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message, meet or status update?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all,

I'm slowly getting an idea of how the site works, mainly thanks to the forums, but don't think I'll ever figure people out!

So thought I'd ask for a little insight.

Are you most likely to respond to a meet posted in the meet section, a message or a status update?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a 'kiss, fuck, avoid' type thread!

My meets (on this site) have mainly come from messaging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Dan - looks like I'd best get to messaging then!

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

It's always nice to get a message from someone who wants to me you.....shows they are interested in YOU

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A mixture for me.

Initially I just met people who had messaged. Then I started going in the Midlands chat room and ended up meeting some people from there.

I have met people from a social too.

More recently I have posted some meets and one did lead to a great encounter

And even more recently I met someone I 'met' in the forums.

Maybe the answer is to try all sorts?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A message direct to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

I'm slowly getting an idea of how the site works, mainly thanks to the forums, but don't think I'll ever figure people out!

So thought I'd ask for a little insight.

Are you most likely to respond to a meet posted in the meet section, a message or a status update?"

Messaging. Most of it is luck if you send a message at the right time you maybe have a chance

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would say a message, I've never done the meet today but when I asked if anyone wanted to meet for coffee on my status I got tons of messages

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Hi all,

I'm slowly getting an idea of how the site works, mainly thanks to the forums, but don't think I'll ever figure people out!

So thought I'd ask for a little insight.

Are you most likely to respond to a meet posted in the meet section, a message or a status update?"

A good message or a funny status update will be more likely to get a response from me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Maybe the answer is to try all sorts?"

I'd figured all 3 must get results as all 3 are used.

I'd prefer quality over quantity and thought it could quite easily come across as looking to shag my way through the entire site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's always nice to get a message from someone who wants to me you.....shows they are interested in YOU"

I can see that it would be, just wasn't that sure it was a regular occurrence - I'm yet to receive one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say a message, I've never done the meet today but when I asked if anyone wanted to meet for coffee on my status I got tons of messages"

From what I gather this is a different experience for men asking to meet women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

A good message or a funny status update will be more likely to get a response from me! "

Thank you, looks like messaging is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Messaging. Most of it is luck if you send a message at the right time you maybe have a chance"

Luck? Bugger, I'm the type who can play ten lines on the lottery and not get a single number!

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