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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never cum before... alone or with a guy (freek i no!!) but anyone got any tips??? its starting to do my head in... i wanna know what i'm missing out on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that the 'mission'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess try and find your gspot

good site with advice:

http://www.collegesexadvice.com/g-spot.shtml

the blow job stuff is funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only tip I can give is relax about it. Explore your body and find out what works for you. When it happens it will be explosive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the link

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for the link "

No probs, if you want help working through it, I may be able to lend a hand, or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started playing with myself when I was very young, can't remember how young, however, young enough to be considered as obscene!

I have continued to enjoy playing solo, and have a number of toys to heighten the pleasure.

I would advise getting some toys and spending time to explore your own body to find out what works for you.

Have a look at the toys on Love Honey, and take time to view some of the vids about the toys on offer to see if any of them tickle your fancy.

If you have not played with toys before, I personally would suggest start with a vibrator.

A Rabbit would be a good investment, however, bewarned about the differences in girth, so get the right size that would fit you comfortably.

Take it easy and enjoy yourself on your own first. Once you know what makes you tick, you can start telling your playmates what to do while you play together!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi for fun is right, make sure you have pleny of time, relax and explore your body, find what feels nice for you and work on that, don't get frustrated if it doesn't happen right away as the more you wind yourself up the less likely it is to happen, just take your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And forget the "when it happens it will be explosive" nonesense...they aren't always the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have a few toys already but they dont seem to do anything except one but its hit and miss!

i have been close with a guy once but it never came to anything. oh well ill just keep trying! thanks for the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I orgasm from my gspot and have never from my clit. I like the feeling but it dosent happen lol. After never cumming when i was younger i now gush like hell. It about being fully relaxed at least for me it is. good luck on your mission. xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i have a few toys already but they dont seem to do anything except one but its hit and miss!

i have been close with a guy once but it never came to anything. oh well ill just keep trying! thanks for the help "
Forget toys and use your fingers and hands...toys can de sensitise ...good luck x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

All great advice...... but the most important piece of advice is......(drum roll).....

stop trying so hard!!!

Relax, have fun, explore.... but dont make having an orgasm your primary goal.

Then one day, POP, it'll creep up on you and happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to know your own body and mind. A lot use pornography - dulls the senses and imagination. Read erotica, discover your own body, learn your own fantasies.

Have a nice hot bath and explore yourself, or take out a camera and photograph your own reflection in the mirror being as adventurous as you can.

A friend published a book about photographing herself nude, semi nude and indulging in sex. She found it very regenerative during her early 40's - made her feel desireable, sexy and highly orgasmic.

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