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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

Is it us , maybe it is but we are getting fed up with single guys and couples asking for face pics despite us saying specifically we don't give them out . To make matter worse they often don't have any pictures at all of themselves on their profile !!! What gives ???

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Okay... so how do prospective meets know whether they want to meet you if you won't send them a photo?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Because you rant about it, the more people may want to irritate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always say have 1 face pic in private to give to deserving people to see if they like what they are getting into because if they turn up and don't like what they see then it's just gonna be awkward. That's plenty though, 1 face pic should be enough anything after that is just pointless.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Are we supposed to recognise you at a meet by looking down your pants?

OH YES! It IS you - I recognised the bellend.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I won't meet a person if I don't know what they look like, so if they refuse to send me a pic then I don't bother. If they send me a pic or they have a face pic on their profile, I send one back.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So you don't ever send out face pics?

How do people recognise you or you them if they decide to do the same?

Is it red carnations under the town clock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you meet people without seeing face pics of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us , maybe it is but we are getting fed up with single guys and couples asking for face pics despite us saying specifically we don't give them out . To make matter worse they often don't have any pictures at all of themselves on their profile !!! What gives ??? "

You say you won't give them out to total strangers. Just alter it to say you won't give them out at all. Simple.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

YOU WANT A RANT?!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY DAY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because you rant about it, the more people may want to irritate"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is normal to ask for pics before meeting, cos they might not be the ones who you meet lol.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

FFS!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

(the shag was the saving grace)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us , maybe it is but we are getting fed up with single guys and couples asking for face pics despite us saying specifically we don't give them out . To make matter worse they often don't have any pictures at all of themselves on their profile !!! What gives ??? "

It's not blind date.

Do you really meet people you've never seen?

So its ok for you not to have or provide face pics, but not other people?

Bizarre.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

have to see them to see if you fancy them

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

This thread is two days early

C...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP looking at you verifications your enjoying your time so just stay like that and concentrate on those who meet your criteria..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try and explain that its easy to put a pic on fab - have it in private to attach to a message - not in public - not in friends - and set it to disappear once _iewed - still people want to send it to phone or email - where we can keep it forever if we wanted to - but each to their own eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a question.....do you expect pace pics from others when you're not willing to share your own?!!!!

hahahaha!

Correct me if I'm wrong but that seems a bit hypocritical to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question.....do you expect pace pics from others when you're not willing to share your own?!!!!

hahahaha!

Correct me if I'm wrong but that seems a bit hypocritical to me?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question.....do you expect pace pics from others when you're not willing to share your own?!!!!

hahahaha!

Correct me if I'm wrong but that seems a bit hypocritical to me?"

They're not on their own though are they ?

They're just up front about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question.....do you expect pace pics from others when you're not willing to share your own?!!!!

hahahaha!

Correct me if I'm wrong but that seems a bit hypocritical to me?

They're not on their own though are they ?

They're just up front about it."

Struggling to see your point,they're not on their own as folks that don't give out face pics?

Apologies if I've got the wrong end of the stick.....but don't think I have so will stand by my original post.

Although of course it's their profile and can choose to run it how they like,which I totally respect

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You'd expect people to travel,potentially book hotels and walk into a public place lookingmfor you with no idea what you look like? If they refuse to send out face pics as well do you come up with a secret code?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question.....do you expect pace pics from others when you're not willing to share your own?!!!!

hahahaha!

Correct me if I'm wrong but that seems a bit hypocritical to me?

They're not on their own though are they ?

They're just up front about it.

Struggling to see your point,they're not on their own as folks that don't give out face pics?

Apologies if I've got the wrong end of the stick.....but don't think I have so will stand by my original post.

Although of course it's their profile and can choose to run it how they like,which I totally respect "

My point is that the majority don't want to compromise their own privacy whilst expecting it of others.

As in a game of cards many will want you to show your hand before they show theirs.

Unlike a game of cards though, many won't show their hand at all if there is no attraction.

This (in)action is then justified by various means usually revolving round well worn phrases such as 'well there message was unsolicited' or 'we didn't fancy them, so what's the point?'

