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"I've thought about this a lot in the past so I don't have to think about my answer. My answer would be no I wouldn't remove them, I have a wonderful ability to compartmentalise things from my past, put them in a box and forget about them and I do actually forget about them until something comes up to remind me. But I have no emotions attached to my negative past I can talk about it cold and factually without a thought. But it also helps me bloody appreciate all the good things" I've never learned to compartmentalise at all. I desperately wish I could. An oddity of aspie brain function perhaps? | |||
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"One of my favourite films. If you had the option to remove negative experiences or memories including ex partners would you? Some people can see these things as parts of life that made them stronger but for some past holds them back. For me I would have some alterations done. " But wasn't the point of the film that it is only the memory of your past mistakes that stops you from reliving them? (It might not have been, it was a while ago ![]() ![]() | |||
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"One of my favourite films. If you had the option to remove negative experiences or memories including ex partners would you? Some people can see these things as parts of life that made them stronger but for some past holds them back. For me I would have some alterations done. But wasn't the point of the film that it is only the memory of your past mistakes that stops you from reliving them? (It might not have been, it was a while ago ![]() ![]() Maybe not mistakes but what about stuff that happened beyond your control? | |||
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" Mr ddc Maybe not mistakes but what about stuff that happened beyond your control? " There is stuff beyond my control? ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Mr ddc Maybe not mistakes but what about stuff that happened beyond your control? There is stuff beyond my control? ![]() ![]() Hypothetical stuff that could have happened to a person say being attacked or abused. Think outside the norm. | |||
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" Mr ddc Maybe not mistakes but what about stuff that happened beyond your control? There is stuff beyond my control? ![]() ![]() I have no knowledge of your OCC so perhaps don't take it too personal. ![]() | |||
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" I have no knowledge of your OCC so perhaps don't take it too personal. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Hypothetical stuff that could have happened to a person say being attacked or abused. Think outside the norm. " I do have a couple of such things in my past, but they're not for the forum. I still think without them I would not have met Mrs ddc. And she is worth more than any bad memories that may linger, by a million miles. ![]() | |||
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"Hypothetical stuff that could have happened to a person say being attacked or abused. Think outside the norm. I do have a couple of such things in my past, but they're not for the forum. I still think without them I would not have met Mrs ddc. And she is worth more than any bad memories that may linger, by a million miles. ![]() You sly old dog hope she reads that. | |||
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