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"That I can do anything if I put my mind to it" I was going to say something along the lines of 'the saying that you make your own luck is so true' - but I think yours sums it up better! If you really want something and put proper effort into achieving it, chances are you will succeed! | |||
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"That there are men who find me attractive and have recently been to spec savers " I do and I haven't been recently | |||
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"That there are men who find me attractive and have recently been to spec savers " Well on the basis of your public gallery you certainly have nice legs and feet | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently?" I realised it's time to be the person I an and not what society expects me to conform to, taken a long time for this, including marriage and 3 kids...hence why I am now here | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently?" That after 4 years of saving and working two jobs for the most part, that I'm about 6 months away from buying my own home...at last xx | |||
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"Still not part of the forum " I've just realised I have no idea what that mean. You've posted so clearly you are leaving a mark on the forum. The other thing I realised today is that watching post watershed television with a teenager can be really embarrassing. | |||
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"That there are men who find me attractive and have recently been to spec savers Well on the basis of your public gallery you certainly have nice legs and feet " Thank you xx | |||
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"Still not part of the forum I've just realised I have no idea what that mean. You've posted so clearly you are leaving a mark on the forum. The other thing I realised today is that watching post watershed television with a teenager can be really embarrassing. " Not the Lovehoney ad?? | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/" I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. | |||
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"Still not part of the forum " Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored " No way! I always perceive you as one of the 'in' crowd | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored " Why do you two think that? How does one become part of the forum if it's not joining in as you do? I've realised that I quite like my job! | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can." I've only ever known one who could ^_^ | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^" My whole family can. My sister and I use it as a greeting for each other. | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^" I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? " Yes. Literally just the nose moves. I can also twitch my nostrils as an alternative nose excercise to the rabbit twitch *smug* | |||
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"Live your life for yourself. ..not for your friends approval or your family or society. ..in the end you enter and leave this world alone ...well unless your a twin . .lol" This, but with a sad touch. | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? " Yeah just a cute little nose twitch lol Basically my brain goes "don't listen to her" but my heat goes "dawwwwwww do whatever she says" Lousey cuteness, this is the same way stray cats take advantage of me | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored No way! I always perceive you as one of the 'in' crowd " I feel the same! I've realised I'm dealing with a bit too much at the moment. | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? Yes. Literally just the nose moves. I can also twitch my nostrils as an alternative nose excercise to the rabbit twitch *smug* " Haha! Yeah my nose can twitch and I can flare my nostrils too. | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored " Lol me to hun! X | |||
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"I really don't think there is an 'in-crowd'." Me neither. I just figure that we're all regular forum gobshites! | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? Yes. Literally just the nose moves. I can also twitch my nostrils as an alternative nose excercise to the rabbit twitch *smug* Haha! Yeah my nose can twitch and I can flare my nostrils too. " | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? Yes. Literally just the nose moves. I can also twitch my nostrils as an alternative nose excercise to the rabbit twitch *smug* Haha! Yeah my nose can twitch and I can flare my nostrils too. " Although you realise I've just spent ten minutes doing it in the mirror looking like a prize chump! It's just as well I live alone. Even the cat has left the room! | |||
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"I really don't think there is an 'in-crowd'." I was being tongue-in-cheek. I merely meant that Destiny always seems very much part of the forum. | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? Yes. Literally just the nose moves. I can also twitch my nostrils as an alternative nose excercise to the rabbit twitch *smug* Haha! Yeah my nose can twitch and I can flare my nostrils too. Although you realise I've just spent ten minutes doing it in the mirror looking like a prize chump! It's just as well I live alone. Even the cat has left the room! " Better to a cat in private than with a sister in public | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored " They like you. ..It's me they don't know how to react to | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored They like you. ..It's me they don't know how to react to " So i see... | |||
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"That a woman who can twitch her nose like a bunny can basically control me :/ I can do that! Although I'm sure there are many who can. I've only ever known one who could ^_^ I've just discovered I can do this too. Do you mean without the rest of your face moving? Yes. Literally just the nose moves. I can also twitch my nostrils as an alternative nose excercise to the rabbit twitch *smug* Haha! Yeah my nose can twitch and I can flare my nostrils too. Although you realise I've just spent ten minutes doing it in the mirror looking like a prize chump! It's just as well I live alone. Even the cat has left the room! Better to a cat in private than with a sister in public " Better both of you in bed doing it tbh :p | |||
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"As a single guy I can't get meets I need a new profile or someone to write it for me and I need patience according to shag I have also realised Diamond brought new shorts xx" You should realise you need to get to the right place at the right time! in the right clothes | |||
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"I worry about other people too much " Yes, if it gets too bad, that can be a problem. Look into CCI (centre for clinical intervention) with the worry part. That helped calm my worry centres. Not completely effective, but it's manageable now | |||
