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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I'm gonna get a lot of stick for posting this but I'm really anxious about it (please don't laugh) for the past 4 years I have applied to audition for the x factor but due to my lifestyle I.e swinging and the people I have had sex with in the past has always stopped me turning up just incase I was to do well and then it all comes out in the papers. Now I'm not being so egotystical as to think I would do very well but there's always that thing in your head that says what if. Any advice short of cosmetic surgery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if your not ashamed of your lifestyle, what you worrying about, didn't a contestant last year get outed in the papers as being Bi? he said he wasn't ashamed

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I know I'm gonna get a lot of stick for posting this but I'm really anxious about it (please don't laugh) for the past 4 years I have applied to audition for the x factor but due to my lifestyle I.e swinging and the people I have had sex with in the past has always stopped me turning up just incase I was to do well and then it all comes out in the papers. Now I'm not being so egotystical as to think I would do very well but there's always that thing in your head that says what if. Any advice short of cosmetic surgery?"
Yes, dont go on it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not ashamed at all but the shows producers judges etc and a large praportion of the general public would find it disgusting I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact of the matter is even if you weren't a swinger, any woman you ever looked at if you were to become famous would want her 15 minutes too and claim you tied her to the bed for a night of debauchery!!

Goes with the terrority I'm afraid.

Realistically though...what are the chances?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not ashamed at all but the shows producers judges etc and a large praportion of the general public would find it disgusting I think"

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Not ashamed at all but the shows producers judges etc and a large praportion of the general public would find it disgusting I think"

So already you've judged them?

I guess the people you have to think about are the people who matter... i.e. your family and friends. Why do you care what complete strangers think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good points all of em although I'm still on the fence a bit this is definately a head scratcher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My father was a singer won a show very much like Xfator and was a swinger married my mum at 18. Thay had a wild life ....... it should not stop you going nothing.Only thing is stoping you is inside your head.... just look read the papers everyone at it or shagging behind there parners backs papers are full and now its very boring it OLD HAT..... Papers would never run storys about you and swinging ...You would have to kill them after shagging to make paper .... and then you would never be on tv or papers be locked up.I can sing too never know i may go on the show too x be two of us swingers there .lololol ....jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that would be a very interesting stage show but seriously that has set my mind at ease a great deal I'll do it now I think and if the worst happens then fuck it at least I gave it a go thanks for buzzin me up hehe

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Well that would be a very interesting stage show but seriously that has set my mind at ease a great deal I'll do it now I think and if the worst happens then fuck it at least I gave it a go thanks for buzzin me up hehe"

Here's an idea - int he event you get sussed by the press, just claim to be the average promiscuous 20-something year old british male with access to the internet in the 21st century. I bet that covers 99% of the population

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that would be a very interesting stage show but seriously that has set my mind at ease a great deal I'll do it now I think and if the worst happens then fuck it at least I gave it a go thanks for buzzin me up hehe"
Do it xxxxx so its NOT... A if only ..... and you think of what could have been lifes far to short live your dream ..

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Well that would be a very interesting stage show but seriously that has set my mind at ease a great deal I'll do it now I think and if the worst happens then fuck it at least I gave it a go thanks for buzzin me up heheDo it xxxxx so its NOT... A if only ..... and you think of what could have been lifes far to short live your dream .."

wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lol

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By *hite SnakeMan
over a year ago

leeds

I'd be more embarrased about wanting to appear on x factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be more embarrased about wanting to appear on x factor."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd do anything to be back stage with her mmmmmm definately somethin worth lettin the world know your a swinger for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it, you can call yourself bubblebo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lol"
she nothing like she use to be , lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why would you worry really.. just do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go for it, its only swinging, not as if we're all hired assassins. Its a risk whatever though isnt it, if you were that good, you'd surely be doing your utmost to be on stage singing so if you ever made it then you'd have the same problem regardless of xfactor

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


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wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol"

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xx"
do you know ITV had loads phoning saying it was to sexie for that time of the evening ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Simon Cowell said any publicity is good publicity.

We all have things in our past that could be dragged out in the wrong way.

Don't make excuses, just do it.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"

wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xxdo you know ITV had loads phoning saying it was to sexie for that time of the evening , "

ye was telling my mate in the pub last nite.. he just called me a sad b*s*ard for watching it in the first place... just shows what i was doing saturday nite lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xxdo you know ITV had loads phoning saying it was to sexie for that time of the evening ,

ye was telling my mate in the pub last nite.. he just called me a sad b*s*ard for watching it in the first place... just shows what i was doing saturday nite lol x"
well you loved seeing them sexie woman your mate missed out . x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have u noticed though that everyone who slags the x factor off knows A LOT about it so they obviously watch It too they're just tryin to look cool B)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chloe Mafia was outted as an escort and a cocaine user, doubt having sex for fun is as bad as doing it for money..

