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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

IF you met someone and started a relationship , would you tell them of your swinging past , ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, however, not neccessarily all the details!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to start with but over time when i new time was right i would.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't think so.. no need to tell them of my casual sex history, nor they tell me theirs.

not that it is ever gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep deff would but then again could never go back to a vanilla relationship anyway now been in it toooo long xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Not to start with but over time when i new time was right i would. "

I agree with you, but when is the "right time"? Too early and you lose them, too late and suddenly there's a trust issue?

I imagine it would be very difficult to pitch that conversation with a vanilla-met partner.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

would say I was involved in the lifestyle but wouldn't give details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked the person enough and at some point wanted to get her into swinging then I'd wait a while and gradually drop fantasies into our convo and gauge her reaction. Hypothetically speaking of course, as the situation is never likely to arise.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Not to start with but over time when i new time was right i would.

I agree with you, but when is the "right time"? Too early and you lose them, too late and suddenly there's a trust issue?

I imagine it would be very difficult to pitch that conversation with a vanilla-met partner."
Totally agree with you there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"IF you met someone and started a relationship , would you tell them of your swinging past , ? "

Christ no!! The missus doesn`t even know we`re on here as it is, and we`ve been together twenty odd years.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"IF you met someone and started a relationship , would you tell them of your swinging past , ?

Christ no!! The missus doesn`t even know we`re on here as it is, and we`ve been together twenty odd years. "

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would, but I dont see myself ever being in a vanilla relationship again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and I wouldn't want to know her sexual past. All I'd be interested in is her future.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

not applicable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it highly unlikely I'll ever be in another "normal" relationship again. I like kinky far too much to go back to "straight" sex so anyone I meet will probably be via sites like this, so not a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, and I wouldn't want to know her sexual past. All I'd be interested in is her future. "

If I did meet someone outside this lifestyle then this would be my stance too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, and I wouldn't want to know her sexual past. All I'd be interested in is her future. "

i actually said Arrrhhhh at that lol bless you

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Northants

But... You meet someone and decide not to tell them and a couple of years down the line you let something slip! Could be a killer, a trust issue as someone said.

Surely it is better in the early part of a relationship to "let slip" a small snippet and see what happens? You can always laugh it off as a "hobby" and in the very early stages wouldn't matter much as you would not be that close.. They may just see it as just another thing about you.

Just my _iew, but must be better to risk the loss at a stage where you are not in love than to risk that when he/she becomes part of your life!

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