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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it sad in a way that so many seem to open a topic in the forum about what they fantasise doing and then shortly after go UNLOS. It gives me the impression they are sexually repressed and struggle with their less "normal" sexual desires.

Perhaps these fleeting visitors can learn from the regular uninhibited posters on Fab who are genuinely free to experience their fantasies? Do you agree?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No I don't agree just because they left the site doesn't mean they are sexually repressed...what a bizarre statement to make...

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

What's UNLOS?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What's UNLOS?"

User no longer on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's probably numerous reasons. You'll never know the real reason....that's their business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't agree just because they left the site doesn't mean they are sexually repressed...what a bizarre statement to make... "

Can we focus on those that do have that issue please? It is obvious people leave for many different reasons. I am just thinking about thise that trawl through Fab and leave a message and go.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket


"What's UNLOS?

User no longer on site "

Ahhhh fankooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" There's probably numerous reasons. You'll never know the real reason....that's their business. "

Yes. Of course. How did I not see that?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No I don't agree just because they left the site doesn't mean they are sexually repressed...what a bizarre statement to make...

Can we focus on those that do have that issue please? It is obvious people leave for many different reasons. I am just thinking about thise that trawl through Fab and leave a message and go. "

How do you know they left for the reason you stated? How can we focus on anyone that has left the site when in most cases we don't know why they have left the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" There's probably numerous reasons. You'll never know the real reason....that's their business.

Yes. Of course. How did I not see that? "

I don't know. ..that's your business

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"No I don't agree just because they left the site doesn't mean they are sexually repressed...what a bizarre statement to make...

Can we focus on those that do have that issue please? It is obvious people leave for many different reasons. I am just thinking about thise that trawl through Fab and leave a message and go. "

She did...you asked do people agree, she didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they found what they sought...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP would like to talk about sexual repression methinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


" Do you agree?

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No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't agree just because they left the site doesn't mean they are sexually repressed...what a bizarre statement to make...

Can we focus on those that do have that issue please? It is obvious people leave for many different reasons. I am just thinking about thise that trawl through Fab and leave a message and go.

She did...you asked do people agree, she didn't"

True. I should have been clearer in the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP would like to talk about sexual repression methinks "

Thank you. That us probably true although, for the avoidance of doubt, I am not sexually repressed. I just feel sadness for those who are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they did learn and decided to go have fun elsewhere.

Perhaps they felt threatened by the swinging elite.

Perhaps they decided the site wasn't for them.

Perhaps they were shocked by the open sexual shenanigans.

Perhaps they were just taking the piss.

Perhaps.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"What's UNLOS?"

I used to think it was the United Nation's League Of Official Swingers - honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to guess why someone left the site is futile. How did you come to the conclusion that they are sexually repressed is my question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if it's a bit of a left field fantasy there's an onslaught of piss taking and/or criticism and they get told they'll never meet anyone now. I'd probably delete and start again too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there are quite a few sexually repressed people still on the site. So many find it really difficult to accept sexual practices other than those they enjoy, I see profiles that say things like "I enjoy x but wouldn't do anything weird like y".

I don't doubt that a proportion of those who go unlos after posting are repressed but we will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left briefly as I had issues that needed to be sorted out. Though I'm back with bells on now though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they did learn and decided to go have fun elsewhere.

Perhaps they felt threatened by the swinging elite.

Perhaps they decided the site wasn't for them.

Perhaps they were shocked by the open sexual shenanigans.

Perhaps they were just taking the piss.

Perhaps."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trying to guess why someone left the site is futile. How did you come to the conclusion that they are sexually repressed is my question. "

It is of course only a perception. You see ops from new folks like "i want to see my girlfriend have sex with a whole rugby team whilst i am tied to the goal post." Then a day later they are gone. As if they could be identified on here. Or perhaps they had their wank and the idea did not work anymore?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes if it's a bit of a left field fantasy there's an onslaught of piss taking and/or criticism and they get told they'll never meet anyone now. I'd probably delete and start again too. "

The piss taking is certainly going to affect them.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thank you. That us probably true although, for the avoidance of doubt, I am not sexually repressed. I just feel sadness for those who are. "

So do I, as I was before Fab. But it does appear to be a different topic to reasons why people leave the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

G'wan, I dare you to go UNLOS OP!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

UNLOS happens for many reasons, including their realisation that Fab isn't for them. It could be breach of rules, recognising someone they know, being caught by someone they're cheating on or from using the internet at work etc. UNLOS may also be duplicate profiles, which does happen.

The newbie and UNLOS threads can be entertaining, as they can bring a fresh approach to swinging, or their views upon it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you. That us probably true although, for the avoidance of doubt, I am not sexually repressed. I just feel sadness for those who are.

So do I, as I was before Fab. But it does appear to be a different topic to reasons why people leave the site "

I agree but you cannot delete a post. Ce la vie!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"G'wan, I dare you to go UNLOS OP! "

How would that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to guess why someone left the site is futile. How did you come to the conclusion that they are sexually repressed is my question.

It is of course only a perception. You see ops from new folks like "i want to see my girlfriend have sex with a whole rugby team whilst i am tied to the goal post." Then a day later they are gone. As if they could be identified on here. Or perhaps they had their wank and the idea did not work anymore? "

I'm going with had the wank and will be back when they need another

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know why they leave - it takes time for single men to get into the swing of things, as it were. It's not just patience, mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to guess why someone left the site is futile. How did you come to the conclusion that they are sexually repressed is my question.

It is of course only a perception. You see ops from new folks like "i want to see my girlfriend have sex with a whole rugby team whilst i am tied to the goal post." Then a day later they are gone. As if they could be identified on here. Or perhaps they had their wank and the idea did not work anymore?

I'm going with had the wank and will be back when they need another "

I do agree OP that some people will be as you say. But also that they often get the piss taken from some forumites and then they leave, which is a shame.

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