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Would most single women swing if they met a man who did?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have recently joined Plenty of Fish (I am genuinely single before people start moaning). I put on my profile that I have been single for 3 years but I have an unusual personal life?

In the first week 3 women have asked me what it is and of course I told them about swinging.

Believe it or not 2 of the women have come round for sex? And 1 of them is up for doing meets with me?

Its not the reaction I expected and going on what ive seen 2 out of 3 single women are interested in swinging?

Is this true and what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

But pof is basically this site for singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited "
And as been for a number of years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited "

Im getting more sex off pof with far less effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited "

Correct that because a lot of the singles on there also have a sneaky profile on here.

It's not just POF though.

Join many sites and watch for the same profiles and pics popping up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited

Correct that because a lot of the singles on there also have a sneaky profile on here.

It's not just POF though.

Join many sites and watch for the same profiles and pics popping up."

Ive chatted on pof with a woman ive met on here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have recently joined Plenty of Fish (I am genuinely single before people start moaning). I put on my profile that I have been single for 3 years but I have an unusual personal life?

In the first week 3 women have asked me what it is and of course I told them about swinging.

Believe it or not 2 of the women have come round for sex? And 1 of them is up for doing meets with me?

Its not the reaction I expected and going on what ive seen 2 out of 3 single women are interested in swinging?

Is this true and what do you think?

"

I met my other half on here and we've taken time out to get to know us. We will introduce others again.

It may seem hypocritical/contradictory but if I met someone via pof and he mentioned swinging I'd block him.

Didn't expect to find a partner here, yet would have blocked him on pof!!

It makes sense in my head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not, but I think they should change the name from Plenty of Fish to Plenty of Fucks as it is basically full of people who want sex.

Im not surprised in the slighest women come round for sex, they know your not going to become one of those creepy stalker guys you often get on there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on Pof and haven't had any sex off it.

Must be something I'm doing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell would I date a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently joined Plenty of Fish (I am genuinely single before people start moaning). I put on my profile that I have been single for 3 years but I have an unusual personal life?

In the first week 3 women have asked me what it is and of course I told them about swinging.

Believe it or not 2 of the women have come round for sex? And 1 of them is up for doing meets with me?

Its not the reaction I expected and going on what ive seen 2 out of 3 single women are interested in swinging?

Is this true and what do you think?

"

Myself and my friend set up a profile on pof last year, to see what would happen as she was available for dating. Within half a hour we both had messages, without a face pic public on the profiles, asking us for sex. These were men approaching us, so yes the people on there are up for swinging, not dating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and haven't had any sex off it.

Must be something I'm doing wrong!"

Tell them you go swinging mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a chance in hell would I date a swinger. "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm on Pof and haven't had any sex off it.

Must be something I'm doing wrong!

Tell them you go swinging mate?"

Got to be worth a try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pof and badoo are worse than fab!!!! And tinder!! I had a guy on pof about four months ago, we chatted for a while, he turned up at my house and was gone again in ten mins he got the bj and quick fuck he wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its not, but I think they should change the name from Plenty of Fish to Plenty of Fucks as it is basically full of people who want sex.

Im not surprised in the slighest women come round for sex, they know your not going to become one of those creepy stalker guys you often get on there lol"

Plenty of Fucks! Hahahaha!

I am SO going to use that saying next time it's mentioned in my non-fab life. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a profile on plenty of fish but never used it.

I saw a tv program about POF doing socials that looked like most were there for sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a chance in hell would I date a swinger.

Why?"

Guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"pof and badoo are worse than fab!!!! And tinder!! I had a guy on pof about four months ago, we chatted for a while, he turned up at my house and was gone again in ten mins he got the bj and quick fuck he wanted.

"

I never get it, I love spending time with the women on FAB, 10 minutes im just getting started. Im signing upto badoo though lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pof and badoo are worse than fab!!!! And tinder!! I had a guy on pof about four months ago, we chatted for a while, he turned up at my house and was gone again in ten mins he got the bj and quick fuck he wanted.