The difference with the OP is that, if I am reading their profile correctly, they are upfront and honest about not wanting to share pics, whereas as others will share - but only their terms.

If you do not fit with their terms you have as much likelyhood of receiving their pics as you do of receiving ones from the op.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You'd expect people to travel,potentially book hotels and walk into a public place lookingmfor you with no idea what you look like? If they refuse to send out face pics as well do you come up with a secret code?"

It seems to be working judging by the extensive verifications...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question.....do you expect pace pics from others when you're not willing to share your own?!!!!

hahahaha!

Correct me if I'm wrong but that seems a bit hypocritical to me?

They're not on their own though are they ?

They're just up front about it.

Struggling to see your point,they're not on their own as folks that don't give out face pics?

Apologies if I've got the wrong end of the stick.....but don't think I have so will stand by my original post.

Although of course it's their profile and can choose to run it how they like,which I totally respect

My point is that the majority don't want to compromise their own privacy whilst expecting it of others.

As in a game of cards many will want you to show your hand before they show theirs.

Unlike a game of cards though, many won't show their hand at all if there is no attraction.

This (in)action is then justified by various means usually revolving round well worn phrases such as 'well there message was unsolicited' or 'we didn't fancy them, so what's the point?'

The difference with the OP is that, if I am reading their profile correctly, they are upfront and honest about not wanting to share pics, whereas as others will share - but only their terms.

If you do not fit with their terms you have as much likelyhood of receiving their pics as you do of receiving ones from the op."

Fair dos I'm happy to stand corrected,so they ask for face pics n if they're not to their liking they won't respond with pics of their own......perfectly reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple once who don't give out face pics, but I knew they were genuine and we'd been messaging quite regularly so agreed to meet them for a drink.

I have face pics on my profile so they knew who to look for in the pub .... This couple are now my best friends and were both very close indeed!

To think I could have missed out on that for the sake of not being a bit daring and thinking "Why not"

I'd do it again, lifes too short and I'd rather take chances and know either way rather than sit back and ponder the "What ifs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Fair dos I'm happy to stand corrected,so they ask for face pics n if they're not to their liking they won't respond with pics of their own......perfectly reasonable

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It's not a matter of correction, it's a matter of perspective.

The OPs stance is just an exaggeration of the one taken by the majority of members.

I think their rant is somewhat misplaced, in that in joining sites such as this, we should expect a degree of people wanting to play by their rules, but I just don't see their stance being too different to that of many others on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of us have sent face pics (after chatting) only for that interaction to end there and then without receiving pics from the other party ?

I know I have : and I NEVER make first contact (unless my intention is purely social)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of us have sent face pics (after chatting) only for that interaction to end there and then without receiving pics from the other party ?

I know I have : and I NEVER make first contact (unless my intention is purely social)

"

People have to be wary of giving out face pics of themselves are there are so many f&ke profile on here. I wouldnt recommend anyone putting their face on their front page. I would also suggest they watermark or otherwise personalise their pics and only supply them after a conversation has taken place. There are quite a few people on here who are in reality sat in their little room all alone and though they dont know it, their minds are totally warped. They sit there managing couples and female profiles even though they are a lonely male and get their jollies out of it.

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

Its not a date ! Try match.com if you are a sad single !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of us have sent face pics (after chatting) only for that interaction to end there and then without receiving pics from the other party ?

I know I have : and I NEVER make first contact (unless my intention is purely social)

People have to be wary of giving out face pics of themselves are there are so many f&ke profile on here. I wouldnt recommend anyone putting their face on their front page. I would also suggest they watermark or otherwise personalise their pics and only supply them after a conversation has taken place. There are quite a few people on here who are in reality sat in their little room all alone and though they dont know it, their minds are totally warped. They sit there managing couples and female profiles even though they are a lonely male and get their jollies out of it."

Are you spying on me?

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

You have wrong end of the stick. we don't expect face pics ever. we meet have a drink and see where it goes.there are far too many picture collectors on here and if you are stupid enough to launch your face on the www then more full you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a date ! Try match.com if you are a sad single !"

