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midlife crisis lol ...early 40's

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Since my marriage split just over a year ago..ive found ive got a new spark in my life an some people say im going through a midlife crisis esp my work collegues just cause i go to dance music/ trance music gigs an i go from 9pm-6am in the morn an i love to see super djs an maybe my work colleagues are jealous im not too sure tbh im 43 an they are saying lol im too old to be going to all night dance music gigs..lol

They don't know i have a secret nsa life style..lol since looseing weight an going to the gym i feel a spring in my step an feel a lot healthier an i work out at home too step aerobics. .an i dont think im going through a midlife crisis just cause i go to dance gigs an dance all night..maybe cause my work collegues have noticed my weight loss an im toneing up..to me your as young as u feel lol or a guy u feel lol...

i must admit i have a spring in my step esp being on fabs.,an having a nawty time lol ..an started to experiment with my sexual side i feel liberated an feel im just trying new things...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Good! Enjoy life, it's not a rehearsal.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

be happy

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Sounds like you're just having a great time to me,good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since my marriage split just over a year ago..ive found ive got a new spark in my life an some people say im going through a midlife crisis esp my work collegues just cause i go to dance music/ trance music gigs an i go from 9pm-6am in the morn an i love to see super djs an maybe my work colleagues are jealous im not too sure tbh im 43 an they are saying lol im too old to be going to all night dance music gigs..lol

They don't know i have a secret nsa life style..lol since looseing weight an going to the gym i feel a spring in my step an feel a lot healthier an i work out at home too step aerobics. .an i dont think im going through a midlife crisis just cause i go to dance gigs an dance all night..maybe cause my work collegues have noticed my weight loss an im toneing up..to me your as young as u feel lol or a guy u feel lol...

i must admit i have a spring in my step esp being on fabs.,an having a nawty time lol ..an started to experiment with my sexual side i feel liberated an feel im just trying new things... "

What mid-life crisis? I split from my wife 3 years ago, ive lost 5 stone cycling, im 45 soon, look good, feel great and love swinging, my sex life is fantastic and ive never been happier, so young lady you do what makes you happy and sod the rest of them x

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Thanks guys..i just feel i have a new life. ..an feel much better about myself. .an i think life is for liveing..

an im discovering new things..esp being stuck in a restricted boring marriage..now out of the marriage an nearly divorced..awaiting my decree absolute an then im totally free

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you know something, I would never say to someone lose weight, fit and healthy is what you should be, however, the connection between weight loss and having a new lease of life keeps coming up over again just lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a club in Brixton called 414, went a few months ago and there was a pensioner there who is apparently a regular and was loving it. He was still going when we left at 6.30

It confused me that there is this attitude that older people shouldn't club or go to gigs. I don;t get it. Do what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys..i just feel i have a new life. ..an feel much better about myself. .an i think life is for liveing..

an im discovering new things..esp being stuck in a restricted boring marriage..now out of the marriage an nearly divorced..awaiting my decree absolute an then im totally free "
The laws of physics contend that for every action there has to be an equal and opposite reaction. After being in a relationship you are doing what you want and does it matter if you are 43? Not a jot!!! Go for it girl and enjoy!

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"There's a club in Brixton called 414, went a few months ago and there was a pensioner there who is apparently a regular and was loving it. He was still going when we left at 6.30

It confused me that there is this attitude that older people shouldn't club or go to gigs. I don;t get it. Do what makes you happy"

iam doing im taking no notice of said work collegues tbh..i just think there jealous. .as i go dancing an have the energy..an maybe there lives are boring..typical work gossip lol esp me working in an office

i dance around younger people that are 10 years younger than me an more..an all the other trancers accept me an think its great that i go to dance all night..i dont understand the mentallity of if you hit your 40 s you shouldnt go to nightclubs etc an dance lol i dont feel 43 tbh i feel 10 years younger..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Good for you OP....you are along time dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you know something, I would never say to someone lose weight, fit and healthy is what you should be, however, the connection between weight loss and having a new lease of life keeps coming up over again just lately."
Have to say Diamond you look fantastic have starred on a health plan?

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Thanks guys..i just feel i have a new life. ..an feel much better about myself. .an i think life is for liveing..

an im discovering new things..esp being stuck in a restricted boring marriage..now out of the marriage an nearly divorced..awaiting my decree absolute an then im totally free The laws of physics contend that for every action there has to be an equal and opposite reaction. After being in a relationship you

are doing what you want and does it matter if you are

43? Not a jot!!! Go for it girl and enjoy!"