I never get it, I love spending time with the women on FAB, 10 minutes im just getting started. Im signing upto badoo though lol x"

I wouldn't mind but he said he had an hour......my self confidence went down a bit after that for well all of an hour!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. And women don't need a man in order to be free to live as they want to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have recently joined Plenty of Fish (I am genuinely single before people start moaning). I put on my profile that I have been single for 3 years but I have an unusual personal life?

In the first week 3 women have asked me what it is and of course I told them about swinging.

Believe it or not 2 of the women have come round for sex? And 1 of them is up for doing meets with me?

Its not the reaction I expected and going on what ive seen 2 out of 3 single women are interested in swinging?

Is this true and what do you think?

"

Your statement that "going on what I've seen 2out of 3 single women are interested in swinging" is irrefutable certainly because that is your experience but you are fishing in a limited pool and can't possibly apply that figure to the entire single female population.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its not, but I think they should change the name from Plenty of Fish to Plenty of Fucks as it is basically full of people who want sex.

Im not surprised in the slighest women come round for sex, they know your not going to become one of those creepy stalker guys you often get on there lol

Plenty of Fucks! Hahahaha!

I am SO going to use that saying next time it's mentioned in my non-fab life. Thanks "

your welcome, always gives my friends a laugh

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I have recently joined Plenty of Fish (I am genuinely single before people start moaning). I put on my profile that I have been single for 3 years but I have an unusual personal life?

In the first week 3 women have asked me what it is and of course I told them about swinging.

Believe it or not 2 of the women have come round for sex? And 1 of them is up for doing meets with me?

Its not the reaction I expected and going on what ive seen 2 out of 3 single women are interested in swinging?

Is this true and what do you think?

"

That sounds like 1 out of 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited And as been for a number of years"

you are kidding, most women have profiles full of, 'no sex talk', 'no I won't meet just for sex', 'No I do not want to see your cock'. It is useless for dating though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No its not, but I think they should change the name from Plenty of Fish to Plenty of Fucks as it is basically full of people who want sex.

Im not surprised in the slighest women come round for sex, they know your not going to become one of those creepy stalker guys you often get on there lol"

Yeah im not the stalker type really, and at least im honest about it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'd be happy to hook up with a guy for mutual support in clubs and parties, but have no interest in meeting couple on couple, so not sure how happy the bloke would be with that.

Strangely enough there are many women who don't need or want men for sexual fulfilment, but we like having you round for the odd chat etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have recently joined Plenty of Fish (I am genuinely single before people start moaning). I put on my profile that I have been single for 3 years but I have an unusual personal life?

In the first week 3 women have asked me what it is and of course I told them about swinging.

Believe it or not 2 of the women have come round for sex? And 1 of them is up for doing meets with me?

Its not the reaction I expected and going on what ive seen 2 out of 3 single women are interested in swinging?

Is this true and what do you think?

That sounds like 1 out of 3"

I reckon if they meet you for sex after you tell them your a swinger then there interested? No matter what she says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a relationship where I share. So if I did get into one there would be no swinging.

That doesn't make me a bad person and I'm in no way judging the relationships of others. I just know that's not what I would want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want a relationship where I share. So if I did get into one there would be no swinging.

That doesn't make me a bad person and I'm in no way judging the relationships of others. I just know that's not what I would want "

Would you do MFM, if that's the only type of meet he wanted?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What annoys me about dating sites and the people that join is the fact that like POF it's a sex site dressed up as a sex site....I'm genuinely looking to date and I find it a ball ache as some people just join to get their balls emptied why not just join here etc....

From a frustrated dater

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"POF is a sex site dressed up as a dating site imho.

It's Fab for the inhibited And as been for a number of years

you are kidding, most women have profiles full of, 'no sex talk', 'no I won't meet just for sex', 'No I do not want to see your cock'. It is useless for dating though!"

I have a bit more witty paragraph that covers the above I'm on a dating site to date if I want a shag I'll log into fab...I love my life and get frustrated with the time I waste on men lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What annoys me about dating sites and the people that join is the fact that like POF it's a sex site dressed up as a sex site....I'm genuinely looking to date and I find it a ball ache as some people just join to get their balls emptied why not just join here etc....