What does being single got to do with anything? Most couples & singles like to see who they may be meeting. It's a pretty normal thing.

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

Your words were blind date its not dating ! If you are shallow enough to think a face is all that matters in sex then....

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

Exactly !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".....if you are stupid enough to launch your face on the www then more full you"

So anyone with face pics on their profile are stupid are they? Oh and it's "more fool you"

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"So you don't ever send out face pics?

How do people recognise you or you them if they decide to do the same?

Is it red carnations under the town clock? "

She will be the one bending over with slut written on her bum ...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ask to see ppl on can in the rooms camara never lies pics can be any one we both look in our 20s on face pic it is a very old photo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your words were blind date its not dating ! If you are shallow enough to think a face is all that matters in sex then...."

That old chestnut. Attraction is personal, therefore not shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a site supporter just set thr pic to auto remove after they have read the message...simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP....you asked if it was you? It is. I think you are going to have to accept that most people do like to see face pics before they agree to meet. Most people like to be attracted physically to the person they are meeting for sex. Most of them. You do things differently which is fine, but it isn't going to change they way others do things by ranting at everyone. It is your issue OP, not everyone else. You clearly have met others who aren't bothered about seeing face pics so why not meet them again while trying to find others that aren't bothered? You aren't going to change the way the majority of people like to do things. You'll be far less ranty once you accept that.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Its not a date ! Try match.com if you are a sad single !"

Sad?

Hmmm.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"OP....you asked if it was you? It is. I think you are going to have to accept that most people do like to see face pics before they agree to meet. Most people like to be attracted physically to the person they are meeting for sex. Most of them. You do things differently which is fine, but it isn't going to change they way others do things by ranting at everyone. It is your issue OP, not everyone else. You clearly have met others who aren't bothered about seeing face pics so why not meet them again while trying to find others that aren't bothered? You aren't going to change the way the majority of people like to do things. You'll be far less ranty once you accept that."

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

How peculiar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet anyone with out seeing their face pics, if that makes us shallow so be it but we only play with people we are facially attracted to.

From there we have a socially to make sure we are mentally attracted to them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When sending face photos we auto remove them so less chance they will copy and keep. What I cannot figure out is if the op don't send face pics and doesn't ask for the meets photo how do you know who is who?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Its not a date ! Try match.com if you are a sad single !"

There's really no need to be rude.

It may not be a date but as a single woman I want to put every effort into my own safety. The physical is not so important to me as the personality and mental connection and whilst I rely on my instincts a lot, I still want to see who I'm meeting.

For me, going along to an arranged time and place with no idea who I'm actually going to see when I get there is not high on my list.

There are two of you so you have each other from a safety aspect. You're not left sitting alone in a pub wondering if the next person through the door is the one who's come to meet you or not. I can't think of a situation in which I'd feel more of a plum.

However, I understand that we all do things differently. What works for one doesn't necessarily work for the next person. Perhaps you could try to understand that too?

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent

Its not being rude you used the term blind date..this is a swinging site not a dating site where you would expect pictures. if you have no problem with the world your family and friends potentially knowing you do this fine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes it easier to do one if they are minging lol..... If they don't know what ya look like. (Was a joke) usually I have found pictures if they do have them are ten years old talk men are dwarfs athletic men are podgy and not what they appear to be! (Not all some are honest but very few) like your not going to notice when ya meet them? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consensual sex between adults.

How awful.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Its not being rude you used the term blind date..this is a swinging site not a dating site where you would expect pictures. if you have no problem with the world your family and friends potentially knowing you do this fine !"

I did not use the term blind date. Calling people sad because they don't share your _iew is rude.

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent


"Makes it easier to do one if they are minging lol..... If they don't know what ya look like. (Was a joke) usually I have found pictures if they do have them are ten years old talk men are dwarfs athletic men are podgy and not what they appear to be! (Not all some are honest but very few) like your not going to notice when ya meet them? X"
We know what you mean

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent


"If you are a site supporter just set thr pic to auto remove after they have read the message...simples"
We work in IT and trust me its still there if you want to find it !

