FabSwingers.com forum: controversal opinion.

By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bed hoppers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that right ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say whenever I see the word

Discuss after a post I always think jeeez im back at school.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Bed Hopper here and I am not looking for anyone else's admiration

, just a good shag

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

You don't swing?

You're on the wrong site then mate.

*Her*

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Bed hoppers? Think you mean 'swingers' mate! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a space hopper as a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have a space hopper as a child

So did I...bright orange it was

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Each to their own. There's no right or wrong way.

Its never good to generalise sex

In my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is the most polite 'I can't get a meet post' I have seen in some time.

In terms of your theory, for me, it's bollocks. I've had some great shags with one offs and I've had some awful ones.

Been with a regular partner now for over two years. Whilst most of the sex is great, sometimes it's just a cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have a space hopper as a child

I bought my kids the Orange one with the weird face that everyone used to have when I was little

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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Discuss: Seems like someone thinks they are here to give a lecture.

This is a forum where people are free to give their comments if they feel like it, not a classroom where they are ordered about by a teacher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have a space hopper as a child

So did I...bright orange it was

I think they were all orange

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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Yep totally agree ??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You know, I agree with most of your post, sex does get better the more you know someone, however, you can get to know more than one person at a time, one offs have their place especially in clubs.

But if your looking to have sex with just one person and lack respect for those that play different to you maybe your on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer you've gone without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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Discuss: Seems like someone thinks they are here to give a lecture.

This is a forum where people are free to give their comments if they feel like it, not a classroom where they are ordered about by a teacher."

I've seen lots of people put "discuss" at the end of an OP. I don't see an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you're right OP. The better you know someone's body, the better the sex is. And if there's a strong emotion like love thrown in, like love, then it's even more true.

I fear you have voiced your opinion on the wrong site. Be prepared for a verbal kicking.

Jay (not Anne, for those who did/did not read my previous thread lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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Why constrain yourself with rules as to what constitutes good sex? You're probably right in general but as Diamondsmiles says you can get to know more than 1 person at once, and there are always exceptions to the self-imposed rules. Your lack of respect for people who conduct their lifestyle differently is rather pompous, don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree to a degree.

I have overall better quality sex with Paul than with others. We know what works for each other, how to bring each other to orgasm and it's a comforting sex where our bodies are becoming one.

However It lacks one major thing - excitement (not all the time I must add we throw some new moves in occasionally

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With a new partner you have that excitement of the anticipation of what they will do to you and how they will react to the way you touch them.

That's why I love swinging, you get to have your cake and eat it

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

You don't need to be in a relationship to get to know someone. It has to start somewhere though so the first time is always ventured into as a one off with a _iew to becoming a regular thing.

The best sex I ever had was the first night I met someone. If I never saw him again, it was still the best sex I'd ever had.

Lots of things work for lots of different people and just because you choose not to 'bed hop' it doesn't mean it's the wrong thing for others.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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You may have picked the wrong hobby then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the fact I can fart in bed and still get a shag. That seals the deal for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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You may have picked the wrong hobby then."

Why?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When op says he doesn't admire bed hoppers it sounds like he's not so good at accepting diversity amongst others.

One's own opinion or experience can never be taken as a universal truth. That's about all that needs to be said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When op says he doesn't admire bed hoppers it sounds like he's not so good at accepting diversity amongst others.

One's own opinion or experience can never be taken as a universal truth. That's about all that needs to be said."

I may be wrong but I suspect he meant that he didn't envy "bed hoppers" (envy seems more apt thsn admire)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Married guy dislikes bed hoppers Shock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have a space hopper as a child

I bought my kids the Orange one with the weird face that everyone used to have when I was little

The new ones just don;t seem as robust as the old ones which is a bit ironic because the kids that bounce on them these days seem to be twice the size!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"When op says he doesn't admire bed hoppers it sounds like he's not so good at accepting diversity amongst others.

One's own opinion or experience can never be taken as a universal truth. That's about all that needs to be said.

I may be wrong but I suspect he meant that he didn't envy "bed hoppers" (envy seems more apt thsn admire)"
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He'd said he doesn't admire these so called 'bed hoppers', which gave rise to my thoughts - though substituting any other inference is anyone's guess as to what's in his mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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100% agree, new meets are exciting of course but its hard to find a true fuckbuddy on FAB. I have a couples profile with a fuckbuddy and we first had sex 28 years ago and we both enjoy it more the older we get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

You forgot to add the unwanted emotional aspect which you can get from repeat meets, tell boredom which can develop and the excitement of a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to say whenever I see the word

Discuss after a post I always think jeeez im back at school.