From a frustrated dater "

Also a frustrated dater, I didnt join POF to swing I do that here, I don't go out at weekends trying to shag d*unk women, I am really single, and I think Im more honest about who I am than 99% of men on these sites. Im not some sex maniac I just dont see why I should be celibate and on FAB I dont have to lie about it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"What annoys me about dating sites and the people that join is the fact that like POF it's a sex site dressed up as a sex site....I'm genuinely looking to date and I find it a ball ache as some people just join to get their balls emptied why not just join here etc....

From a frustrated dater

Also a frustrated dater, I didnt join POF to swing I do that here, I don't go out at weekends trying to shag d*unk women, I am really single, and I think Im more honest about who I am than 99% of men on these sites. Im not some sex maniac I just dont see why I should be celibate and on FAB I dont have to lie about it"

This is just my opinion but I think it's easier for a man to disclose he is on a sex site and swings than for a woman. I disclosed it once and got called a slag...but that's just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want a relationship where I share. So if I did get into one there would be no swinging.

That doesn't make me a bad person and I'm in no way judging the relationships of others. I just know that's not what I would want

Would you do MFM, if that's the only type of meet he wanted?"

No. If I give my heart to someone I don't want them to feel like there is a need for an extra person in the bedroom. Maybe I'm hoping for something that doesn't exist or I will never find. However I want to be enough for someone and for them to be enough for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't want a relationship where I share. So if I did get into one there would be no swinging.

That doesn't make me a bad person and I'm in no way judging the relationships of others. I just know that's not what I would want

Would you do MFM, if that's the only type of meet he wanted?

No. If I give my heart to someone I don't want them to feel like there is a need for an extra person in the bedroom. Maybe I'm hoping for something that doesn't exist or I will never find. However I want to be enough for someone and for them to be enough for me "

You aren't hoping for something that doesn't exist, there are quite a few men on Fab who are looking for a woman who will only have sex with them.

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By *ammskiMan
over a year ago

lytham st.annes

I,ve met women on here who are on POF,had my way with them too,it,s just another site for people who want sex,may take a while longer on POF though,to achieve ones goal, Ian

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I,ve met women on here who are on POF,had my way with them too,it,s just another site for people who want sex,may take a while longer on POF though,to achieve ones goal, Ian "

It seems to be quicker if you tell them your a swinger?? I cant work it out think I will stay single seems like more fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want a relationship where I share. So if I did get into one there would be no swinging.

That doesn't make me a bad person and I'm in no way judging the relationships of others. I just know that's not what I would want

Would you do MFM, if that's the only type of meet he wanted?

No. If I give my heart to someone I don't want them to feel like there is a need for an extra person in the bedroom. Maybe I'm hoping for something that doesn't exist or I will never find. However I want to be enough for someone and for them to be enough for me

You aren't hoping for something that doesn't exist, there are quite a few men on Fab who are looking for a woman who will only have sex with them."

I would give up swinging no problem for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What annoys me about dating sites and the people that join is the fact that like POF it's a sex site dressed up as a sex site....I'm genuinely looking to date and I find it a ball ache as some people just join to get their balls emptied why not just join here etc....

From a frustrated dater

Also a frustrated dater, I didnt join POF to swing I do that here, I don't go out at weekends trying to shag d*unk women, I am really single, and I think Im more honest about who I am than 99% of men on these sites. Im not some sex maniac I just dont see why I should be celibate and on FAB I dont have to lie about it

This is just my opinion but I think it's easier for a man to disclose he is on a sex site and swings than for a woman. I disclosed it once and got called a slag...but that's just my thoughts "

It's true, thankfully some of us dont think that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want a relationship where I share. So if I did get into one there would be no swinging.

That doesn't make me a bad person and I'm in no way judging the relationships of others. I just know that's not what I would want

Would you do MFM, if that's the only type of meet he wanted?

No. If I give my heart to someone I don't want them to feel like there is a need for an extra person in the bedroom. Maybe I'm hoping for something that doesn't exist or I will never find. However I want to be enough for someone and for them to be enough for me

You aren't hoping for something that doesn't exist, there are quite a few men on Fab who are looking for a woman who will only have sex with them."

I found a couple of those men,they didn't only want sex with me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a gorgeous man on plenty of fish , im still with him , he has no idea I subscribe to this mindset and from careful probing I dont think he would like this lifestyle , so for now , I am just yakking on the forums as usual .

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