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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard

Hey guys n girls

Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..

Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..

I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh

If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .

What should I do.?

Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Every time he starts talking about something boring you start talking about the same boring subjects.

This worked with my sister she sends 100s of photos every time she goes somewhere, so I started doing the same, oddly hers have stopped now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Keep saying "that's lovely but do you fancy me?"

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Ball gag

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's either nerves or he's so self absorbed that he thinks you're all as interested in him as he is in himself.

I know people like this and if after enough meetings for nerves to no longer be an issue the problem continues I cut contact to a minimum because in my experience it never changes if it's down to self absorption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys n girls

Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..

Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..

I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh

If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .

What should I do.?

Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you

"

I thought you liked it when I spoke about trains!

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"Keep saying "that's lovely but do you fancy me?" "

Oh I know he fancies me lol . He told a mutual friend ( so like school )

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"Ball gag "

Umm good idea .. But not in public .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obsessive people tend to find someone else pretty quickly. They're always on the lookout for new people to become obsessed with them. Not your fault, it's a problem they have with not being able to be intimate but needing attention despite that. This is why he can't read your friends and how bored they are, he doesn't care what anyone but himself is feeling.

Keep an eye out for him being manipulative and getting annoyed when not being able to be the centre of attention, and get rid if he does this.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Keep saying "that's lovely but do you fancy me?"

Oh I know he fancies me lol . He told a mutual friend ( so like school ) "

Yes, quite! at some point he will look confused and say 'yes, of course, why do you ask?' And then you can say 'because you keep talking about trains'.

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"Hey guys n girls

Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..

Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..

I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh

If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .

What should I do.?

Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you

I thought you liked it when I spoke about trains! "

I'm sorry did you say something ? I was looking at your pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys n girls

Ok . I know this guy, first met him on line . Not here, but a similar site..

Anyway ... He's tall, so good looking, flirts fantastically has an amazing accent, But!, he talks a load of bollocks. When ever we have met up I've tried to direct his conversations away from trains and the army.. Lol . Especially when I see our companions eyes glaze over ..

I tell myself I won't be anything but a friend , then we are texting, and messaging, he's so caring and flirty and ,,, ahhhhh

If I could have him gagged when we meet I would lol .

What should I do.?

Serious and light hearted answered excepted thank you

I thought you liked it when I spoke about trains!

I'm sorry did you say something ? I was looking at your pictures "

Be my guest!

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"It's either nerves or he's so self absorbed that he thinks you're all as interested in him as he is in himself.

I know people like this and if after enough meetings for nerves to no longer be an issue the problem continues I cut contact to a minimum because in my experience it never changes if it's down to self absorption."

Umm yes , nerves make sense, he comes over as very confident in his messages , but as we all know messages can be rewritten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you talk about that makes him wants to talk about trains?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A see through top works with Paul...he just sits and stares.

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"What do you talk about that makes him wants to talk about trains? "

Lol it's normally a social munch type situation.. So lots of vanilla chat .

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By *sm OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"A see through top works with Paul...he just sits and stares."

Umm good plan , very devious, just wear my good thigh high boots, and short skirt.. .

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