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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I'm just short

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships? "

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most definetly

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By *luezuluMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely.

When i'm not a bitch i get needy types trying to drain me.

When i am a bitch i get funnier people attracted to me, and they aren't funny in a nasty way they just have a lighter outlook on life.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand "

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. For sure.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always depends how you meet them I think and what they get to know about you sometimes before they meet you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I come across as a very strong independent woman.

When I am flippant I attract people who don't see the deeper side and generally don't want to, which is a bit of a mistake because thats what I am actually looking for!

I think its a defense reaction that I default to, and I have to work hard to be the better more open person that I can be.

(Phew, exhausted now!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships? "

Stupid question.

Course it does.

Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently most people do not reveal their true selves until 6 - 9 month into a relationship. They are 'them' but project a better version of themself mainly.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yes. I come across as a very strong independent woman.

When I am flippant I attract people who don't see the deeper side and generally don't want to, which is a bit of a mistake because thats what I am actually looking for!

I think its a defense reaction that I default to, and I have to work hard to be the better more open person that I can be.

(Phew, exhausted now!!)"

This to a tee. I very much come across as the joker but in reality I'm much deeper and that's what I look for in others

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

I'm way too heavy to carry myself off...I'd need a sack barrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I come across as a very strong independent woman.

When I am flippant I attract people who don't see the deeper side and generally don't want to, which is a bit of a mistake because thats what I am actually looking for!

I think its a defense reaction that I default to, and I have to work hard to be the better more open person that I can be.

(Phew, exhausted now!!)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive, outgoing, and friendly seems to attract the same in return! (Mostly!) Lol

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Stupid question.

Course it does.

Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now. "

I thought it was quite a good question...

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Apparently most people do not reveal their true selves until 6 - 9 month into a relationship. They are 'them' but project a better version of themself mainly."

Some slip after a few dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently most people do not reveal their true selves until 6 - 9 month into a relationship. They are 'them' but project a better version of themself mainly.

Some slip after a few dates "

Idk, wish i could tell.

It's probably why we insist on honesty though, so we don't invest in something we have no real interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Stupid question.

Course it does.

Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now.

I thought it was quite a good question... "

Sorry ignore me, I only posted for the comedy value.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Stupid question.

Course it does.

Otherwise I'd be up to my eyelids in fanny batter by now.

I thought it was quite a good question...

Sorry ignore me, I only posted for the comedy value. "

It's ok lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personality is like a magnetic field. We only attract those that the field we are emitting attracts. If we only show part of ourselves we only attract or repel those that see those parts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract "

Thank you, I'm being a bit daft today .

Yes it does although initial attraction must surely be based on looks in most cases.

I am trying to cultivate a personality that attracts multi-millionaires at the moment

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract

Thank you, I'm being a bit daft today .

Yes it does although initial attraction must surely be based on looks in most cases.

I am trying to cultivate a personality that attracts multi-millionaires at the moment "

Can you write a book once you have figured that out

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract

Thank you, I'm being a bit daft today .

Yes it does although initial attraction must surely be based on looks in most cases.

I am trying to cultivate a personality that attracts multi-millionaires at the moment

Can you write a book once you have figured that out "

If I can be bothered, I fully intend to be rolling about on fifty pound notes so might not have time. Send me a begging letter and I'll see what I can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think personality is like a magnetic field. We only attract those that the field we are emitting attracts. If we only show part of ourselves we only attract or repel those that see those parts. "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think more the way someone conducts themselves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract "
what type of people have you attracted ? X

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By *ighting17thMan
over a year ago

Bodmin


"Positive, outgoing, and friendly seems to attract the same in return! (Mostly!) Lol"

I agree with this- I seem to attract decent, positive and bright people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a brain to think with

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract what type of people have you attracted ? X "

In the past cunts but then I have been a proper cunt in the past....learnt some harsh life lessons and built myself from the bottom half. I attract nice people

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand

Ok the way we act as people our personalities and how we portray ourselves outwardly does this play a part in the type of people we attract what type of people have you attracted ? X

In the past cunts but then I have been a proper cunt in the past....learnt some harsh life lessons and built myself from the bottom half. I attract nice people "

And I thought you liked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go places to attract men for any relationships. Not counting men on here I attract all kinds of men online. Doesn't every woman though?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't go places to attract men for any relationships. Not counting men on here I attract all kinds of men online. Doesn't every woman though? "

Yeah I guess but for example a friend does the same job I do but attracts professional guys...I don't I attract the builder types...I do think there are those that don't attract Horrible people if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go places to attract men for any relationships. Not counting men on here I attract all kinds of men online. Doesn't every woman though?

Yeah I guess but for example a friend does the same job I do but attracts professional guys...I don't I attract the builder types...I do think there are those that don't attract Horrible people if that makes sense. "

But why do some attract horrible people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That the way we carry ourselves off determine the type of person/people we attract...no forms of friendships and partnerships?

Cheeky you're going to have to say that again I don't understand "

Body language and eye contact are 90% of all communication, trouble is the guys on here (at least the ones who contact me) can't even manage the 10% conversation....If you project yourself well you get nice people. Those who walk around with their heads down avoiding eye contact and not flirting, well you get the idea...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I think our prescence attracts or detracts others

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