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"I prefer to meet people who are happy with themselves body wise and mentally. I don't like miserable folk. I once met a real mood hoover and it was awful. I don't suppose anyone will admit to it anyway but at least it's there. " Sorry  | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." Really? I think most of my meets have  | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July. Really? I think most of my meets have "Glad to know the problem resides with me then.  | |||
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"July the whenth? "I didn't have to ask you. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." You're still winning - I've had no sex since April.  | |||
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"July the whenth?
I didn't have to ask you."It was the snap of the fingers that did it. | |||
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" I once met a real mood hoover and it was awful. " Mood hoover... that's rather descriptive! (A bit like morale anchor) Have had a couple of socials where the people were really not mentally in the 'right place' to be playing, either as a couple or individually. It's not really a great activity to be involved in if you're not in a reasonably stable and happy condition. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July. Really? I think most of my meets have
Glad to know the problem resides with me then. "Not just you. It's ironic that since putting on my profile I don't shave I have had more interest and one man who went straight down on me. That has rarely happened with men from here. Only a few seem to like or want to do it. I started to think I had an ugly vagina or there was a smell I couldn't detect. Turned out it was neither. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." Wow! Really?
I've never come across that ever. So what do they consider as foreplay? You giving them oral? I'm actually really surprised by this. Sorry if I'm being too nosy but are your meets quickies with new people or overnight things with regulars?
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"are your meets quickies with new people or overnight things with regulars?" I don't have regulars so that may contribute towards the problem but I definitely have pre-meet chats, and am quite clear on my love of oral, giving and receiving. And as I said, I check profiles and interests, yet still, as soon as I have finished sucking, they're shagging me without any chance of reciprocation. I refuse to subscribe to the passive aggressiveness of 'I won't suck you until you lick me', but it does get depressing. | |||
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But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July. Wow! Really?
I've never come across that ever. So what do they consider as foreplay? You giving them oral? I'm actually really surprised by this. Sorry if I'm being too nosy but are your meets quickies with new people or overnight things with regulars?
"Yep, quite a lot of foreplay appears to be fluffing him. I don't do overnight meets but I like more than a quickie. Thankfully, two out of the last three sexual meets have met my foreplay needs. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." I'm shocked, giving a woman oral is amazing. These guys don't know what they are missing. Claire XX | |||
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"are your meets quickies with new people or overnight things with regulars? I don't have regulars so that may contribute towards the problem but I definitely have pre-meet chats, and am quite clear on my love of oral, giving and receiving. And as I said, I check profiles and interests, yet still, as soon as I have finished sucking, they're shagging me without any chance of reciprocation. I refuse to subscribe to the passive aggressiveness of 'I won't suck you until you lick me', but it does get depressing." Blimey that is seriously depressing.
It may be casual sex without strings but you want it to be good sex at least!
Christ if you wanted wham, bam thank you then you could nip down the boozer and pick up a random, fuck him round the back of the pub and go home! 
There's something properly wrong with that. I had one boyfriend years ago who just wouldn't do it. He wasn't a boyfriend for long. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." Really? This is strange all the guys in ever met want to do this. | |||
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"I had one boyfriend years ago who just wouldn't do it. He wasn't a boyfriend for long. "I miss my FB. He might have turned out to be a Grade A dickhead but he was awesome at oral and loved giving it. *sigh* | |||
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"Apparently us women all taste differently. I had a real phobia of oral because my ex husband said he didnt like the way I tasted, I thought it was me... I stopped encouraging it and when i first joined fab was mortified if a guy wanted to go down on me... Then i read that depending on your diet it can make your skin and the way you taste and smell... I eat a lot of cheese its my favourite food and this was supposed to be a no no But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints "
It's fair to say that I eat what I like and just don't think about that at all. I guess I must be lucky in my partners... I've never had anything but compliments on my foof!  | |||
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"Apparently us women all taste differently. I had a real phobia of oral because my ex husband said he didnt like the way I tasted, I thought it was me... I stopped encouraging it and when i first joined fab was mortified if a guy wanted to go down on me... Then i read that depending on your diet it can make your skin and the way you taste and smell... I eat a lot of cheese its my favourite food and this was supposed to be a no no But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints "Coffee, cigarettes and diet do affect your taste. When I was first on here as a couple we met a couple (through another site) where the woman was saltier than putting a tablespoon of salt on your tongue. I could not understand why the ex was acting like she tasted like honey when just kissing him after he had been down on her made me want to gag. Taste is personal. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July. I'm shocked, giving a woman oral is amazing. These guys don't know what they are missing. Claire XX" Agreed, I'm always the first one to dive in  . Couldn't really give a toss if I get oral back, but it's a bonus if I do  | |||
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"Apparently us women all taste differently. I had a real phobia of oral because my ex husband said he didnt like the way I tasted, I thought it was me... I stopped encouraging it and when i first joined fab was mortified if a guy wanted to go down on me... Then i read that depending on your diet it can make your skin and the way you taste and smell... I eat a lot of cheese its my favourite food and this was supposed to be a no no But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints
It's fair to say that I eat what I like and just don't think about that at all. I guess I must be lucky in my partners... I've never had anything but compliments on my foof! "Glad to say me neither.. I tend to think it was about my ex and not me, fruit juices or not, comments like that do tend to give you a phobia about it... x | |||
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"Apparently us women all taste differently. I had a real phobia of oral because my ex husband said he didnt like the way I tasted, I thought it was me... I stopped encouraging it and when i first joined fab was mortified if a guy wanted to go down on me... Then i read that depending on your diet it can make your skin and the way you taste and smell... I eat a lot of cheese its my favourite food and this was supposed to be a no no But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints
It's fair to say that I eat what I like and just don't think about that at all. I guess I must be lucky in my partners... I've never had anything but compliments on my foof!
