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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Firstly, well done - you must be very relieved and secondly, it's a scar and scars are cool.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

carry it with pride.... and enjoy your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, well done on your recovery!

Don't worry about scars, they are part of you and your history.

I wouldn't be put off by it.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Firstly, well done - you must be very relieved and secondly, it's a scar and scars are cool. "

+1

wouldn't bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest

Glad you're on the mend

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Firstly, well done - you must be very relieved and secondly, it's a scar and scars are cool. "
your still the person you were dont worry about it , and if others do bugger them xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "

I love hearing good news

Those worthy of meeting wouldn't be bothered by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear it with pride glad your in the mend. Scars are sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shout it loud, shout it proud

"I am a survivor! "

If you let any potential meet know beforehand you'll not have any problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely amazing! Very happy for you. And don't be self-conscious in the slightest.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly wouldn't have an issue with meeting someone in your situation if they ticked the boxes otherwise

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hurrah! Congrats! That must be a massive relief!

I had a mate when I was younger who had a twisted testicle and he had to have one removed. When he was healed we gave the other a test run and it was grand.

It's easy to say that you shouldn't worry, like any scar/medical issue, it's visible to you but most people won't care so try not to worry too much.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

Massive congratulations.. wouldn't phase me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might sound weird but I love a good scar, don't freak out but it's a talking point and yours is a brilliant wonderful happy ending of a story, well done you, I don't know you but I'm well chuffed for you!!!

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By *ifes journeyCouple
over a year ago

scotland

Be proud ..go for it ....certainly wouldn't bother me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Not a problem at all... Live life and enjoy....

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By *iggy1Woman
over a year ago

DORCHESTER

Be proud, you have done brilliantly!

Anyone who's bothered is just not worth knowing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just mention it before you do the deed...if she's a decent girl, she won't be bothered x

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Being a cancer survivor myself and have the battle scars as well ... as people have said wear it with pride you are a survivor.look at is as a new start a new beginning i have never looked back 3 years now..doesn't change you xx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

its a reminder as to how lucky you are I doubt anyone would be bothered

well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "

Firstly may I say I am very happy your have received the good news of being all clear.

Secondly as a previous poster has said, its a scar, its part of you and nothing to be worried about, but possibly something to be proud of in the future.

I have a c-section scar I don't particularly like the look of but no-one has ever been put off by it, and if they are, its their loss. I will always be grateful for my scar because I know why it is there and I hope you will feel the same about yours.

Again, my happy thoughts are with yoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a thing for younger lovely looking men and you look good so don't worry as you have a lot going for you . xxxjo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations! Well done! Wear your scar with pride, lance Armstrong didn't win his first tour until after he'd survived testicular cancer so youre in good company... Oh hang on..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for support an advice just shows the good people out there thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you're OK, your scar is a sign of your survival.

Wear it with pride. And you look rather lovely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation "
no he can just tell the truth and us woman will love him for that .

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Well done OP. Congratulations. Don't worry about the scar. Think of it as a battle scar and wear it with pride. A reminder of what you've fought through.

And don't worry, anyone worth knowing won't be bothered by the scar I'm sure.

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Congratulation! glad to hear you won the battle OP, i really wouldnt worry about the scar. As others have said, wear it with pride! congrats again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation "

The Kalamari ?

Was he attacked by a giant squid ?

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

Well done u although not through cancer I have seven scars on my belly even though I know that they are there no one has ever commented do embrace it its a part of who you are xx

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Congratulation of getting clear.

Not that I'm asking to see your cock and balls, but I'm sure we could get you to top of fab pictures if you felt inclined to put one up

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Firstly congrats on beating it , secondly be proud you beat it and have scares to prove it . Your one of the lucky ones , we survived ,my scars internal ..your external wear them well xx Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay !!!!!!!

I love scars they are sexy

And often can't even tell just one testicle

Don't worry one bit X

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By *exywheelsCouple
over a year ago

inverness

Hi

Good to hear you are ok know how you feel as I as had the same op 3 weeks ago. Had a CT scan last week just waiting for the results.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Firstly congrats on beating it , secondly be proud you beat it and have scares to prove it . Your one of the lucky ones , we survived ,my scars internal ..your external wear them well xx Red"

I 2nd this!! Mine was caught early & I was very lucky (will start a separate thread) Congratulations, I hope you've celebrated??? xxx

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Sod anyone who cares, you've beat it and that's great.

Manhood really has nothing to do with 1 bollock or 2.

Have fun, you deserve it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ever there was a poster campaign to get people to check their balls. This is the perfect guy to be the face of it .

What do you think everyone ?

Mrs x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi, you will have gathered that the scar is nothing to worry about

Hope you stay cancer free and have loads of fun through Fab.

I'm sure you will

Nita x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"You could make up a story about how you were in SAS and you were ambushed on a night mission in the Kalamari dessert. Then,when she goes oooh really?? you can go nah,just kidding I had an operation

The Kalamari ?

Was he attacked by a giant squid ? "

haha its the Kalahari Desert

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "

Mention it when you first start talking. If they have an issue about it, they are not worth meeting.

I got the all clear back in 2004 from the same as you, brilliant feeling when you get the news.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really apreciate all the replies everyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing news congratulations.

Live life to the full everyday

Don't worry about others just have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

congrats hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations mate

Enjoy your life you have won a battle

Anyone who doesn't like it well it's their loss mate

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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And often can't even tell just one testicle

"

I thought it was just me that never noticed these things.... Ive had to have it pointed out to me before now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you are a hit with us already we like scars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And often can't even tell just one testicle

I thought it was just me that never noticed these things.... Ive had to have it pointed out to me before now "

Yea same here I didn't notice one bit !! His mates liked to tell girls tho

Lol didn't make no difference to anything lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "

I have met some one who had undergone surgery for testicular cancer and both his testicles were removed. We were at a club and he only told me once we were in the 'hut' and, erm, got down to it

My only concern was that I might hurt him accidentally (not sure how). He told me not to worry so, I didn't. We had a great time

Checking for scars didn't even cross my mind

Great that you have recovered. I very much doubt that people think of checking scars and if they do, I wonder why they would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done mate, I've got a massive scar above mine . People find it fascinating and its a great icebreaker at events.

Remember scars are cool, besides you've survived a big battle anyone put off by it cant see the real you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done fella, as above wear your scar with pride

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"Hi i have just been cleared of testicular cancer had a operation and a testicle removed and left with quite a big scar abov my penis worried what people would think if i met up with them an do the deed an really nervous about meeting as feel part of my man hood has gne any advice or help? "

Great news and if you show me yours, I'll show you mine - I guarantee mines bigger, I had a new hip a year ago xx

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

It wouldn't bother me in the least and anyone who is bothered by it isn't worth your time. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone x

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Congratulations on reaching the end.

As for only having one and a scar, well I've met a few guys who only had one. One was born that way, a couple had had surgery for different reasons, a couple had had testicular cancer. One guy had even had a falsie fitted!

The scars fade to practically nothing and it becomes pretty unnoticeable. In fact a couple of them didn't mention anything and it took quite a while before I noticed! I must have been distracted by other things...

As someone who has whacking great big scars that are sometimes visible when I'm fully dressed my experience is that most people are too busy looking at you, the person, to notice the blemishes on the skin.

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