FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone else look at background of pics ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit that we do this rightly or wrongly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol im nosey so yes i check out the background x if its a bombsite it does put us off, if the effort cant be made for pics ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have moved the suitcase in pic 2 OP

xxxx

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lol

Looking at one pic the other day and N, her voice dripping with scorn, said 'nice sofa', ignoring the arse on display.

To be fair, it was a filthy, tatty looking sofa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could have moved the suitcase in pic 2 OP

xxxx"

Haha touché

To be fair though we were in a hotel room and boy does the missus manage to turn a spotless hotel room into a bombsite within minutes of us checking in !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, always.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Have to admit that we do this rightly or wrongly

Me too

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton

"Have to admit that we do this rightly or wrongly

Me too"

I do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could have moved the suitcase in pic 2 OP

xxxx

Haha touché

To be fair though we were in a hotel room and boy does the missus manage to turn a spotless hotel room into a bombsite within minutes of us checking in !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about it, must go and re check all of our pics lol x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Often discussed on fab. Of course we notice and I am always looking at the backgrounds. The reviled toilet in the background photo is often the killer. But a filthy home, litter and mess left discarded around the place, not to mention a poor choice of taste, all affects meet potential, as superficial as I am.

There are web sites that collect hook-up sites user photos, and where the merriment is about the decor etc. I can't name names, but I have seen some shocking things in my time. (Remember, once we put our photos onto the net, they are game for anyone to collect and use as they wish - so your pics may appear somewhere else, being critiqued).

I have appalling taste, I mix clashing colours, fabric types and patterns. Carpets are sacks, curtains are bin liners and I smear excrement onto walls, for colour relief. But Banksy is welcome anytime, if he'd like to add something creative.

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By *lderguy4uMan
over a year ago

wirral

I always look at the background.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yes, it's great fun. I love seeing what is on people's book and dvd shelves.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"
I do this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yes, it's great fun. I love seeing what is on people's book and dvd shelves.

"
I've seen your Stephen King books

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Yes, it's great fun. I love seeing what is on people's book and dvd shelves.

I've seen your Stephen King books

I swapped out my collection of Famous Five

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

Yes...it's sometimes more interesting than the main event.....However when we see pictures of kids & family that we cringe....

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I did that the other day and noticed it was the club I go to pmsl

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do, can't help it

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

I look too.. I can't help it ,.

* rushes of to check her order of " posh back drop cloths" is on its way *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup and judge people by them. If we go to swinging hell so be it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yeah, the 'single males' who have a box of sanitary products in the background are always good for a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. Many so called single guys with lots of girlie cosmetics/toiletries and female clothes suggesting that maybe they're not unless its their sisters bedroom!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confuzzles me slightly the bathroom pic with toilet or bath in the background is often openly frowned upon

However in the bath covered in soap suds never gets mentioned,

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Yeah, the 'single males' who have a box of sanitary products in the background are always good for a

That's taking crossdressing very seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time

I try and stick my boobs out to hid any clutter.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Yeah, the 'single males' who have a box of sanitary products in the background are always good for a

That's taking crossdressing very seriously

Brings a whole new meaning to the word 'tucking'

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Thinking about it, must go and re check all of our pics lol x"

Us too. Need to crop and be more discerning about selection, I suspect

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It depends what's in the foreground... If the main subject of the picture is a fit female body, I doubt that I'll notice anything else....

Cal

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I only have me in the background lol an a few things no mess in the background of my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I am guilty of this too , ha ha

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I only have me in the background lol an a few things no mess in the background of my pics "

Nice sofa

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Haha, yes I do too, its part of the pic, helps tell a story either good or bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only notice if it's an outdoor location, I messaged a bloke asking him what mountain was in the background, poor sod thought he'd scored, turned out to be me being a sad git.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always look at background..a messy is a put off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , don't give a fuck .

If they look fit we will meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

We look at the backgrounds as well, a quick tidy up is all it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"
I do yes and base my decision on wether to befriend them on it xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol

Yes...it's sometimes more interesting than the main event.....However when we see pictures of kids & family that we cringe....

Please report any profile photos with other people in them and especially any one under 18. Admin usually vet pics really well, but it's easy for something in the dim background to slip through occasionally.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't look specifically but certain things will jump out at me.

Women's things in a dingle guy's pics, really messy rooms, tons of kids toys etc.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Has anyone seen meet site pics on sites where they're laughed at and critiqued?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

Untidy isn't a problem. Dirty looking is.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Have to admit that we do this rightly or wrongly

Me too

I do too

Us 3

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. "

This is why we're always so very careful about making sure everything is really tidy before we take a picture....

Mr ddc

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We always look. We were on cam last night in the chatrooms and the mrs was admiring their fabulous kitchen and their tangine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some swingers are really filthy

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

This is why we crop our photos, so none of you nosey buggars can view our decor or stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always look at the pic and then zoom in ...

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

big difference between untidy+dirty.Personally I don't like to see family pics viewable in the background.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Yes

Not just on here as well, on social media sites.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Rule 1: Always clean mirror before any vain selfies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, totally guilty of this!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Yep, totally guilty of this!

I know. It was your thread I was trying to find to bump up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, totally guilty of this!

I know. It was your thread I was trying to find to bump up

I'm such a nosey nelly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

Yes yes yes omg maybe my ocd kicking in but yes (take note of my lovely totally clear floors)

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I've been on here to long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

i do this all the time! i can tell if someone isnt single! and hasnt told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do

I look if it's a tip, for wedding pics, dirty bedsheets..

I'm so easily put off that once I see anything like this I'm off

I'm a bit of a clean freak so it's necessary they are clean..

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol"

Toilet in the background - noooooooo

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Is it just us or does anyone else have a nosey in what lurks behind people in photos taken in their home ?

We find it a real turn off when the pic shows the people standing in a really messy bedroom or in a living room that looks seriously shabby. Or are we just faux snobs lol

Toilet in the background - noooooooo"

We are okay with you then as our main abode is sans a bathroom at the moment, its just an empty shell. Just as well our rental property is vacant so we've relocated ....

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I may do some photoshopping to lighten the background and darken my body

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I work for a major hotel company so I always look to see if any shenanigans have taken place at one of our hotels, recognised a few so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck finding anything lurking in the background of my pics...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

To be honest if someone is such a neat freak as to check on tidiness they want probably fold their clothes before they play ... not for us, we prefer normal people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, nothing more off putting than a messy background. Oh, and I check out how clean bathrooms are in pics

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Yep! Especially if it is books or interesting art

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the bloody time! Love that being a site supporter allows you to zoom in on the pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

My pet hates are:

Toilet bowls in background

Bedspreads and flowery borders wallpaper

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