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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deja vu......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well it hasn't gone down hill for me, maybe look at your selection process instead of trying to blame the forums which only 1% of the site use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyhow... This bathroom revamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that there is some complete shite on here but that's forums for you. If you don't like them don't use them.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?

i think the forums are only a small part of the site so you could concentrate on that perhaps..?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

You only get out of life what you put in.

Same goes for the forums.

C...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet and planning a meet right now, just using the forums while i wait for replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need Shag to tell you....

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "

I wouldn't say 90% of what I post is utter shite....probably 25% of it maybe but then again I never make threads just post in them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?

i think the forums are only a small part of the site so you could concentrate on that perhaps..?"

simply because I refuse to get drawn in to the type of childish 'tit for tat' arguing that goes on in the forums - just a genuine point for others to comment on - I have my view - appreciate others will have theirs - now definitely no more from me

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By *ntirelyuptoyouCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't get it, why start a discuaaion/debate but then run out and not participate? Seems more like another rant because the reality isn't living up to their expectations of how it "should" be!

Don't like the forums, don't use them!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some forum threads do appear time and time again. It would be silly to say that a topic can only be discussed once.

If you see a subject that's been chatted and posted about and discussed to death, then don't post. It will make your fab experience more enjoyable.

Actually, for your consideration, do a forum search for "Brightonsteves cock" - that subject has NOT been discussed before.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To be fair, you have posted a lot on inane threads....twice on two separate threads about feet

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"To be fair, you have posted a lot on inane threads....twice on two separate threads about feet"
I know. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inane threads, raising the same topics ? This is not the first thread moaning about people talking drivel, and in some people's opinion, not using it as a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair, you have posted a lot on inane threads....twice on two separate threads about feet"

feet is not an inane subject though - for many people they are an erogenous zone - so therefore connected to sex and swinging - which is surely what the site is about ? Jeez - Im getting dragged in now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?"

I could not agree with this comment more. Its like spitting at someone and running away.

Thanks, but no thanks.

-Courtney

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I would say my life on here has actually improved by using the forums. I have met via the forums, made friends via the forums, gone to parties and events I never would have heard of if it wasn't for the forums.

I don't care about the political posts, the 'why does no-one want to meet me?' posts, or even the 'kiss, fuck, avoid' posts. I use the forums as a feature to augment my Fabswingers experience. Its working for me!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?

i think the forums are only a small part of the site so you could concentrate on that perhaps..?

simply because I refuse to get drawn in to the type of childish 'tit for tat' arguing that goes on in the forums - just a genuine point for others to comment on - I have my view - appreciate others will have theirs - now definitely no more from me "

if the OP is your genuine opinion then some will agree, others less so..

if the site isn't working to your satisfaction maybe take a break or go elsewhere, that anyone's perceived success or lack of is based on some of the threads in the forum is one i don't share but respect your opinion..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've started using the forums and I also meet people.

In fact I recently met a great guy through the forums

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Bloomin eck. Point out how inferior we all are then refuse to discuss it with us plebs, I've seen it all now

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"To be fair, you have posted a lot on inane threads....twice on two separate threads about feet

feet is not an inane subject though - for many people they are an erogenous zone - so therefore connected to sex and swinging - which is surely what the site is about ? Jeez - Im getting dragged in now !"

If every thread was just about sex the forum would probably be a lot quieter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "

Have you nothing better to do with your life?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"To be fair, you have posted a lot on inane threads....twice on two separate threads about feet

feet is not an inane subject though - for many people they are an erogenous zone - so therefore connected to sex and swinging - which is surely what the site is about ? Jeez - Im getting dragged in now !

If every thread was just about sex the forum would probably be a lot quieter.

"

Only if it was oral...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Bloomin eck. Point out how inferior we all are then refuse to discuss it with us plebs, I've seen it all now "

It's like throwing a Grenade and going in the safety bunker and pretending shit didn't happened...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?

i think the forums are only a small part of the site so you could concentrate on that perhaps..?

simply because I refuse to get drawn in to the type of childish 'tit for tat' arguing that goes on in the forums - just a genuine point for others to comment on - I have my view - appreciate others will have theirs - now definitely no more from me

if the OP is your genuine opinion then some will agree, others less so..

if the site isn't working to your satisfaction maybe take a break or go elsewhere, that anyone's perceived success or lack of is based on some of the threads in the forum is one i don't share but respect your opinion.."

it works - it's just that it now takes about 10 times more effort than it did, say, 2 years ago - something's happened to lessen its effectiveness. We have had a break from the site - and returned - just trying to explore why it has become so polluted with timewasters - which it has (and many genuine people we have met have commented the same)

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes through phases and yes it can seem repetitive if you've been here awhile,mainly due to new members joining and exploring the joys.

