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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep seeing women's stats and profiles stating they get abuse from guys on this!!

I don't understand why any guy would want to give them abuse just because they might not be interested!! There's no need! Just accept it and move on.....I constantly get mails off of guys even tho I'm str8 and yeah it does get anoying but I wouldn't dream of giving any of them abuse!! Its just pissed me off because that's at least 10 iv seen in the last hour saying about it cmon guys get a grip!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't happen too often to me, thank goodness but it did the other day.

I didn't reply to a message so the next one was a torrent of abuse and then he blocked me!!

Hey ho life goes on. I won't be loosing any sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't happen too often to me, thank goodness but it did the other day.

I didn't reply to a message so the next one was a torrent of abuse and then he blocked me!!

Hey ho life goes on. I won't be loosing any sleep over it "

Lol the guys obviously got issue's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing quite as fragile as a bruised male ego at times

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Good grief if gave abuse to those that don't reply I'd be on here for hours every day! I admit it gets very frustrating when you're not given a chance and after several tens of ignored messages the fun goes out of it. But its their choice so suck it up and move on, there is no point in whining or being abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why you would put in your profile what somebody had said to you in a private message

I would imagine lots of women get abuse on here, I know I've had my fair share what do you achieve by advertising it on your status though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heard this from severql friends on here..I just dont get it.

Makes me sad

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

I would imagine lots of women get abuse on here, I know I've had my fair share what do you achieve by advertising it on your status though? "

Sympathy and attention?

OP, I'll probably be shot for this, but this is actually one of our filters...

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all woman get abuse or feel it's necessary to announce it on statuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any.

Had one guy message the other day. His first message could have been taken as rude but i was in a feisty mood and it turned out it was his pick up tactic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its thankfully rare but I've had it in the past. Had one out of the blue recently slagging me off asking if I'm for real as I can't have so many "demands" looking like I do (I won't repeat what he actually said!) Sad losers who clearly aren't happy in their lives so feel the need to belittle complete strangers to make themselves feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had abuse from women for daring to have a social with another woman on the site. As soon as the veri was posted on my profile they sent me angry messages to the effect of "I thought you was talking to me"

This has happened a few times

I hid my rabbit and blocked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had abuse from women for daring to have a social with another woman on the site. As soon as the veri was posted on my profile they sent me angry messages to the effect of "I thought you was talking to me"

This has happened a few times

I hid my rabbit and blocked them

"

Hope bunnys not too traumatised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On one hand I think it's guys who just haven't been shagged in ages so are getting 'backed up'!

And are under the assumption this place gives them unlimited sex cos us girls are gagging and no morals!

But on the flip side...I used to get a lot of abuse when I got shirty with peeps for not reading my profile.

I've found since sending a short but polite 'no thankyou' I don't get any abuse! Whiney reply yes, but nothing worse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its happened to me a few times worst was the other day total abuse because i wouldnt meet him there and then so i politely told him what a tawt he was and blocked him

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

OK, in nine years I can count on one hand the abusive messages I've had and three of them where to do with forum posts but they had sent nasty messages to everyone who had posted on their thread.

I get idiotic messages and chances and whiners like everyone else but I seem to have an abuse filter on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had abuse from women for daring to have a social with another woman on the site. As soon as the veri was posted on my profile they sent me angry messages to the effect of "I thought you was talking to me"

This has happened a few times

I hid my rabbit and blocked them

Hope bunnys not too traumatised

"

He's currently in rabbit counselling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustration. I feel sorry for them. Not sorry enough to pity fuck them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

From girl living out her fantasies, pushing back gender stereotyping and an inspiration to cock in a frock in all the time it takes to reply to a no thanks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've had a couple of abusive messages, mainly from forum contributions that I've made and one or two when we've turned someone down, probably five in total, one chap even revealed his second profile in order to sent abuse once we'd blocked him .

It's water off these ducks backs.

Maybe some women get much more abuse than others. Not a fan of that type of status myself but I suspect there's a reason for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people invite abuse and revel in it.

Some. Not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If somebody has the nerve to turn down a meet with me they deserve all the abuse I give them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a wanker on the forum once and I've been called an old fart a lot. If the cap fits ....

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"I think some people invite abuse and revel in it.

Some. Not all. "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Best not to wonder why folks do what they do as will drive you nuts lol . Some can't handle rejection,some may have a unrealistic expectation of the site ,some are just key board worriors and some are just socially inept ect ect.

I don't care why ,I just look at it as confirmation I was right not to be interested and just move on. Saves me wasting time on them which I can use speaking to those I may meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of keyboard pornstars with inflated egos who really should have some 'personal time' before messaging anyone....a hard dick rarely makes up for a lack of personality or respect..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people invite abuse and revel in it.

Some. Not all. "

Yeah u muva

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