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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I sort of noticed after talking to some ladies on fab that they get inundated with offers from us guys and mostly it's just plain "want a f*% ?"

I've naturally always been very descriptive when connected to a lady and chatting about the fun and games in fact sometimes it's almost like an erotic story

Is it wrong to be so descriptive and setting the scene ? Is it right to just say "I'll whip it out and ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every woman likes sexy talk... I grew out of it when I hit my 20s but that's just preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy message me a while back with a scenario (basically I'd broken down, knocked on his door etc) and it got to a certain point and I was left to take over the ending....it was pretty good for a first message!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I sort of noticed after talking to some ladies on fab that they get inundated with offers from us guys and mostly it's just plain "want a f*% ?"

I've naturally always been very descriptive when connected to a lady and chatting about the fun and games in fact sometimes it's almost like an erotic story

Is it wrong to be so descriptive and setting the scene ? Is it right to just say "I'll whip it out and ..."

"

It depends who you're talking to.

Descriptive and setting the scene is right for some women so is I'll whip it out an.....right for others. I prefer neither unless I have a specific agreement to exchange such messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's your first message from someone i just think 'presumptuous dick'. Unless it's something going on about doing stuff to me, then i think 'nice, but presumptuous'.

I can't stand dirty chat with anyone if idk them, only like it with guys i've already fucked or while being fucked.

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Oh dear geeky

Good start should have an ending too

Twisted, I know what u mean but it's not cyber as such it's more of an effect certain ladies have but only a few certain ones

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
over a year ago

london

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's your first message from someone i just think 'presumptuous dick'. Unless it's something going on about doing stuff to me, then i think 'nice, but presumptuous'.

I can't stand dirty chat with anyone if idk them, only like it with guys i've already fucked or while being fucked.

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This

I've received long descriptive initial messages in the past. I've read them, pressed the magical "unread" button then deleted them as they put me off.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never asked a lady to asterisk and percentage sign me

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"If that's your first message from someone i just think 'presumptuous dick'. Unless it's something going on about doing stuff to me, then i think 'nice, but presumptuous'.

I can't stand dirty chat with anyone if idk them, only like it with guys i've already fucked or while being fucked.

"

Spot on

That's what I was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that's your first message from someone i just think 'presumptuous dick'. Unless it's something going on about doing stuff to me, then i think 'nice, but presumptuous'.

I can't stand dirty chat with anyone if idk them, only like it with guys i've already fucked or while being fucked.

Spot on

That's what I was trying to say "

I also get that guys wanna know what they're getting on a meet or tell someone what they'll do to them, but if you haven't even agreed to meet it's just weird to approach people in that way.

It also makes me suspicious they either have no self control and don't respect other people have boundaries, or they just want dirty chat, i just feel they can't be trusted.

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By *ark_Knights OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thanks

Blimey I'm glad I put it up and got exactly what I was hoping for

So I'm normal haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never claimed to be normal...

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