I guess you get out what you put in and they do need creativity to keep them interesting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?

i think the forums are only a small part of the site so you could concentrate on that perhaps..?

simply because I refuse to get drawn in to the type of childish 'tit for tat' arguing that goes on in the forums - just a genuine point for others to comment on - I have my view - appreciate others will have theirs - now definitely no more from me

if the OP is your genuine opinion then some will agree, others less so..

if the site isn't working to your satisfaction maybe take a break or go elsewhere, that anyone's perceived success or lack of is based on some of the threads in the forum is one i don't share but respect your opinion..

it works - it's just that it now takes about 10 times more effort than it did, say, 2 years ago - something's happened to lessen its effectiveness. We have had a break from the site - and returned - just trying to explore why it has become so polluted with timewasters - which it has (and many genuine people we have met have commented the same)"

You're not exploring. You are accusing. You didn't ask "why has meeting become more difficult on fab," you have hypothesized that "the forums are to blame." And that none of us have a life off the internet. Charming.

-Courtney

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"OP given you have stated you wont be engaging in your own debate why the fuck should anyone else..?

i think the forums are only a small part of the site so you could concentrate on that perhaps..?

simply because I refuse to get drawn in to the type of childish 'tit for tat' arguing that goes on in the forums - just a genuine point for others to comment on - I have my view - appreciate others will have theirs - now definitely no more from me

if the OP is your genuine opinion then some will agree, others less so..

if the site isn't working to your satisfaction maybe take a break or go elsewhere, that anyone's perceived success or lack of is based on some of the threads in the forum is one i don't share but respect your opinion..

it works - it's just that it now takes about 10 times more effort than it did, say, 2 years ago - something's happened to lessen its effectiveness. We have had a break from the site - and returned - just trying to explore why it has become so polluted with timewasters - which it has (and many genuine people we have met have commented the same)"

How is that the fault of forum contributors who only form a fraction of site membership?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks? "

Let em go crusty and snap it off....see handy hints on forums

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks? "

Don't put them on the end of your Willy, they're meant for your feet.

Oops sorry that was a bit inane

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks? "

Ok how did you get cum in your socks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters? "

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"you have hypothesized that "the forums are to blame." And that none of us have a life off the internet."

Well to be fair, I don't

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought "

Keep an eye out for Fab Forum socials. They're usually a blast with plenty of people attending.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought "

What proportion of fab members are forum contributors? That'll give you an idea if your theory is correct.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Anyone fancy a glass of wine ...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought "

With respect, your first post didn't come across as that at all.

Did you know the forum is only used by 1% of the site members?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "

Genuine answer.

No. The forums are not the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective.

Fab hasn't gone downhill.

And most of the forumites will probably agree that being active on them actually improves their chances of meeting.

I have no trouble getting meets, just trouble finding the time.

And I have a very busy life outside of the internet, I use it for relaxation and entertainment.

Maybe look at your requirements and see whether You suit Fab rather than the reverse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought "

In fairness you raise a valid point, but let's face it,even the most devoted swinger isn't at it 365 days a year and the forums are great for lighthearted banter in between?

I've left this site several times and it's generally the forums that have driven me back oddly enough.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

I don't use fab to meet people, I use it to stay in touch with friends I've made at a club, so I don't find it a problem

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"you have hypothesized that "the forums are to blame." And that none of us have a life off the internet.

Well to be fair, I don't "

what with this candy crush and coin Dover I barely move off my sofa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums aren't the source of time wasters, in that they just wanna chat in them, but you might have a bit of a point here.

We discuss about time wasters all the time, if any of the topics give hints of how people are fooling members then time wasters might pick up on this and then change tactics.

Guys always asking how to get replies when there's probably a reason why they're being ignored in the first place...i never help them out coz i feel if they haven't got any skills to chat and are too impatient to learn them then that equals a shit fuck or desperate for something and don't wanna make any effort = shit sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use fab for the forum really, its fun and comedy value

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

There are 22646 people online on here at this very point in time? They are not all using the forums, may not of even read them and don't have a clue that they even exsist. I doubt a few people posting on the forums have caused fab to turn into a chatting site rather than a meeting site....in your opinion. I'm sure that a lot of people will tell you that they get regular meets off fab.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have been here for 6 years and yes the site goes through changes etc but it certainly has nothing to do with the forums, in fact every bloke I have met never even knew they existed, so I think the stats quoted are that 2% of Fab members contribute to the forums.