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"Still not part of the forum " Do you want to be? And you probably are. | |||
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"Still not part of the forum Neither am I but I still post. Most of what I write is ignored They like you. ..It's me they don't know how to react to " I'm excluded from reacting to you. | |||
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"That I can do anything if I put my mind to it" Well put your mind to cleaning our oven before we move on Wednesday please | |||
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"Lots of positives it's great reading all of the responses people have, to those of you that are "not a part of the forum" though, I empathise as it's not often people respond to my posts in other peoples threads either, but that's probably because most of what I write is shite lol Congratulations to those of you who have made steps towards being happier (or at least more contented) people, and I wish you the best of luck on the rest of your journey Also big congratulations to those of you who have realised that twitching your nose is awesome lol " You don't write shite. I like your posts. There isn't a forum clique. It's just funny to say there is sometimes because certain people think they are in one. Great thread OP. | |||
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"Lots of positives it's great reading all of the responses people have, to those of you that are "not a part of the forum" though, I empathise as it's not often people respond to my posts in other peoples threads either, but that's probably because most of what I write is shite lol Congratulations to those of you who have made steps towards being happier (or at least more contented) people, and I wish you the best of luck on the rest of your journey Also big congratulations to those of you who have realised that twitching your nose is awesome lol You don't write shite. I like your posts. There isn't a forum clique. It's just funny to say there is sometimes because certain people think they are in one. Great thread OP. " Why thank you Scarlet I must say, I enjoy reading lots of peoples posts, yours included I sometimes think there is, but I don't understand cliques at all lol | |||
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"Lots of positives it's great reading all of the responses people have, to those of you that are "not a part of the forum" though, I empathise as it's not often people respond to my posts in other peoples threads either, but that's probably because most of what I write is shite lol Congratulations to those of you who have made steps towards being happier (or at least more contented) people, and I wish you the best of luck on the rest of your journey Also big congratulations to those of you who have realised that twitching your nose is awesome lol You don't write shite. I like your posts. There isn't a forum clique. It's just funny to say there is sometimes because certain people think they are in one. Great thread OP. " I like this thread too!! *twitches nose* | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently?" That I'm being taken for a fool! | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I'm being taken for a fool! " Aww hope everything is ok X | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I'm being taken for a fool! " Do you pity the... :p | |||
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"Still not part of the forum " yes you are - do why you think that ? x | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I'm being taken for a fool! " Kick him out!! | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I'm being taken for a fool! Kick him out!!" This. Unless he's a she. In which case kick her out. Unless it's a cat, in which case it's a cats prerogative, but that's the only acceptable reason for not kicking them out | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently?" That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all." Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. " If I'm ever in a room full of people I know feeling lonely then it's usually because I don't like them, and thus don't really want to be there! I am quite a solitary creature but I do spend way too much time on my own | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. If I'm ever in a room full of people I know feeling lonely then it's usually because I don't like them, and thus don't really want to be there! I am quite a solitary creature but I do spend way too much time on my own " You need a cat. Better still, two. I recommend ragdolls. | |||
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"because most of what I write is shite lol " I don't think you do | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. If I'm ever in a room full of people I know feeling lonely then it's usually because I don't like them, and thus don't really want to be there! I am quite a solitary creature but I do spend way too much time on my own You need a cat. Better still, two. I recommend ragdolls. " I used to have a cat. Loved him to bits. Sadly he died a couple of years ago... | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. If I'm ever in a room full of people I know feeling lonely then it's usually because I don't like them, and thus don't really want to be there! I am quite a solitary creature but I do spend way too much time on my own You need a cat. Better still, two. I recommend ragdolls. I used to have a cat. Loved him to bits. Sadly he died a couple of years ago... " Get a rescue cat. Feel better and do some good. Win win. | |||
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"get a dog, that way when you die it will eat the cats and gaurd your body" I heard you the first time. | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. " Really? | |||
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"That my future once stretched before me........but now stretches behind me !" Your future is always before. We're all alive until we're not. | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. Really?" It's a possibility. Those types of feelings can be markers. | |||
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"Today, I realised that I've always wanted to raise kids, but never wanted to get married What have you realised recently? That I find myself feeling increasingly lonely and I could do with doing something about that. And I'm not a total failure. That there is hope out there for us all. Can you be in a room full of people you know well and still feel lonely? Do you often feel alone? You may be on your way to depression. Really? It's a possibility. Those types of feelings can be markers. " I agree with markoh, it was certainly those that indicated depression for me | |||
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"That I'm a strong woman capable of raising my kids on my own...and that I'll be ok" | |||
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