have a mixer tap

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

2 of your three veris say their straight on their profiles

What? A fib on fab?!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Some of my loveliest bi friends on here have straight profiles.

Don't see why it matters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe report it to admin? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy on Friday from a popular gay site said he is gay had a great time etc etc. low and behold he is on this site as straight. And its the gay guys who get the push on this site, come on guys be honest with yourselves."
don't really see an issue in this. Labels are pretty dumb anyway, and perhaps he just wants to use this site to meet women while using another to contain his cock craving.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Such an interesting thread, but really not sure of the point of it ... have we outer gay guys for pretending to be bi now? If so, I don't particularly mind ... my partner is bi, goes near Pusey every night, and also craves cock on a regular basis ... no issues with that

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Who cares about labels? If they are hot and up for it....dive in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who cares about labels? If they are hot and up for it....dive in

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met a guy on Friday from a popular gay site said he is gay had a great time etc etc. low and behold he is on this site as straight. And its the gay guys who get the push on this site, come on guys be honest with yourselves.don't really see an issue in this. Labels are pretty dumb anyway, and perhaps he just wants to use this site to meet women while using another to contain his cock craving. "

lol it was my bum he wanted lol but cock got some attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some good posts back, though I just want it to be clear I am not complaining or labelling guys. I enjoy meeting men and if there is a woman involved I get stuck in, I would say I am gay but when a woman is in the mix I suppose I am not, (no labelling) What I was trying to get across is gay guys get a bad name, yes there are some sleazy gay guys who put it about unprotected sex etc though there are bi men and I suppose some straight men who do, bi men or straight men only meet bi men etc;

Personally I don't give a toss, if they are men I will have em.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Im bi and proud of it but shock horror straight guys liking cock? Whats this world coming to? Should they be burned at the stake? Serioualy the amount of straight guys that want to play with other guys is alot. I like to think most guys are born bi but due to upbringing or choice do not explore these feelings to much later in life after they are married and then have to hide who they are from there partners. Ita never going to change in that respect but bi guys giving gay guys a bad name i disagree with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straights guys are bi?! No way!

Oh come on, if you think the guy who puts straight on his profile is actually straight, you're in for a surprise. In my experience being on here most guys who say they're straight have probably been sucked or sucked another guy the very least. Others are more experienced bi guys but don't like to advertise for the obvious reasons on here

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By *hiterabbit69Man
over a year ago

Romford

Yeah! Fuck gay guys! Oh...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Does he say he is bi on the other site or gay? Thays equally misleading don't you think?

Perhaps he uses one site for male hook ups and the other for women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straights guys are bi?! No way!

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I notice you say you're straight on your profile

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By *hiterabbit69Man
over a year ago

Romford

Who fucking cares where people put their cocks? As long as it's safe and consensual it's none of your bloody business. Disingenuous my bloody ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who fucking cares where people put their cocks? As long as it's safe and consensual it's none of your bloody business. Disingenuous my bloody ass.

Any one who gives blood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi. I'll happily admit it. I don't see the problem. I can meet couples, Women or the men.

I don't have to rigidly stick to one or the other. Thats what bi is. And I, and the people i meet with, enjoy it, so...

How is that giving gay guys a bad name? Not sure i understand.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I am bi. I'll happily admit it. I don't see the problem. I can meet couples, Women or the men.

I don't have to rigidly stick to one or the other. Thats what bi is. And I, and the people i meet with, enjoy it, so...

How is that giving gay guys a bad name? Not sure i understand."

I think it's the straight bi men people are referring to.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"I'm listed as straight and never been with a guy but my profile says I'm interested in ts. Does that make me bi? I've just got the urge to try out dick in me whether from a ts or a guy. I guess I'm just curious "

Your profile doesn't mention TS. You possibly might be bi curious; you're definitely not completely honest. Unless of course you've now tried and decided never again; in which case I apologize

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Who fucking cares where people put their cocks? As long as it's safe and consensual it's none of your bloody business. Disingenuous my bloody ass.

No such thing as safe sex, but some is safer than others. We should all be allowed free choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am bi. I'll happily admit it. I don't see the problem. I can meet couples, Women or the men.

I don't have to rigidly stick to one or the other. Thats what bi is. And I, and the people i meet with, enjoy it, so...

How is that giving gay guys a bad name? Not sure i understand.

I think it's the straight bi men people are referring to. "

Oh ok lol

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