So maybe the site does go through different stages at different times, if you are complaining about fantasists and timewasters....I would look at your own selection process before you even consider it is the fault of the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "

Is this the right room for an argument ?

It's all harmless fun, that some people take far too seriously. Where else can you discuss any old horse shit you like, with total strangers. I think it's great.

If that make me sad, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought

With respect, your first post didn't come across as that at all.

Did you know the forum is only used by 1% of the site members? "

I accept my initial post was a little cutting - apologies

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks?

Ok how did you get cum in your socks"

its a male thing..

the sock is the right shape allegedly to pop over the little man just as the err 'vinegar stroke' takes effect..

i believe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why so serious? If a thread is boring ignore it. If it interests you, join in. Not all folk have the same interests or levels of sense of humour. It's the fun police that spoil it for me.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks?

Ok how did you get cum in your socks

its a male thing..

the sock is the right shape allegedly to pop over the little man just as the err 'vinegar stroke' takes effect..

i believe.. "

What a waste of good cum !!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks?

Ok how did you get cum in your socks"

I don't know. I'll ask my friend "Niagra Jim" who stayed over last week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair, you have posted a lot on inane threads....twice on two separate threads about feet

feet is not an inane subject though - for many people they are an erogenous zone - so therefore connected to sex and swinging - which is surely what the site is about ? Jeez - Im getting dragged in now !"

You always knew you would !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a fuck? "
I will get the haribos as foreplay

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Well this is certainly a new version of " the arseholes" ruin it for the "genuine ones" ..... Now it's all the forum users fault

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks?

Ok how did you get cum in your socks

its a male thing..

the sock is the right shape allegedly to pop over the little man just as the err 'vinegar stroke' takes effect..

i believe..

What a waste of good cum !!"

agreed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the forums raise your profile. Just a simple post on the forums increases the number of fabs we get which increases the chances of people reading your profile a thus increasing the winks and messages we get. Posting on the forums show we are serous about what we do and not here to waste people's time. We have found that you get out of Fab what you put in. As far as the topics go, sure there are some that are repetitive but it's only natural since people rarely scroll through past subjects that are 3 pages back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a fuck? "

Nah ! Sex is over rated.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks?

Ok how did you get cum in your socks"

He wears long socks and tucks it in the end, just like I do

C...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a point OP. 90% my posts at best are utter shite. I don't meet and thereby must contribute to ruining your enjoyment of the site. I'll do one just for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like pancakes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "
hey I think you were a few percent out on the shite level its gotta be 98%

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By *allyandJonCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Rhubarb rhubarb rhubarb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a fuck?

Nah ! Sex is over rated. "

Fancy a hot session of inane drivel then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right??? "

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twas brillig, and the slithy toves

Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:

All mimsy were the borogoves,

And the mome raths outgrabe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a fuck?

Nah ! Sex is over rated.

Fancy a hot session of inane drivel then? "

Mmmmm, now that's hot !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging."

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twas brillig, and the slithy toves

Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:

All mimsy were the borogoves,

And the mome raths outgrabe."

I was just thinking the same thing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here "

You see. Don't knock something until you've tried it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here "

Do you think you'll get told off?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here "

Dude FFS dont diss bake off..

shit now your for it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twas brillig, and the slithy toves

Did gyre and gimble in the wabe:

All mimsy were the borogoves,

And the mome raths outgrabe.

I was just thinking the same thing....."

And, as in uffish thought he stood,

The Jabberwock, with eyes of flame,

Came whiffling through the tulgey wood,

And burbled as it came!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ps. It's ariel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here

Do you think you'll get told off? "

Oh yes - she'll go bonkers at me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here

Do you think you'll get told off?

Oh yes - she'll go bonkers at me ! "

can we cam it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 90% of my meets have come from been on the forums. So I think forums are the place to get yourself known and get your personality across

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I haven't read the posts on the thread but this comes up every once in a while. So it would fall into the category of more inane drivel that isn't about sex.

I meet people who don't know about the forum and meet people through the forum where we have inane drivel conversations.

Anyway, back to the Bake Off thread. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never viewed the forum as a place to get meets...by it's very nature it's going to attract a high percentage if those that don't meet. I have met plenty though, and the majority don't even know the forum exists .

And yes, most of what is written is inane shite. That's why I use it for entertainment purposes first and foremost.....in fact, the only reason I'm in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure the forums are really used as a way to attract people to the site, most who use them seem to just stumble across them, and many many more who use the site never use them at all. I don't think there's any link between having forums on a site and a preponderance of timewasters.