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bend over then take your punishment and then do 50 lines " I will not shag someone different every time "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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Your opinion is slightly controversial I agree especially since for some people the very fact that they are having sex with people in the manner you describe is what makes it great and satisfying.

You say you don't admire bed hoppers and I suppose by association swingers but there are plenty in wider society who have no admiration for people who build up a relationship based solely on sex then claim it's superior or as it's so delicately called take a fuck buddy.

We have had excellent, satisfying and memorable sex with people we barely know that has sustained us sexually for weeks but the best lovemaking with emotional commitment (surely not possible with a fuck buddy by definition) is between ourselves it doesn't mean that I don't admire the people we've had casual sex with.

Not much surprises me on here but recently I've noticed a trend towards implying that sex with multiple partners is wrong and its often men expressing that and that does surprise me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True to a certain point OP. I don't do random meets in clubs for this reason. It works best for me when there's some rapport.

By the way, post what you want and phrase it the way you want. It gives others the chance to show how delightfully open minded they are that your opinion clashes with there's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is gar more exciting with somebody new, when its on a long term relationship it can become like a chore and get repetitive and unappreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*far more... need an edit button on here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"True to a certain point OP. I don't do random meets in clubs for this reason. It works best for me when there's some rapport.

By the way, post what you want and phrase it the way you want. It gives others the chance to show how delightfully open minded they are that your opinion clashes with there's

He wants people to discuss it and that involves disagreeing if the discussion is going to be in any way useful. Agreeing for 175 posts isn't what the op wanted hence "discuss" at the end of his post and his use of the word controversial at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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I find it hard to get off with people the first few times but stick around with me because I definitely make up for it later as previous partners know,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

Discuss

Your opinion is slightly controversial I agree especially since for some people the very fact that they are having sex with people in the manner you describe is what makes it great and satisfying.

Not much surprises me on here but recently I've noticed a trend towards implying that sex with multiple partners is wrong and its often men expressing that and that does surprise me."

I met someone last year and she was fun and we met a few times, but then I read how many other people she was sleeping with and it did put me off. Having said that it was just a phase and she did not carry on meeting at that rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like anything in life,an act.

I'm not gonna pull any punches here but I know loads of mates and women in relationships who've practically stopped having sex. Over familiarity,same routine,slight resentment,life being a little mainstream.They'd simply rather have a wank !

It's all in the mind...mental stimulation !

On the other hand I too am like you and what you've stated.Don't get me wrong though,as much as I love steak and chips....I couldn't eat it every night.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

Discuss

Your opinion is slightly controversial I agree especially since for some people the very fact that they are having sex with people in the manner you describe is what makes it great and satisfying.

Not much surprises me on here but recently I've noticed a trend towards implying that sex with multiple partners is wrong and its often men expressing that and that does surprise me.

Yes that's an opinion expressed by many men and women on here. We're almost all brought up to believe that sex with multiple partners is wrong and clearly lots of people still feel that way but i really am stumped as to why anybody who feels that way would join a swinging site in search of a sexual partner it's like joining Ashley Madison in search of a husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are by the op bed hoppers... And it mostly suits us well. We have each other for the great sex as we are not really looking for others for one on one. We meet others for 3sums and moresums.

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

Discuss

No rules no judging just saying what I've learned about my sexuality

I've learned through trial and error what I find satisfying and more enjoyable.

I'd never tell someone to not try swinging nor would I tell someone to give up bed hopping as a past time you have to try something compare it to other experiences to know what suits you .

What I'm saying is that going off if my experiences I work better sexually in a friendship scenario .

On a swinger site that's a controversial statement to make as comments like then your on the wrong site prove.

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Discuss means argue about it amongst yourself I'm off to have a shave .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection is wonderful but new can be thrilling.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Discuss means argue about it amongst yourself I'm off to have a shave .

Are you a headteacher in real life ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

Discuss

No rules no judging just saying what I've learned about my sexuality

I've learned through trial and error what I find satisfying and more enjoyable.

I'd never tell someone to not try swinging nor would I tell someone to give up bed hopping as a past time you have to try something compare it to other experiences to know what suits you .

What I'm saying is that going off if my experiences I work better sexually in a friendship scenario .

On a swinger site that's a controversial statement to make as comments like then your on the wrong site prove.

I think it was your statement that you "don't admire" people who have discovered different things to you about their sexuality that has caused controversy. It's quite easy to be controversial by claiming that you think less of people who are different to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op had such a good point until the bed hopper comment

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Bed hoppers?"

