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"So, do [single] women actually browse single guys profiles, or are they all too busy dealing with the 1,000s of emails they get a day? Just curious since I've had only a couple of emails since I've been on here (about a month) and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers." 2 is good, If you sign up as a silver member you can use the 'looked at me' list to see who's been checking you out. | |||
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"So, do [single] women actually browse single guys profiles, or are they all too busy dealing with the 1,000s of emails they get a day? Just curious since I've had only a couple of emails since I've been on here (about a month) and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers." due to last part of your description you come over as a bit of a ? | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! " Ya were going ta say pristine brilliant people wernt ya xx | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! " prima donnas? primark shoppers? Pritt stick abusers? don't just leave us hanging! | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! " ...or perv their bums! | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! ...or perv their bums! " Don't have to as some just ... well, shove it in your face!!! | |||
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"I have never browsed, I am always busy playing catch up and answering with no thank you lol" Why not do what I do and put on your profile " If you dont here from me within a week take it as a polite thanks but no thanks " lol saves a lot of time | |||
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"So, do [single] women actually browse single guys profiles, or are they all too busy dealing with the 1,000s of emails they get a day? Just curious since I've had only a couple of emails since I've been on here (about a month) and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers. due to last part of your description you come over as a bit of a ?" Heh, yeah I suppose it does, but seems you have to be a bit less of a nice guy to get what you want. What I want what I really really want isn't to join the Spice Girls, but someone to have fun with and snuggle up and fall asleep with too. And then maybe she can do the dishes; who says romance is dead! | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! prima donnas? primark shoppers? Pritt stick abusers? don't just leave us hanging! " PMSL...NONE of the above!! | |||
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"So, do [single] women actually browse single guys profiles, or are they all too busy dealing with the 1,000s of emails they get a day? Just curious since I've had only a couple of emails since I've been on here (about a month) and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers. due to last part of your description you come over as a bit of a ?" Just peeked, er yeah... you might want to get shot of the last line. Just my opinion you understand. | |||
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"So, do [single] women actually browse single guys profiles, or are they all too busy dealing with the 1,000s of emails they get a day? Just curious since I've had only a couple of emails since I've been on here (about a month) and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers." It wouldn't cross my mind to offer up unsolicited advice...but since you asked. You come across as arrogant, and your forum posts rude. I don't find it endearing, can't think many women would to be fair! Just my opinion of course! | |||
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" Just peeked, er yeah... you might want to get shot of the last line. Just my opinion you understand. " Yup, I do, although when it wasn't on there it made no difference. I only added it a day or so ago. I mean so people actually read the profile text *shock, gasp horror* | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! ...or perv their bums! " Mmmmmmm and there was me thinking you were being mostly elusive today | |||
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" and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers." Oh I missed this part of the thread....well as you black your face out how can we possibly comment | |||
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" It wouldn't cross my mind to offer up unsolicited advice...but since you asked. You come across as arrogant, and your forum posts rude. I don't find it endearing, can't think many women would to be fair! Just my opinion of course! " Rude? Hmm interesting since I don't write them as such. I guess it is true 80% of communication is none-verbal [well written in this case]. There was an interesting paper I read a while ago on it, the process of communicating is Have a thought-formalise-verbilise -Hear-Process-Decode into a though. And as a result there are large areas where error creep in. Hell I have trouble verbalising my thoughts at times, never mind someone else understanding them! I think I actually want someone I can talk bollox like this with more than boobs... hmmm hang on, ok sometimes more than boobs | |||
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" and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers. Oh I missed this part of the thread....well as you black your face out how can we possibly comment " I actually look like that in real life! lol. I have a face pic in privates, as I am shy. (yes, yes shy but you have your todger out old boy!) | |||
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" and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers. Oh I missed this part of the thread....well as you black your face out how can we possibly comment I actually look like that in real life! lol. I have a face pic in privates, as I am shy. (yes, yes shy but you have your todger out old boy!)" Well that might be so, but my point was you said in your original thread I think I am good looking and was incredulous that maybe others didn't. If we cannot see for ourselves then we cannot comment. Might I suggest attaching a face pic with your initial emails, that may work! | |||
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" Well that might be so, but my point was you said in your original thread I think I am good looking and was incredulous that maybe others didn't. If we cannot see for ourselves then we cannot comment. Might I suggest attaching a face pic with your initial emails, that may work! " Yeah thanks for the suggestion, I have tried that (when the person has a public face pic on their profile), but not made much difference. I'll pm you it, see what you think. *Sick bag at ready :P* | |||
