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By *harpDressed Man OP   Man
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

"

Afraid not, we have a certain criteria what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

"

Yep,everything you've quoted there same as me.Simple things too believe or not,like a woman in cool sneakers,gets me all the time.And most importantly the aura that she puts out,big turn on !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do prefer a variety and don't strictly have a one off type but I never lower standards there has to be a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like variety in all aspects of my life and my taste in men reflects that. I am attracted to the man's demeanor,character and personality. I've never been attracted to the cheeky chappy,big personality types,they irritate me when they don't shut up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like variety in all aspects of my life and my taste in men reflects that. I am attracted to the man's demeanor,character and personality. I've never been attracted to the cheeky chappy,big personality types,they irritate me when they don't shut up

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This for me too

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Rules me out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

"

You cant beat that spark when you chat to some one and you connect , you can giggle and tease . Just chat and share stories and eventually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more shallow than you lot!

Just looking for great sex with great people lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I'm more shallow than you lot!

Just looking for great sex with great people lol "

People plural i'd say that's not shallow just greedy

Going off of your logic I'm extra extra shallow because I'm looking for lots of exceptional sex with exceptional women .

See I'm not only super shallow I'm super greedy to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really have a type but I'm drawn to the more voluptuous rubenesque body shape more often than not

So maybe I do have a type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think I'm attracted to all types. Don't get me wrong, personality is important. I couldn't have sex with a guy who was a jerk. But I'm already married. I'm not looking for someone I connect with. I'm looking for someone I'm physically attracted to. Same for Marc.

I guess I'm a bit shallow in my approach to this site.

-Courtney

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The only common denominator we appear to have when looking for friends is a sharp/fun wit and vast imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

"

All I know is, I know it when I see it. I do have a weakness for tall, dark and handsome but I wouldn't meet someone like that if they turned out to be an egotistic, arrogant twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't think I'm attracted to all types. Don't get me wrong, personality is important. I couldn't have sex with a guy who was a jerk. But I'm already married. I'm not looking for someone I connect with. I'm looking for someone I'm physically attracted to. Same for Marc.

I guess I'm a bit shallow in my approach to this site.

-Courtney"

Its not shallow. Attraction is a must

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

"

No, I am not the same, I am shallow like a few have already mentioned. Physical attraction is important, and I know what I am attracted to, so only go for people who meet that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree with the op. If I can have a laugh with someone we'll probably get along that much better in clandestine activities. Whilst attraction in a physical sense does matter I wouldn't say I had a specific type, it's more important for me that we click rather than her having a double d chest & a miniscule waist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer variety as well as one week you want a bbw the next a slim, blonde then a brunette

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm pretty much attracted to all kinds of women. All different physical attributes. I have my holy grail of things I really like of course (long dark hair, short in height, hairy minge, big arse etc.) but can see beauty in even the most unusual parts of a woman's body. In fact, the only thing that will truly turn me off is a terrible personality, a bad attitude and just being a bit of a cunt. In a way this is more important to me than the physical aspect of a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy on the same wavelength as me are few nd far between. I've found only one on the 2 years I've collectively spent on fab. But it is a turn on.

I also tend to find things attractive that aren't typical.

Just a decent body etc. Is not enough to interest me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't think I'm attracted to all types. Don't get me wrong, personality is important. I couldn't have sex with a guy who was a jerk. But I'm already married. I'm not looking for someone I connect with. I'm looking for someone I'm physically attracted to. Same for Marc.

I guess I'm a bit shallow in my approach to this site.

-Courtney"

I dont think thats shallow at all just different from some but probably same as a lot of people. Id imagine if i was in a couple here id be the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer variety as well as one week you want a bbw the next a slim, blonde then a brunette "

can i be bbw, blonde week and pink hair week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't think I'm attracted to all types. Don't get me wrong, personality is important. I couldn't have sex with a guy who was a jerk. But I'm already married. I'm not looking for someone I connect with. I'm looking for someone I'm physically attracted to. Same for Marc.

I guess I'm a bit shallow in my approach to this site.

-Courtney"

I have to be physically attracted to the man too. I can be attracted to short men,tall men,dark hair,red hair,blonde hair,black,Asian,Arabic,white,blue eyes,brown eyes etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following on from from a couple of threads I've seen recently.

One of the reasons that I'm here is because it gives me access to such a wide variety of people. All my life I've been attracted to all sorts, before eventually realising that it truly was personalities that I was ultimately connecting with.

So, short, tall, slim, big, any colour (hair or skin), pretty, hardfaced, I've never cared.

But that spark I get when I realise that someone new is on my wavelength - magnificent.

Are you the same?

"

I totally get this ,

To see with the eye alone is not to see at all .

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Variety is the spice of life

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton


"Variety is the spice of life "

Op yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't think I'm attracted to all types. Don't get me wrong, personality is important. I couldn't have sex with a guy who was a jerk. But I'm already married. I'm not looking for someone I connect with. I'm looking for someone I'm physically attracted to. Same for Marc.

I guess I'm a bit shallow in my approach to this site.

-Courtney

I have to be physically attracted to the man too. I can be attracted to short men,tall men,dark hair,red hair,blonde hair,black,Asian,Arabic,white,blue eyes,brown eyes etc. "

No, I understand your point. I'm just saying that for me and this site, physical attraction trumps personality, as long as the guy isn't a jerk. At least when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer variety as well as one week you want a bbw the next a slim, blonde then a brunette

can i be bbw, blonde week and pink hair week? "
Yes you can be in the bbw week

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