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"

wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xxdo you know ITV had loads phoning saying it was to sexie for that time of the evening ,

ye like seein sexy ladies anywhere lol xx

ye was telling my mate in the pub last nite.. he just called me a sad b*s*ard for watching it in the first place... just shows what i was doing saturday nite lol xwell you loved seeing them sexie woman your mate missed out . x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u noticed though that everyone who slags the x factor off knows A LOT about it so they obviously watch It too they're just tryin to look cool B)"
yes your so right ,, maybe thay like being diffrent x we love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm,,,I guess you could possibly try subtlety dropping a hint during your audition….. maybe through your song choice….. for example

It don't mean a thing, if it ain't got that swing

(doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah)

It don't mean a thing all you got to do is sing

(doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah)

It makes no difference

If it's sweet or hot

Just give that rhythm

Everything you've got

It don't mean a thing, if it ain't got that swing

(doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah)

It don't mean a thing all you got to do is sing

(doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah)

It makes no difference

If it's sweet or hot

Just give that rhythm

Everything you've got

It don't mean a thing, if it ain't got that swing

(doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah, doo-ah)

It makes no difference

If it's sweet or hot

Just give that rhythm

Everything you've got

It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that swing

It don't mean a thing all you got to do is sing

(doo-ah)

It makes no difference

If it's sweet or hot

Just give that rhythm

Everything you've got

Don't mean a thing all you've gotta do is swing

It don't mean a thing all you've gotta do is sing

It makes no difference

If it's sweet or hot

Give that rhythm

Everything you've got

It don't mean a thing if it ain't got that swing

(doo-ah, dooooo-aaaaah)

Don't mean a thing

Anyway,,,,in answer to your dilemma,,,

Its a Yes from me!!.... go for it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t regret the things you do in life ….. save your regrets for the thing you don’t do …….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feck feck,,,,,, aghhhhhhhh ...... missed a bloom'in..... "S".... off the end of "thing".....ahhhh.... now see,,,, I would have regretted not mentioning that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xx"

She looks like she needs a good bath & hair wash...dirty bint.

Anyway....are you actually good enough to get anywhere? I was thinking of auditioning for a run way model on this year's clothes show but I was also scared I'd be recognised.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xx

She looks like she needs a good bath & hair wash...dirty bint.

Anyway....are you actually good enough to get anywhere? I was thinking of auditioning for a run way model on this year's clothes show but I was also scared I'd be recognised..... "
well you never know untill you give it a go x

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Northants


"Have u noticed though that everyone who slags the x factor off knows A LOT about it so they obviously watch It too they're just tryin to look cool B)"

We have never watched it and never will. A program that is at least partially fixed from the outset, that dismisses good talent so it can have some people to ridicule...

You want to be on it??? Says a lot..

But so glad you think it is cool NOT to watch it though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't wanna blow my own trumpet (that's why I'm on here lol) but I can definately hold my own I used to sing all swing music with the royal brittish legion but I have always been a bit nervous about someone recognising me. Although as many of you have said you get one life and you should live it as u want with no regrets. Also that swing song is MINT lmfao

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The people who might "out" you would be outing themselves too so I would go for it.

You can't live your life not doing things you want just incase someone gets vinidictive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

wished i could sing.. do anything to b on that stage with Christina Aguilera lolshe nothing like she use to be , lol

no ur right but her mates were fit lol xx

She looks like she needs a good bath & hair wash...dirty bint.

Anyway....are you actually good enough to get anywhere? I was thinking of auditioning for a run way model on this year's clothes show but I was also scared I'd be recognised..... "

You too?!! I get mistaken for Tyra Banks all the time!!!

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

You just see the headlines in the Sun now...

Xfactor singer swinger shocker!!!

I would ring Max Clifford before you enter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just see the headlines in the Sun now...

Xfactor singer swinger shocker!!!

I would ring Max Clifford before you enter!!"
sure most would think lucky man and maybe would he like leg over after show x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah me too that would be sweet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just do yourself a favour and dont go on

i mean come one x factor!!! why would you wnat to lol

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

THE STICKS

my X factor dillemma:

do I ram the heated soldering iron into my eyes so I cant watch it or into my ears so I dont have to listen to the banal watered down middle of the road shite covers they sing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people who might "out" you would be outing themselves too so I would go for it.

You can't live your life not doing things you want just incase someone gets vinidictive."

Not necessarily someone could contact the press giving website names and user names but keeping theirs a secret. Its all fair and well for everyone to say do it but there is some irony that many saying this don't have public face pictures.

Lets not forget how vitriolic the British press can be towards some groups and swinging isn't the most admired pastime.

To the OP. If you want to go on the show then shave your head or dye your hair but be aware of being outed. If you can live with it then go for it. But if it may affect your job, life and friends then think hard before following through.

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By *et_me_take_controlMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I know I'm gonna get a lot of stick for posting this but I'm really anxious about it (please don't laugh) for the past 4 years I have applied to audition for the x factor but due to my lifestyle I.e swinging and the people I have had sex with in the past has always stopped me turning up just incase I was to do well and then it all comes out in the papers. Now I'm not being so egotystical as to think I would do very well but there's always that thing in your head that says what if. Any advice short of cosmetic surgery?

Yes, dont go on it?"

You have to love Femme. She just tells it like it is. Your posts alwasys amuse me - keep up the good work!

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