Thanks babes iam doing. Tbh im going for it

an i have a spring in my step thats for sure

im a lot hapier an content an i have that nawty side that does come out occasionally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since my marriage split just over a year ago..ive found ive got a new spark in my life an some people say im going through a midlife crisis esp my work collegues just cause i go to dance music/ trance music gigs an i go from 9pm-6am in the morn an i love to see super djs an maybe my work colleagues are jealous im not too sure tbh im 43 an they are saying lol im too old to be going to all night dance music gigs..lol

They don't know i have a secret nsa life style..lol since looseing weight an going to the gym i feel a spring in my step an feel a lot healthier an i work out at home too step aerobics. .an i dont think im going through a midlife crisis just cause i go to dance gigs an dance all night..maybe cause my work collegues have noticed my weight loss an im toneing up..to me your as young as u feel lol or a guy u feel lol...

i must admit i have a spring in my step esp being on fabs.,an having a nawty time lol ..an started to experiment with my sexual side i feel liberated an feel im just trying new things... "

To old! Never, I still go to all night dance gigs, best times ever

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Good for you OP....you are along time dead "

thanks, you certainly are. You only have one life in this world. Maybe ive had a sexual wakening too lol

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Good for you keep enjoying yourself and take care too

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Do you know something, I would never say to someone lose weight, fit and healthy is what you should be, however, the connection between weight loss and having a new lease of life keeps coming up over again just lately. Have to say Diamond you look fantastic have starred on a health plan?"

ive joined a gym recently an use a running machine an do step aerobics at home too..i feel a lot better an healthier an yes a health kick too.. at the mo due to intense workout im craveing sweet things like chocolate a lot an sex too im doing aerobic an sex workout all helps towards weight loss.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Good for you keep enjoying yourself and take care too "

thanks babes..im enjoying myself an feel so envigorated an feel a lease of life an awakening has happened. .

you take care too sweets

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Exactly the same here. Been single now 2 years after a totally monogamous 20 year marriage. Loving life and living it to the full. Age is no barrier to enjoying life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a club in Brixton called 414, went a few months ago and there was a pensioner there who is apparently a regular and was loving it. He was still going when we left at 6.30

It confused me that there is this attitude that older people shouldn't club or go to gigs. I don;t get it. Do what makes you happy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good for you OP....you are along time dead

thanks, you certainly are. You only have one life in this world. Maybe ive had a sexual wakening too lol "

People should have their mid life crisis earlier.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Do you know something, I would never say to someone lose weight, fit and healthy is what you should be, however, the connection between weight loss and having a new lease of life keeps coming up over again just lately."

If you did cardiovascular workout u would understand. An im just working out my legs. Working my heart, lungs etc. An it improves stamina

there is nothing wrong in working out an looseing weight to improve overall health

an nothing wrong with weightloss threads i would rather be how iam than be obese an have health probs an nothing wrong with people putting posts up about weightloss

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This thread has really made me smile, wait till you read mine when I get to target

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Do you know something, I would never say to someone lose weight, fit and healthy is what you should be, however, the connection between weight loss and having a new lease of life keeps coming up over again just lately.

If you did cardiovascular workout u would understand. An im just working out my legs. Working my heart, lungs etc. An it improves stamina

there is nothing wrong in working out an looseing weight to improve overall health

an nothing wrong with weightloss threads i would rather be how iam than be obese an have health probs an nothing wrong with people putting posts up about weightloss"
errr I think you have completly read my post wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, that sounds the exact opposite to a crisis.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"OP, that sounds the exact opposite to a crisis. "

its the complete opposite lol to a midlife crisis

what is it if im not having a mid life crisis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, that sounds the exact opposite to a crisis.

its the complete opposite lol to a midlife crisis

what is it if im not having a mid life crisis

"

Fun and freedom. Just enjoy. x

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"OP, that sounds the exact opposite to a crisis.

its the complete opposite lol to a midlife crisis

what is it if im not having a mid life crisis

"

Mid life awakening I like to think

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"OP, that sounds the exact opposite to a crisis.

its the complete opposite lol to a midlife crisis

what is it if im not having a mid life crisis

Mid life awakening I like to think "

i think it is a realisation tbh an a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sudden realisation, that what you thought was life, wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since my marriage split just over a year ago..ive found ive got a new spark in my life an some people say im going through a midlife crisis esp my work collegues just cause i go to dance music/ trance music gigs an i go from 9pm-6am in the morn an i love to see super djs an maybe my work colleagues are jealous im not too sure tbh im 43 an they are saying lol im too old to be going to all night dance music gigs..lol

They don't know i have a secret nsa life style..lol since looseing weight an going to the gym i feel a spring in my step an feel a lot healthier an i work out at home too step aerobics. .an i dont think im going through a midlife crisis just cause i go to dance gigs an dance all night..maybe cause my work collegues have noticed my weight loss an im toneing up..to me your as young as u feel lol or a guy u feel lol...

i must admit i have a spring in my step esp being on fabs.,an having a nawty time lol ..an started to experiment with my sexual side i feel liberated an feel im just trying new things... "

Wow, reading this it was like a mirror of my life at the moment.

Good on you though for embracing your new life. Roll with it and enjoy where it takes you as it's a lot of fun.

I split with my wife at the start of last year and I'm loving life. I go out with work colleagues and chuckle as I roll in at 6am and the young 'uns barely make it past 2. I go to clubs and have meets all without anyone close to me knowing about my nsa lifestyle. Love the fact I have this alternate me to enjoy when I need to.

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