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent


"So you don't ever send out face pics?

How do people recognise you or you them if they decide to do the same?

Is it red carnations under the town clock?

She will be the one bending over with slut written on her bum ...simples "
Or maybe look out for the vauxhall with we like swinging written on the back !!!

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent


"Your words were blind date its not dating ! If you are shallow enough to think a face is all that matters in sex then....

That old chestnut. Attraction is personal, therefore not shallow."
yes agree and 10 year old face pics taken on holiday mean nothing

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent


"You'd expect people to travel,potentially book hotels and walk into a public place lookingmfor you with no idea what you look like? If they refuse to send out face pics as well do you come up with a secret code?"
That is what mobile phones are for !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay... so how do prospective meets know whether they want to meet you if you won't send them a photo? "
yes this I wouldn't meet you without seeing what you look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what you are saying is you want pics off others but you wont give them oot?

For me I wouldn't meet anyone I've not seen a picture off I mean how the hell do you know who to go up to for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not being rude you used the term blind date..this is a swinging site not a dating site where you would expect pictures. if you have no problem with the world your family and friends potentially knowing you do this fine !"
when you meet its a date and who have you met that would meet you without seeing what you looked like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe 27 veris wow how trusting they were see theirs hope for ugly people yet

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By *unny and bare OP   Couple
over a year ago

kent


"Its not being rude you used the term blind date..this is a swinging site not a dating site where you would expect pictures. if you have no problem with the world your family and friends potentially knowing you do this fine !when you meet its a date and who have you met that would meet you without seeing what you looked like "
no its NOT A DATE ! its a social meet to see if there is chemistry not just facial attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I get what you're saying. You don't send pics and you don't expect pics of the other people either. Am I correct?

If so, then I understand where you're coming from. We only send face pics off site because we don't want the pics to have fabswingers associated with them. However, we would never meet anyone who refuses to send pictures at all.

Having said that, I understand that we are more demanding regarding face pics then others on here. It might be because we have different privacy concerns, but it still amounts to us being more demanding. You have to understand that people are going to have an issue with that. It doesn't mean you have to give in and send your pics, but I do think it involves a level of understanding.

Just don't meet the people who want face pics and don't stress over it.

-Courtney

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

So people meet you without having seen a photo of you both or do you just swap photos via mobiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not being rude you used the term blind date..this is a swinging site not a dating site where you would expect pictures. if you have no problem with the world your family and friends potentially knowing you do this fine !when you meet its a date and who have you met that would meet you without seeing what you looked like no its NOT A DATE ! its a social meet to see if there is chemistry not just facial attraction."
it's a date you meet on a day of the week and it has a number attached to it ,a date you are also meeting people who don't know who you are they've never seen you the potential for failure with dates like these must be high,sorry but would say most people on here wouldn't meet you without seeing what you look like first and if it's such a big deal being tagged a swinger having had as many meets as you must have had by now why put yourself at risk 27 veris some probably repeat meets plus those that don't veri coz they don't want to draw attention to themself and you ,god the risks are getting higher as time goes on ,just saying

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Erm hello!?

Come on mods! This sort of thread is only allowed on Rant Thursday®

WTF is even going on yo?

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

"Blind Date" - just semantics, and you're getting caught up in the "date" part. OK, so we're not "dating" another couple...

but the point of us using the term "Blind Date" is that you don't know what they look like before you turn up.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

CUNTING FUCK

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

(is that ok for a rant?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us , maybe it is but we are getting fed up with single guys and couples asking for face pics despite us saying specifically we don't give them out . To make matter worse they often don't have any pictures at all of themselves on their profile !!! What gives ??? "

If you don't give them out, how are you ever going to know what each other looks like??

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Erm hello!?

Come on mods! This sort of thread is only allowed on Rant Thursday®

WTF is even going on yo? "

Maybe you could help out and transport it forward in time?!

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey


"(is that ok for a rant?)"

Makes more sense than this one!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Erm hello!?

