FabSwingers.com forum: falling in love

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think You are falling in love with a meet what do you advise?

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

As you say you're not looking for anything serious you are probably best off not meeting them again and try to forget them

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"As you say you're not looking for anything serious you are probably best off not meeting them again and try to forget them"

Maybe people change, there's nothing wrong with love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As you say you're not looking for anything serious you are probably best off not meeting them again and try to forget them"
it was posted on behalf of a friend of mine and just wanted her to see the response

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

So she hasn't got fingers and can't post her own problems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very strange.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Very strange. "

Steve Strange?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love finds you in strange places - if you both find it can be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's reciprocated, then all good but if it's one sided then walk away before you get hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These things happen, if you get to know some one well and see them often.

Sex and even just being with some one is a very intimate thing. It can be quite natural for bonds to develop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is highly overated ...just enjoy the fucking I say...oops did I say that oot loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was getting the feels for one of my regular meets, we had so much in common and it wasn't just about sex, we would spend hours together watching crappy you tube videos, etc but I decided to walk away, it's not what I needed. Haven't looked back since.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"As you say you're not looking for anything serious you are probably best off not meeting them again and try to forget themit was posted on behalf of a friend of mine and just wanted her to see the response"

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.

I'll go out on a limb

Lady's partner has cheated on her

You have met her and had the revenge sex

He's found our and is hurt and angry

You've developed feelings for the lady

But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.

You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think You are falling in love with a meet what do you advise?"

Grow a pair

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.

I'll go out on a limb

Lady's partner has cheated on her

You have met her and had the revenge sex

He's found our and is hurt and angry

You've developed feelings for the lady

But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.

You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?"

Oh such tangled webs we weave....

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"If it's reciprocated, then all good but if it's one sided then walk away before you get hurt."

"Love is a many-splendored thing, It's the April rose that only grows in the early spring", but roses have really nasty thorns, so you have to watch yourself.

Or rather 'your friend' does

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can fall in love on here

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

"You can fall in love on here

This

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If your both single, then say something, if its not mutual you would of lost them anyway.

Are you mixing love and lust?

Are you the sort of person that falls in love on a whim?

Are you the sort of person that confuses having a good friendship and good sex with love.

Don't confuse getting on really well with someone and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance helps and already being in love with my wife.

If he lived closer and I was single then things might be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 options depending on the situation. Say nothing and continue as is, sever contact and walk away or fess up and deal with the outfall. Can't possibly advise specifically as I don't know the individual circumstances.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"You can fall in love on here

Yes of course you can and can also be infatuated.

However you should remember this is a swinger’s site and your love may not be reciprocated and also that the other person may be attached or in a relationship which does not include you.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.

I'll go out on a limb

Lady's partner has cheated on her

You have met her and had the revenge sex

He's found our and is hurt and angry

You've developed feelings for the lady

But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.

You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?"

Having just read his replies on the other thread, I think that's a good call Thx.

In which case leave them be OP. It sounds less like love and more like jealousy.

Revenge sex is more likely to be about hurting the one you love, than wanting to find someone new.

Besides, the idea that there are swingles like you who would be happy to break up marriages isn't what this is all about.

Leave her alone, let them sort out their problems, then if it doesn't work out she will find you if she needs you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've fallen in infatuation.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if its meant to be it will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I've fallen in infatuation.

I didn't know I meant so much to you

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Nothing wrong with a little love

tell her to be honest about it though or it will end painfully.

Oh and Mr DDC roses don't have thorns you old cynic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abort n retreat,if the feeling isn't mutual it'll only end in hurt......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I've fallen in infatuation.

I didn't know I meant so much to you

I whispered it as you drifted off to sleep xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.

I'll go out on a limb

Lady's partner has cheated on her

You have met her and had the revenge sex

He's found our and is hurt and angry

You've developed feelings for the lady

But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.

You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?

Oh such tangled webs we weave....

In my vast experience of a complicated life of mess, can you have a relationship based on the back of an affair? There wouldn't be any trust on either part, please anyone tell me if I'm wrong?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Love is highly overated ...just enjoy the fucking I say...oops did I say that oot loud

Yup! I'm afraid you did - tend to agree though

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Oh and Mr DDC roses don't have thorns you old cynic

Ooh, but they do in the early days, when you're young, innocent, and apt to go blundering through the briars willy-nilly. Especially when you've been kept apart from girls for the whole of puberty!

At least until you're lucky enough to find one of those thornless varieties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.

I'll go out on a limb

Lady's partner has cheated on her

You have met her and had the revenge sex

He's found our and is hurt and angry

You've developed feelings for the lady

But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.

You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?

Oh such tangled webs we weave....

In my vast experience of a complicated life of mess, can you have a relationship based on the back of an affair? There wouldn't be any trust on either part, please anyone tell me if I'm wrong?"

Yes, you can. I did.

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Ah but according to the uber intelligent Mr Fry roses technically have prickles and not thorns! Though the song every rose has its prickles would have been a bit shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c56vEgA4fjU

Terrific song!

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Quality tuuuune indeed!! Would have never been a hit had it been biologically accurate tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many strings for me..snip snip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given you're other thread about cheating partners getting angry when their wife cheats in revenge.

I'll go out on a limb

Lady's partner has cheated on her

You have met her and had the revenge sex

He's found our and is hurt and angry

You've developed feelings for the lady

But she's going back to him because she's seen how much her cheating hurt him and is thinking of going back with him for a second try at the marriage.

You are upset about this and looking for support/justification for your feelings?

Oh such tangled webs we weave....

In my vast experience of a complicated life of mess, can you have a relationship based on the back of an affair? There wouldn't be any trust on either part, please anyone tell me if I'm wrong?

Yes, you can. I did. "

Did it work out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love is highly overated ...just enjoy the fucking I say...oops did I say that oot loud

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