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"trouble with the last line on your descrip is that it would make any potential female feel she was up to be judged. Naaaa if you want females to play you gotta come over as fun. Play with many and eventually you will meet your match." Point taken, although play with many sounds intriguing... I'd like to meet my match, you know someone to challenge me as a person (in a good way), and be on the same team. To many relationships end up with fighting each other instead of with each other. | |||
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" Well that might be so, but my point was you said in your original thread I think I am good looking and was incredulous that maybe others didn't. If we cannot see for ourselves then we cannot comment. Might I suggest attaching a face pic with your initial emails, that may work! Yeah thanks for the suggestion, I have tried that (when the person has a public face pic on their profile), but not made much difference. I'll pm you it, see what you think. *Sick bag at ready :P*" Now where did I put that bucket....!! Actually you are a good looking guy, so it's the naff profile...simples lol | |||
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" Well that might be so, but my point was you said in your original thread I think I am good looking and was incredulous that maybe others didn't. If we cannot see for ourselves then we cannot comment. Might I suggest attaching a face pic with your initial emails, that may work! Yeah thanks for the suggestion, I have tried that (when the person has a public face pic on their profile), but not made much difference. I'll pm you it, see what you think. *Sick bag at ready :P* Now where did I put that bucket....!! Actually you are a good looking guy, so it's the naff profile...simples lol" Send her a peachy bum shot and yer in!! | |||
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" Well that might be so, but my point was you said in your original thread I think I am good looking and was incredulous that maybe others didn't. If we cannot see for ourselves then we cannot comment. Might I suggest attaching a face pic with your initial emails, that may work! Yeah thanks for the suggestion, I have tried that (when the person has a public face pic on their profile), but not made much difference. I'll pm you it, see what you think. *Sick bag at ready :P* Now where did I put that bucket....!! Actually you are a good looking guy, so it's the naff profile...simples lol Send her a peachy bum shot and yer in!! " Ssssshhhh I told you that in confidence | |||
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"Once in nine years have a messaged a guy first with a few to a potential meet and that was four years ago" When i was a single femme, most of my meets i messaged first, my inbox was always full , but i much preferred to seek out those who I WANTED, it worked out much better for me | |||
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"i was a single femme, most of my meets i messaged first, my inbox was always full , but i much preferred to seek out those who I WANTED, it worked out much better for me " I agree with femme. Id say that about 75% of the people I have met have been ones that I contacted first. | |||
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"i was a single femme, most of my meets i messaged first, my inbox was always full , but i much preferred to seek out those who I WANTED, it worked out much better for me I agree with femme. Id say that about 75% of the people I have met have been ones that I contacted first." ahhhh great minds | |||
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"i was a single femme, most of my meets i messaged first, my inbox was always full , but i much preferred to seek out those who I WANTED, it worked out much better for me I agree with femme. Id say that about 75% of the people I have met have been ones that I contacted first.ahhhh great minds" well i might not have a great mind but my way has always worked for me | |||
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"ahhhh great minds" Great minds where? where? *ducks and runs* | |||
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"ahhhh great minds Great minds where? where? *ducks and runs* " oh brave male of the species......ye have so much to learn | |||
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"Bottom line is we need more single women on here... so who is going to go down and unlock them from the dungeon.... I mean come on they deserve to get out once in a while." | |||
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"Every time I browse through profiles I get even more messages, winks, friends invites etc. The people I've looked at but not contacted seem to believe that I must be interested, simply because I looked. So now I don't bother " I've had this problem too. Tbh I don't really browse to msg as I would hate to be turned down lol suppose I know how the single guys feel when they are rejected | |||
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"Self obsessed is interesting too, I'm actually the opposite, but I guess I would say that." You started the thread and every other post on it is from you. | |||
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"Cocky, interesting. could you tell me which bit as I've made changes as prompted by others (and to their approval). Self obsessed is interesting too, I'm actually the opposite, but I guess I would say that." Look at how many times you say "I" in your profile. I this I that, mirrors, good looking, are you good enough to meet me- that kind of thing really. It just comes across that way to me, but its just one persons opinion, so feel free to ignore it! | |||
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"But hell I am on a "get ya tits/dick" out site, so shouldn't expect to much eh my old mucker?;-)" And your high regard and obvious respect for the site and its users is just sooooooooo appealing, *swoon* | |||
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"nibbles finger buffet and watches the hole being dug... " That's what I got the JCB for | |||
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"nibbles finger buffet and watches the hole being dug... That's what I got the JCB for " return it early for a refund.. yu doing good without it | |||