Glad to say me neither..
I tend to think it was about my ex and not me, fruit juices or not, comments like that do tend to give you a phobia about it... x"For sure... I wouldn't give a toss what a girl had eaten, flavour is good. I think there's a difference between tasting food things to tasting filth. Actually that made me heave a bit then! | |||
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"Apparently us women all taste differently. I had a real phobia of oral because my ex husband said he didnt like the way I tasted, I thought it was me... I stopped encouraging it and when i first joined fab was mortified if a guy wanted to go down on me... Then i read that depending on your diet it can make your skin and the way you taste and smell... I eat a lot of cheese its my favourite food and this was supposed to be a no no But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints
It's fair to say that I eat what I like and just don't think about that at all. I guess I must be lucky in my partners... I've never had anything but compliments on my foof!
Glad to say me neither..
I tend to think it was about my ex and not me, fruit juices or not, comments like that do tend to give you a phobia about it... x"My ex wouldn't give me oral (too dark and scary there he said) but he would with every woman we met. It feels like a slight. All part of why they are ex and not current. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July. Really? This is strange all the guys in ever met want to do this. " I dont think it is uncommon. In my experience guys dont give oral for long or very well. I have only had two meets in recent times when I actually felt they enjoyed it. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." I would have thought oral was part of the whole fun? I would never think of going to a meet and not give oral unless the lady didn't want it. | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July. Really? This is strange all the guys in ever met want to do this. " Me too. And I'm not even that bothered about it so I never actually ask or try to encourage them. | |||
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"Perhaps not a thread to open if you haven't had breakfast yet... I see in profiles all the time that people require clean and hygienic partners. Now, to me, that's an everyday default - so what I'm asking is, what have you stumbled across in the past to make you need to pop it in your profile?" They often use this as code for free of sti. Although how you can tell I have yet to discover. | |||
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"Perhaps not a thread to open if you haven't had breakfast yet... I see in profiles all the time that people require clean and hygienic partners. Now, to me, that's an everyday default - so what I'm asking is, what have you stumbled across in the past to make you need to pop it in your profile? They often use this as code for free of sti. Although how you can tell I have yet to discover." Judging from the posts I see on the forums sometimes, slightly smelly = STI. So its good to know I can just scrub that chlamydia away if need be. | |||
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"Apparently us women all taste differently. I had a real phobia of oral because my ex husband said he didnt like the way I tasted, I thought it was me... I stopped encouraging it and when i first joined fab was mortified if a guy wanted to go down on me... Then i read that depending on your diet it can make your skin and the way you taste and smell... I eat a lot of cheese its my favourite food and this was supposed to be a no no But I also drink a lot of fruit juices ...
Fresh pineapple is supposed to make men's 'cum' taste better... so why juices? and why not us? ...
I've had no complaints
It's fair to say that I eat what I like and just don't think about that at all. I guess I must be lucky in my partners... I've never had anything but compliments on my foof!
Glad to say me neither..
I tend to think it was about my ex and not me, fruit juices or not, comments like that do tend to give you a phobia about it... x
My ex wouldn't give me oral (too dark and scary there he said) but he would with every woman we met. It feels like a slight. All part of why they are ex and not current.
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." I'd happily! Just saying  | |||
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"I have given up on finding a bloke on here who will be happy to give me oral. I've put it on my profile, I check interests, I even lean towards men who have put that they enjoy it in their profile text. But in the end, actions speak louder than words and, with one notable exception, I haven't had oral sex from a meet without having to ask fro it since July." wow that's crazy. I can't see why they need to be asked. It's only natural it's part of the intimacy to the meet. | |||
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