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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What type of member would you like to meet via here? Someone who honest upfront polite and straight to the point when seeking friends or some whose rude that thinks they are better than anyone else on here when seeking friendship or sex. Which you like to know first? Because Hi how are you doing seem not to work any more…

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don't mix friendship with sex

Rule #1: DON'T SCREW THE CREW

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What type of member would you like to meet via here? Someone who honest upfront polite and straight to the point when seeking friends or some whose rude that thinks they are better than anyone else on here when seeking friendship or sex. Which you like to know first? Because Hi how are you doing seem not to work any more… "

I'm pretty sure that's not the only two choices

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would I want to meet someone who was rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mix friendship with sex

Rule #1: DON'T SCREW THE CREW"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Hi, how are you doing?' probably doesn't work any more because the ladies / couples (so I'm led to believe) get inundated with 'Hi, how are you doing?' messages every day!

Therefore you need to stand out from the crowd somehow. So it's less about the type of person you are and more about what you can do to attract their attention initially I think!

Keep at it, good luck OP!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And just messaging someone saying how you doing, shows nothing of you its just a nothing message

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Why would I want to meet someone who was rude?"

Op maybe has a different tolerance threshold to me but I don't want to meet unpleasant people, including rude ones, and certainly wouldn't have them as my friends.

Like others, I don't tend to shag my friends. Fbs are different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What type of member would you like to meet via here? Someone who honest upfront polite and straight to the point when seeking friends or some whose rude that thinks they are better than anyone else on here when seeking friendship or sex. Which you like to know first? Because Hi how are you doing seem not to work any more… "

Erm, let me think about that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh. I'm kind of slow. Let me get back to you on that question.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What type of member would you like to meet via here? Someone who honest upfront polite and straight to the point when seeking friends or some whose rude that thinks they are better than anyone else on here when seeking friendship or sex. Which you like to know first? Because Hi how are you doing seem not to work any more… "

Honest and upfront would be good. No reason why they cant be friends either. Ignorant and rude people, need not apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be friends, however, I'm flexible, don't have to be friends, but it's better with people you get along with

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What type of member would you like to meet via here? Someone who honest upfront polite and straight to the point when seeking friends or some whose rude that thinks they are better than anyone else on here when seeking friendship or sex. Which you like to know first? Because Hi how are you doing seem not to work any more… "

Hmmmm.....rude or polite? Tricky....er....polite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've much more enjoy my friends on here and haven't fucked them off, unlike most of my meets who aren't friends. I get bored of guys who can't talk about anything other than sex and get rid.

Not too bothered about arrogance, sometimes it's funny and the people aren't as up their own bum as you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mix friendship with sex

Rule #1: DON'T SCREW THE CREW"

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

The problem with 'Hi, how are you?' is the conversation tends to go

Them: Hi, how are you?

Me: Good thanks. You?

Them: Horny

End of conversation as usually there is nothing in the profile for me to make conversation with and I'm not into dirty talk

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It's an interesting one I have friends that would have sex with if the chance came around - tbh they are ex swingers.

I have swinging friends that whilst I would like to have sex they would happy being friends

I have people on site that I would like to have sex with but then have to arrange

Then I have people that I am happy to perv from afar

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Probably the one that Jennifer Anniston played.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem with 'Hi, how are you?' is the conversation tends to go

Them: Hi, how are you?

Me: Good thanks. You?

Them: Horny

End of conversation as usually there is nothing in the profile for me to make conversation with and I'm not into dirty talk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I make friends with someone, chances are the shag will never happen

On the other hand I have had many friends where the shag was the start of tge friendship

I put it down to being a shit shag but great at nattering over cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, you should message the same way you would approach someone in a club. ...politely if you want messages straight to the point, put it in your profile, that's if you are not a lazy ass and put something in your profile

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By *hucky99Man
over a year ago

Leeds

i don't think it would work well that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What type of member would you like to meet via here? Someone who honest upfront polite and straight to the point when seeking friends or some whose rude that thinks they are better than anyone else on here when seeking friendship or sex. Which you like to know first? Because Hi how are you doing seem not to work any more… "

Well obviously I'd like to meet the rude person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi how you doing..."

Lamest opening message ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship and sex too , am I greedy.

Some one I can talk to , share a laugh and a joke . Some one I can be sensual with.

A friend who I can be myself with and when we can enjoy more

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By *bzguyMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen and shire

ive never had a problem shagging friends to be honest , it is what it is (if you both agree) its scrstching an itch ,"the end!" after all sex and love making are at two complete ends of the spectrum.... just my tuppence worth

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By *ourgeMan
over a year ago

stourport nr kidderminster

.l like to so that I am true to my.profile says .a nice guy .and if people want to no more .I say message me .and will give you my home number .to show how honest i am but giving my number would only apply to females and couples .

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't mix friendship with sex

Rule #1: DON'T SCREW THE CREW"

^What this man says

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'll continue to be odd... if there's any hope of me fucking you, you're gonna need to be my friend first.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If your male and want to screw me i'd like to be friends first , if your female i just need you to be nice and friendly . Red

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm looking for friends with benefits mainly on here. However if the opportunity arose to spend time with some sexys on my hotlist, just for a fuck, then I'm not going to say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely honesty it goes a long way & costs nothing.

There's alot of ignorant ppl out there who just wldnt know honesty if it slapped them on the arse hence reason they act that way.

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