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"I love a wee bit ot wit and even sarcasim but your profile reads pretty bad....only to me and im sure others think the same of mine. Its kinda slagging ppl off, indirectly but still....whats the point in being negetive. Just my input. xx " Cheers, simple is better. If they don't like that they can stick it in their ear... although some people pay good money for that! Cracking rack btw... I'd say that with roses to be romantic if I could | |||
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"I love a wee bit ot wit and even sarcasim but your profile reads pretty bad....only to me and im sure others think the same of mine. Its kinda slagging ppl off, indirectly but still....whats the point in being negetive. Just my input. xx Cheers, simple is better. If they don't like that they can stick it in their ear... although some people pay good money for that! Cracking rack btw... I'd say that with roses to be romantic if I could " As long as it roses chocolates and not flowers lol | |||
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" As long as it roses chocolates and not flowers lol" Oh we may end up having a fight over those, I've just eaten a tin of quality street Right enough shit and giggles, to the gym! | |||
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"Browse profiles for meets? No, never. I will look at profiles of people who post on the forums, just to see what kinds of pri...erm people they really are!! " Likewise! | |||
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"No i never browse and its people that contact me. The "malebox" is far too busy for me to have time to look Mercedes x" I'd be impressed if you wasn't a single woman looking for men. | |||
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"I have never browsed, I am always busy playing catch up and answering with no thank you lol" That pretty much covers it for me too. Occasionally I look at profiles of people who post on the forums as well. The toothpaste tube made me laugh... why would you do that?! | |||
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" The toothpaste tube made me laugh... why would you do that?! " Well closest thing to hand, didn't thing getting the tape measure out would be as classy! | |||
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" The toothpaste tube made me laugh... why would you do that?! Well closest thing to hand, didn't thing getting the tape measure out would be as classy! " It's fairly obvious in the other pic though... don't think you need to compare it to a toothpaste tube or anything else for that matter. Just my opinion mind. | |||
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" It's fairly obvious in the other pic though... don't think you need to compare it to a toothpaste tube or anything else for that matter. Just my opinion mind. " I may make it a private pic then, a "special" pic. At M&S we don't just do cock, we do extra special cock My aim was to prove it's not a photoshop jobbie! Cheers.x | |||
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" My aim was to prove it's not a photoshop jobbie! " Ew think we have different ideas of what a 'jobbie' is, very glad i haven't looked back at your profile. | |||
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"dont bother with much text... " I think he took your advice! | |||
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" Ew think we have different ideas of what a 'jobbie' is, very glad i haven't looked back at your profile." Wow, just wow, I think someone needs a good lay | |||
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"Was sooo desperate that I just had to handcuff myself to the sofa instead of going to Chams tonight, so you Must be right " Well I hope you used the soft ones, the others chaff. A "jobbie" is a penis. I think there may be a few other photos on this site with similar in them. but I may be mistaken! Anyhow I don't have any problems with you, heck if I was still in Derby I might even look you up, but no seeing my jobbie though! | |||
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"op...just lovin you more with every post.. " Yeah I've been told I'm like a car crash. You shouldn't look but you just can't help yourself. Can you my pretties | |||
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" Wow, just wow, I think someone needs a good lay " OP....are you suggesting the lady has not had "a good lay" previously? | |||
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" A "jobbie" is a penis. I think there may be a few other photos on this site with similar in them. but I may be mistaken! " Your cock is shit? | |||
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"God I don't know, and I've not even had a sleep yet which is when I forget most things! Oh yes, do you browse guys and message them , i.e. pro-active or are you more let the flood of messages begin. It seems the latter is the path of least resistance, mountain, Mohamed and wot not. To be honest I'm more interested in finding a woman to chat with than to have sex. but if I must I suppose I'll grin and bare it. " not that old chestnut | |||
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"A jobbie is a poo is'nt it? " It is where I come from! Never heard a cock referred to as a jobbie! Oooooooooh there are just sooooooo many things I could say here: but I'll behave! | |||
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"So, do [single] women actually browse single guys profiles, or are they all too busy dealing with the 1,000s of emails they get a day? Just curious since I've had only a couple of emails since I've been on here (about a month) and don't think I'm that bad looking. Unless there is something on my profile that is putting potential punters off? Cheers." i look at profiles and i will mail people if im interested x | |||
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"most women & couples r getting pissed off with all the winks & friends request without even getting a message 1st. by guys keeping on send these honest single guys dont get a look in. single guys should read the full profile 1st understand it then if they tick the boxses reply but most dont & that is why you & I suffer by them." if a profile states that a couple is looking for a vw/e muscular black male and you looked more like harry potter and hung like a hamster would you still chance ur arm and mail them?.....im a red blooded male so course i would and so would half of the rest of single guys no seriously i accept the couples and fems who get sick of these unwanted messages which is why i always read a pf first and relate to it in my messages so they know i can read at least and still get no reply | |||
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