Come on mods! This sort of thread is only allowed on Rant Thursday®

WTF is even going on yo?

Maybe you could help out and transport it forward in time?! "

TM is in for repair (I over glittered). It can only go forward in time 1 minute per minute at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us , maybe it is but we are getting fed up with single guys and couples asking for face pics despite us saying specifically we don't give them out . To make matter worse they often don't have any pictures at all of themselves on their profile !!! What gives ???

If you don't give them out, how are you ever going to know what each other looks like?? "

Personally I would never meet or provide my contact details to someone without seeing their face pic. Its not exactly a big ask to provide!

It's liking buying a car based on a picture of the tyre and a written description?

If it's a privacy thing you can select to remove pics after they have been read through fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not being rude you used the term blind date..this is a swinging site not a dating site where you would expect pictures. if you have no problem with the world your family and friends potentially knowing you do this fine !when you meet its a date and who have you met that would meet you without seeing what you looked like no its NOT A DATE ! its a social meet to see if there is chemistry not just facial attraction."

And you think that is different to a date? Open your eyes and open your mind, people are entitled to different opinions without making them wrong. You are coming across aggressive here, I wouldn't meet you for love nor money.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"OP, I get what you're saying. You don't send pics and you don't expect pics of the other people either. Am I correct?

If so, then I understand where you're coming from. We only send face pics off site because we don't want the pics to have fabswingers associated with them. However, we would never meet anyone who refuses to send pictures at all.

Having said that, I understand that we are more demanding regarding face pics then others on here. It might be because we have different privacy concerns, but it still amounts to us being more demanding. You have to understand that people are going to have an issue with that. It doesn't mean you have to give in and send your pics, but I do think it involves a level of understanding.

Just don't meet the people who want face pics and don't stress over it.

-Courtney"

Whatever works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand why you would meet without swapping pics, you must have loads of time on your hands

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Its not a date ! Try match.com if you are a sad single !"

and yet your profile says you meet singles..?

happy ones i can only assume..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CUNTING FUCK"
heath god man get a grip

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i decided that at *ahem* my age i was too old to be playing blind date... so i like to have a fair idea of what people may look like before i decide to "bump uglies".........

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ok so you won't send pics but expect to see pics of others??

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a pic of them first for one id have no frigging clue who I'm looking for and two if I'm not attracted to you id rather know that before wasting my time getting ready to meet someone I've no interest in.

Oh and A social meet is essentially a date it's a meet in a public place to see if you want to take things further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree that a face pic proves nothing, same as a phone call prior to a meet. How can you be expected to verify someone you have never previously met in such a way?

However, if I haven't seen you on cam in a chat room (face, not wanking ) then I'm not meeting you. Simples

Also the OP just wants to meet men for sex so they aren't so choosy about what they look like, and who is to say they don't ask for cock pics instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet anyone without knowing what they looked like and wouldn't give my number out so they could send me a pic either. Photos can be uploaded and kept in private, so can be attached to messages, don't even have to go in friends only pics.

But if that's how you do it, it's your choice...just know i wouldn't meet without seeing pics first as knowing if you're visually attracted to someone saves time being wasted by going on a social to find out you might not be.

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By *rotiquexxxMan
over a year ago

Unquenchable Desires

Sounds like you need a darkroom

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Are there any Fabswingers who wear the burka?

Send me your horny pics!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it us , maybe it is but we are getting fed up with single guys and couples asking for face pics despite us saying specifically we don't give them out . To make matter worse they often don't have any pictures at all of themselves on their profile !!! What gives ??? "

Any chance of a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a date ! Try match.com if you are a sad single !"

I suspect a lot of people read your rant and were thinking "nah, not for me".

I bet that number went through the roof when they read that comment.

The answer is easy, run your profile how you want to, meet who you want to and let everyone do what they want to do.

Simples......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd expect people to travel,potentially book hotels and walk into a public place lookingmfor you with no idea what you look like? If they refuse to send out face pics as well do you come up with a secret code? That is what mobile phones are for !"

You won't show your face for safety reasons, but are happy to give out your mobile number?

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