FabSwingers.com forum: DEFENDING THE FORUM

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good thread yesterday from the OP about the forum being inane and how we spend too much time on it as opposed to sorting meets out etc.Personally I think he raised some great points.

But i've got sucked in by the forum and crave it like a junkie craves his next fix !

So come on....defend the forum !

For me I could never get bored of a music thread on a sex site....It's absolute top-notch !

What about you ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Star Wars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tunes

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Star Wars & cake....

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I like the forum....though sometimes you come across some not so friendly folks no need to let em ruin the experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the forum....though sometimes you come across some not so friendly folks no need to let em ruin the experience

Not me matey surely ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something to do, and although it's not very fulfilling overall you can get some good advice here. There's some funny people who make me laugh and some intelligent people who say some interesting things.

Not the best forums i've been on but for a sex site i'm glad it's not 100% sex based chat, although i enjoy that at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never of known about anel or the ghey if it wasn't for the forums

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"I like the forum....though sometimes you come across some not so friendly folks no need to let em ruin the experience

Not me matey surely ?"

course not, was just making a point to lighten the mood a little am I right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good thread yesterday from the OP about the forum being inane and how we spend too much time on it as opposed to sorting meets out etc.Personally I think he raised some great points.

But i've got sucked in by the forum and crave it like a junkie craves his next fix !

So come on....defend the forum !

For me I could never get bored of a music thread on a sex site....It's absolute top-notch !

What about you ?"
for me it's a laugh nothing more nothing less ,with the occasional fool thrown in for good measure "I fucked my best mates pregnant wife" and various others but in general good fun Dundee cake for me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

don't need to... and besides... if i wanted to talk about sex 25/8... i have the swinging forum next door for that...

the lounge is for talking about all sorts of nonsense not named sex...

so bake off.... music.... rugby..... shags and his haribo's..... police sirens going nee-nah or woo-woo..... I don't care....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is great. Just by chatting and talking about irrelevant shit I've had quite a few messages and interactions that I'd never have had. Demonstrates to people that you have a personality beyond attempting to shag everything that moves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally enjoy visiting the forums. I've come across people, profiles, made friends and found potential meets of people that dont use the chat rooms etc so I probably wouldnt have found them if I hadnt been noseying in the forum..

Long live the forums !!

Katie x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

My team of analysts says it's good for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good thread yesterday from the OP about the forum being inane and how we spend too much time on it as opposed to sorting meets out etc.Personally I think he raised some great points.

But i've got sucked in by the forum and crave it like a junkie craves his next fix !

So come on....defend the forum !

For me I could never get bored of a music thread on a sex site....It's absolute top-notch !

What about you ?"

I just like taking and showing pics of various parts of my body.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"don't need to... and besides... if i wanted to talk about sex 25/8... i have the swinging forum next door for that...

the lounge is for talking about all sorts of nonsense not named sex...

so bake off.... music.... rugby..... shags and his haribo's..... police sirens going nee-nah or woo-woo..... I don't care....

Aw shurrup Mr T and give me a Sunday dinner recipe, and yes I'd take you for a pint as opposed to marrying you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the forums!! It's actually nice to have a chat about every day stuff as much as I love sex (don't we all!) it's nice to know that there are the same kinds of likeminded folk out there that want to talk about other stuff to, keeps this a 50/50 kind of environment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people assume that because you're using the forums you're not arranging sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the forum....though sometimes you come across some not so friendly folks no need to let em ruin the experience

Not me matey surely ?

course not, was just making a point to lighten the mood a little am I right?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I would never of known about anel or the ghey if it wasn't for the forums"

Troo dat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good thread yesterday from the OP about the forum being inane and how we spend too much time on it as opposed to sorting meets out etc.Personally I think he raised some great points.

But i've got sucked in by the forum and crave it like a junkie craves his next fix !

So come on....defend the forum !

For me I could never get bored of a music thread on a sex site....It's absolute top-notch !

What about you ?for me it's a laugh nothing more nothing less ,with the occasional fool thrown in for good measure "I fucked my best mates pregnant wife" and various others but in general good fun Dundee cake for me

I got blocked off that fella it upset me that thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people assume that because you're using the forums you're not arranging sex

Because most just talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why the forum needs defending. People use it the way they want to. Good for banter and advice on many different subjects. Some use it for meets and some don't. Some join the current clique teenager style. Some think for themselves.

I also think there's a heck of a lot more forum readers/ lurkers than the alleged '1% forum user' tally.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I would never of known about anel or the ghey if it wasn't for the forums

Troo dat!

And I would never have wasted 6 months of my life sat on a dessert island counting 100's & 1000's with you.

The meds have finished, but I still attend therapy

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I would never of known about anel or the ghey if it wasn't for the forums

Troo dat!

And I would never have wasted 6 months of my life sat on a dessert island counting 100's & 1000's with you.

The meds have finished, but I still attend therapy

Tut! Well people shouldn't spell desert incorrectly then and these things wouldn't happen!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I would never of known about anel or the ghey if it wasn't for the forums

Troo dat!

And I would never have wasted 6 months of my life sat on a dessert island counting 100's & 1000's with you.