And the forums never get in the way of me doing something I'd rather be doing. They're here to while away the time when there isn't something I'd rather be doing.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"So you saying that the forums are the cause of time wasters?

jeez it's hard to get points across in text! Am saying the popularity of forums MAY have attracted the 'chatting' types more than the 'meeting' types - hence why meets are harder to find (as I said compared to 2 years ago). May not be the only reason - 'twas merely a thought

Keep an eye out for Fab Forum socials. They're usually a blast with plenty of people attending."

There have been some great meet events arranged on the forums. I'm going to one this Friday at Xtasia. Then another one for Halloween.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say my life on here has actually improved by using the forums. I have met via the forums, made friends via the forums, gone to parties and events I never would have heard of if it wasn't for the forums.

I don't care about the political posts, the 'why does no-one want to meet me?' posts, or even the 'kiss, fuck, avoid' posts. I use the forums as a feature to augment my Fabswingers experience. Its working for me! "

I agree with you 100% . When I first joined I only used the forums. And its what I sign in for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this is certainly a new version of " the arseholes" ruin it for the "genuine ones" ..... Now it's all the forum users fault "

Great point. The reason why it's harder to get a meet is because of YOU not time wasters. Anyone who has been swinging for years knows that it gets old after awhile.

When you first started swinging. You're excited, nervous, and horny. You go to clubs, socials, and parties every weekend.After a few years , the thrill wares off. Life gets in the way . Kids , work , and family takes over.

I've changed a lot over the years. The first thing I don't do is a no play social. I have no problems meeting for a drink with potential to play. But a absolute no play meet is not for me.

Second I don't meet a couple with a quick hello with the wife. I can't stand meeting a nervous wife and our first conversation is in a hotel room.

So in conclusion.... The site hasn't changed YOU HAVE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a quick hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There as people on here that just use the forums & appear to spend a lot of time chatting, either meeting sporadically or not at all. But as they're not taking anyone else's 'place' I can't see how it effects anyone wanting to meet.

The majority of my meeting has been via here, not quite sure what that says about me...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

This seems to have raised it's head again earlier today: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/389984

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need Shag to tell you...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There as people on here that just use the forums & appear to spend a lot of time chatting, either meeting sporadically or not at all. But as they're not taking anyone else's 'place' I can't see how it effects anyone wanting to meet.

The majority of my meeting has been via here, not quite sure what that says about me... "
it says you only chat and meet here ,youre Beautiful you wouldn't struggle getting a meet anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well looking at the green arrow I would say the OP is talking complete bollocks!

They post crap just like the rest of us in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak from my heart , When as a newbie I opened up The Forum last night.. What great fun.. REally from jesus to body builders.. ( thanks O.p) SOoo funny..x Ace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? You mean people on here actually meet in the flesh?

I thought it was just a site for talking shite & flashing my bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What? You mean people on here actually meet in the flesh?

I thought it was just a site for talking shite & flashing my bits "
pitstop you are the main protagonist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question. "

I'd suggest not visiting the forums if you don't like the content.

Personally I've enjoyed more meets through the forum than actually messaging people.

Who'd have thought chatting to people and getting to know them would ever lead to anything eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are a good laugh if not taken too seriously. I've met more people due to posting on them and getting chatting than I ever did by messaging people so it is conducive to swinging for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appreciate I`m probably setting myself up for a huge fall here! Just had a quick peruse of the forums and 90% of it is utter shite - obviously written by people with not a lot else to do in life. Are the forums the reason Fab has gone downhill from a MEETING perspective i.e. they have attracted the type that only seem to have a life via the internet? Controversial maybe and I understand there are lonely people etc. etc. BUT this is supposed to be a swinging site not a site for inane comment where the same subjects are discussed time and time again? I shall not be replying - just thought I`d pose a genuine question.

lob in the firebomb..... walk away.... look sheepishly knowing what you do whilst feigning innocently

have i got this post about right???

That was my first impression, but you will notice they got drawn in. So they are guilty of posting subjectual matter, that is totally irrelevant to swinging.

ok I give in - and please note it's the man here - the wife has nothing to do with this - she's watching some inane programme about cooking on the telly - hence me posting on here "

Should you be on the bake off thread? Fook off.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the subject of O.p ( Yeah .. u know me ). Thanks for steering the vibe.. Can i have your autograph plse / Selfie.. classic.. Love. COURTNEY. leeds.. your funny too.x lufc.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'd imagine 90% of the sites members have never been in the forums.

I love the comments you've had though... starting a debate then fucking off isn't how forums work so no prizes for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even discussing the relative merits of various washing powders can be misconstrued even though it's a totally innocent and genuine enquiry. After all, how else do I get the cum out of my socks? "

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