Single person looking for lots of vanilla sex with lots of different partners .....just a name no more and in no way judgmental as I've bed hoped myself in the past .

The same with swinger I've swung as part of a couple with a lovely sexy lady but the sex with the other couples only had excitement over the sex I had with her . it wasn't as up lifting just a adrenaline rush if the truth be told.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Total crock of shit, and I for one don't look down on others on how they decide to conduct their sex life, maybe you should do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, post what you want and phrase it the way you want. It gives others the chance to show how delightfully open minded they are that your opinion clashes with there's

Discussion is fine, different opinions are fine, telling someone they shouldn't be on this site because they use it in a different way, and have different expectations, is a bit crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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2 things strike me. Firstly that you are confusing controversial with being deliberately provocative. Secondly that swinging isn't for everyone as we aren't all wired the same way, and it doesn;t sound like it's for you - so how is that in anyway controversial?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I find nothing controversial in the OPs post. His opinion has been stated many times before and (usually) agreed with, as of course sex will improve once you have spent enough time in each others company to relax. However exciting first meets are, they are never relaxing!

What I do find controversial in the OPs post is his contention that 'bedhoppers' are should feel bad because (apparently) they don't attain this pinnacle of lust, or whatever. If we only meet someone once, how do we know that's not the best its going to get? There is no regret as we move on, happily mind you, to the next person, content and fulfilled (usually).

I have my way of meeting, others have theirs. There is nothing to discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Total crock of shit, and I for one don't look down on others on how they decide to conduct their sex life, maybe you should do the same."
but surely that's because you like to be on the bottom so you're always looking up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

Discuss

Your opinion is slightly controversial I agree especially since for some people the very fact that they are having sex with people in the manner you describe is what makes it great and satisfying.

Not much surprises me on here but recently I've noticed a trend towards implying that sex with multiple partners is wrong and its often men expressing that and that does surprise me.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Some of my best meets have been one offs with new people.

I like variety. It's the spice of life after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bed hoppers?

Single person looking for lots of vanilla sex with lots of different partners .....just a name no more and in no way judgmental as I've bed hoped myself in the past .

Thank you for explaining.

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Presumably you wont be wanting to meet anyone then. I believe you might apply to the Russian premier or catholic church if you need kindred spirits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Nope, and I don't care either. As long as its safe sex and we're mutually satisfied, why would I?

I do wonder why people still struggle with the concept of others enjoying NSA sex with consenting adults on here.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

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It's hardly controversial to say that sex is better with someone you know is it really?

For some, sex with many is what does it for them. When I was actively meeting I had some great sex with some and some not so great sex with others. Guess it's all in the mind set. Same as sex with a regular can be awesome most times but mediocre at other times.

Still better than no sex though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Your horse taking the day off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So?"
pitstop how you feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Your horse taking the day off?"
hehe hey you didn't want to talk so you should refrain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So? pitstop how you feeling

I'm trying to remember the names of everyone I've fucked but failing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyones different,each to their own,,

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So? pitstop how you feeling

I'm trying to remember the names of everyone I've fucked but failing

When they're queuing up at a greedy girl event the last thing I'm gonna be doing is taking names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Controversial opinion here .

Sex gets better the better you know the other person .

The lust gets more intense the better you know the other person.

The orgasms get more intense the better you know the other person .

All in all sex gets more satisfying as you become more friendly with your fuck buddy.

Controversial I know but its so true for me and the reason i don't swing or bed hop. I don't admire bed hoppers because I feel there missing the trick to great satisfying sex.

Discuss

What is true for you is not true for everyone.

Sex doesn't always get better with time,sometimes it can get worse.

A one off sexual encounter can be more intense,filled with lust and memorable than all the sex with a long term partner. The reason I came on the site was to find the sex I didn't get in 30 years with my husband. And I have found it on plenty of occasions. The men who satisfy me most and I'm most compatible with I keep seeing,if possible. I don't feel any different towards the men I've been having sex with for 5 years to the ones I've only known a few weeks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

By the way, post what you want and phrase it the way you want. It gives others the chance to show how delightfully open minded they are that your opinion clashes with there's

Discussion is fine, different opinions are fine, telling someone they shouldn't be on this site because they use it in a different way, and have different expectations, is a bit crap. "

Yep so is saying you don't admire people who are different to you in the way they enjoy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So? pitstop how you feeling

I'm trying to remember the names of everyone I've fucked but failing

When they're queuing up at a greedy girl event the last thing I'm gonna be doing is taking names.