The meds have finished, but I still attend therapy

Tut! Well people shouldn't spell desert incorrectly then and these things wouldn't happen!

Absolutely my friend, where were the gramer natzies when we needed them, shocking eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure why the forum needs defending. People use it the way they want to. Good for banter and advice on many different subjects. Some use it for meets and some don't. Some join the current clique teenager style. Some think for themselves.

I also think there's a heck of a lot more forum readers/ lurkers than the alleged '1% forum user' tally.

Agree with all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the fact that some forumites need regular matchmaking threads speaks volumes.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Why do people assume that because you're using the forums you're not arranging sex

or having a secret fiddle..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you organise meets when the supply and demand aint there tho? So yes the forum is a great pass time and fun as well, comedy gold and as well a good place to catch up with the forumiters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are great and never fail to make me laugh out loud plus its a education. Learnt so many weird and wonderful things, also some great characters in here people wise!

Doll x

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

One does one's best

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

The forums are a great and fun way of getting a sense of how someone's mind works (or not, in some instances)...surely that's a good way to see if there is a mental connection... as well as a good opportunity to have a perv?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think they need defending to be honest. I can never understand why anybody who claims not to like something would bother with it when it's not mandatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people assume that because you're using the forums you're not arranging sex

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hehe is that code for " you are "?

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I find the forums a great laugh and informative. And I've had a meet after flirting here too.

The forums highlight someone's personality and I find that attractive (or not)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If people don't like a thread they don't have to open and post on it.

If people just don't like the forums they don't have to come in here

I don't understand why someone would moan about something they are doing out of choice, as for not having sex, speak for them not me

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

this is one of the best forums around we all use the site how we want to .. I spend most of it in the lounge cos I like the variety on it talking about sex 24 7 can get dull in the end and I find the comedians on here sometimes hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The forums are a great and fun way of getting a sense of how someone's mind works (or not, in some instances)...surely that's a good way to see if there is a mental connection... as well as a good opportunity to have a perv?

It's the way forward,baffles me why everyone isn't on them.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, they are fine

I look for individuality and unique people. Pack following is not my thing but others enjoy it, so there is something for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good thread yesterday from the OP about the forum being inane and how we spend too much time on it as opposed to sorting meets out etc.Personally I think he raised some great points.

But i've got sucked in by the forum and crave it like a junkie craves his next fix !

So come on....defend the forum !

For me I could never get bored of a music thread on a sex site....It's absolute top-notch !

What about you ?"

Some days I get bored of the forum, but most of the time it's a laugh and friendly and something to past the time.

I admit the last time I was on I was using the forums and not interested in arranging meets, this however has changed this time round, im actively looking and arranging meets for the coming months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do feel like I'm in a parallel universe reading half threads, I don't even understand most of them these days

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do feel like I'm in a parallel universe reading half threads, I don't even understand most of them these days

Neither do I and even when I Google it threading required to join in would take so long the thread would be over and done with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its pick and mix fabswingers and so are the forums and a mix of everything and like sweets some you love some you hate . That's how I see fab .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are better than some of the sex ive had this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The forums are better than some of the sex ive had this year

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not good sexy you need to meet better men x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think there's a heck of a lot more forum readers/ lurkers than the alleged '1% forum user' tally.

There are definitely more lurkers around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums make the site more addictive, its nice to pop in now and again, have a read, drop in and post something whether its taken notice of or not I'm not bothered, its interesting to see other peoples _iews and maybe say my own

Not everyone has time to meet all the time, with work and family so its something to keep us occupied

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I don't have to watch the news I read it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have to watch the news I read it on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A jolly place to have a hoot with fellow forumites.

Only a small percentage of people on fab pop in here.

Its good to have fun threads that make you chuckle.

Serious threads to make you think.

Fab is what you make of it. I have made some great friends . Long live the forums.with out them it would just be , mail a female and no reply because they get bombarded.

So give a hoot make a post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The forums are better than some of the sex ive had this year

I'm glad it's not the same for me or I'd be long gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last few weeks I have not been on the forums anywhere near as much as I used to .

And I haven't missed them at all .

I pop on here and there , read the same crap , ignore most of it , and comment on the odd one or two posts . Then wonder why I bothered .

Without a doubt , fab has a wonderful cross section of interesting people - we have met many of them . And that's why we are on fab , to meet interesting , like minded people to swing with . Perhaps that's why the forums tend to frustrate us more than give us entertainment or inspiration .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Over the last few weeks I have not been on the forums anywhere near as much as I used to .

And I haven't missed them at all .

I pop on here and there , read the same crap , ignore most of it , and comment on the odd one or two posts . Then wonder why I bothered .

Not even on a comedy front ? Some threads are gold dust,absolute gems.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just think fuck it and don't log on when I have enough then come back refreshed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, the forums & meeting people are two completely separate parts of Fab.

They sometimes overlap but generally they don't.

I love the forums, there are some great people on here. I really like a lot of the women on here & would love to meet a lot of them in the flesh over a bottle of wine.

I also love chatting in PM's to men who message me & arranging social meets that lead to fuck meets so I'm happy with how I use Fab on its entirety

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