Take a white board so they can sign out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't come here for admiration or for the approval of a man. I don't have any concern about how men who want a woman to save herself just for him feel about me. They are the boring in bed men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Yes loads of women are looking for exactly the same, that surely is what's behind this post, the op is hoping to find a woman who wants the same as he does. That's great, I admire inventive ways of advertising yourself and what you want. What I don't care for is the suggestion that people who don't want the same thing are less admirable.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So? pitstop how you feeling

I'm trying to remember the names of everyone I've fucked but failing

When they're queuing up at a greedy girl event the last thing I'm gonna be doing is taking names.

Take a white board so they can sign out.

Inspired idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I read in the OP was "my way of doing things is far superior and I have no respect for the way others do things."

I haven't got the time or energy to discuss anything with such narrow minded attitudes.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Variety is the spice of life...

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Yes and no mainly this post was about reassuring those who feel the same as me .

After being shoulder for someone yesterday thought i'd reassure those who would fully get this post that they are not alone in there preferences .

Finding a true fuck buddy is far harder than finding a fuck I just wanted to reassure those out there looking for more than a fuck but less than a life partner that there are people out there who get why there looking for more than a fuck .

Plus I thought the forums have been a bit boring lately so lets shake it up a bit. what better way than for a married man to write what I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was nothing more than a "look at me" post.

I hoped it worked for you OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So? pitstop how you feeling

I'm trying to remember the names of everyone I've fucked but failing

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harlot

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Yes and no mainly this post was about reassuring those who feel the same as me .

After being shoulder for someone yesterday thought i'd reassure those who would fully get this post that they are not alone in there preferences .

Plus I thought the forums have been a bit boring lately so lets shake it up a bit. what better way than for a married man to write what I did "

So you're performing a public service then, by saying that those you seek to reassure are more admirable than those you don't. How odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Yes and no mainly this post was about reassuring those who feel the same as me .

After being shoulder for someone yesterday thought i'd reassure those who would fully get this post that they are not alone in there preferences .

Plus I thought the forums have been a bit boring lately so lets shake it up a bit. what better way than for a married man to write what I did "

So,in doing your friend a favour you thought it necessary to demean other women's sexual behavior. I can't see the fact that you are married having any relevance to your post either. What am I missing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Your horse taking the day off?hehe hey you didn't want to talk so you should refrain x

Refrain from what?

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Yes and no mainly this post was about reassuring those who feel the same as me .

After being shoulder for someone yesterday thought i'd reassure those who would fully get this post that they are not alone in there preferences .

Plus I thought the forums have been a bit boring lately so lets shake it up a bit. what better way than for a married man to write what I did

That some people start threads just to stir?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id really like to say... but...I just cant be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

So? pitstop how you feeling

I'm trying to remember the names of everyone I've fucked but failing

harlot

And proud

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Oh and loads of women on here looking for same thing as you ,the fuck and go brigade don't even know half the time who they've fucked ,c'mon be honest do you ?

Yes loads of women are looking for exactly the same, that surely is what's behind this post, the alone is hoping to find a woman who wants the same as he does. That's great, I admire inventive ways of advertising yourself and what you want. What I don't care for is the suggestion that people who don't want the same thing are less admirable.

Yes and no mainly this post was about reassuring those who feel the same as me .

After being shoulder for someone yesterday thought i'd reassure those who would fully get this post that they are not alone in there preferences .

Plus I thought the forums have been a bit boring lately so lets shake it up a bit. what better way than for a married man to write what I did

Where have I demeaned women's s or any woman's sexual behavior you have me confused on that one .

When you find someone used you for just a lustful fuck when you thought they wanted more because they said so it can lead you to thinking your to blame as your not getting with the program .when the truth is if you state your preference is for a fuck buddy no one should approach you who's looking just for a lustful fuck saying otherwise. Thus game doesn't work like that sadly this can lead to someone thinking there wrong in there sexual preferences and their to blame for the feelings their suffering from after being tricked.

I had to reassure a friend yesterday that as long as she was clear about her preferences she did nothing wrong.

I'm guessing no I know what happened to her happens regularly to both sexes on sex sites people not respecting another's preferences .

So I wrote about how I know my sexuality works I did this knowing if would get some peoples backs up but I also knew it would reassure others .

A case of advertising myself and reassuring those looking for a regular fuck buddy your not alone .

What don't you get to those with a axe to grind I'm a cheater that's bad enough but a cheater looking for intimacy to that's even worse .