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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't judge please, but I really built a friendship with another fab member, would meet regularly for lunch and drinks and enjoy each other's company.

Only he's suddenly come off fab saying it's not for him and I'm guessing all other contact will cease.

I totally understand it's the nature of the beast so to speak but I found its kind of left me missing them

Sounds stupid huh??

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Not stupid...just unfortunate.

There will be someone else out there for you

Patience is all you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not stupid...just unfortunate.

There will be someone else out there for you

Patience is all you need."

Yes as shag would say patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not stupid to miss a friend.

If he stays in touch he was a friend. If he doesn't stay in touch then you'll know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't judge please, but I really built a friendship with another fab member, would meet regularly for lunch and drinks and enjoy each other's company.

Only he's suddenly come off fab saying it's not for him and I'm guessing all other contact will cease.

I totally understand it's the nature of the beast so to speak but I found its kind of left me missing them

Sounds stupid huh?? "
no not at all you liked them shows you are a nice person

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border


"Don't judge please, but I really built a friendship with another fab member, would meet regularly for lunch and drinks and enjoy each other's company.

Only he's suddenly come off fab saying it's not for him and I'm guessing all other contact will cease.

I totally understand it's the nature of the beast so to speak but I found its kind of left me missing them

Sounds stupid huh?? "

Not stupid it's hard not to become friends with people. ..but a someone else has said if a a true friend will be in touch don't let it affect you sweetie. Plenty more friends to be made xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not stupid at all plenty people I'd miss if they were no longer on here x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh wow! Thank you so so much all. I was waiting to get jumped on for being "soft" etc but I really felt I had to ask people their opinion

I like to be nice to others, what we are each on here for is our own reasons so long as we are respectful and polite.

Yes I really like your philosophy, if they really are a friend they would stay in touch, if not ..... Never mind

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Don't judge please, but I really built a friendship with another fab member, would meet regularly for lunch and drinks and enjoy each other's company.

Only he's suddenly come off fab saying it's not for him and I'm guessing all other contact will cease.

I totally understand it's the nature of the beast so to speak but I found its kind of left me missing them

Sounds stupid huh?? "

Not stupid at all, maybe text them or something and see what they want/think..

good luck with it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had messaged as we had been contacting on kik but no reply and I didn't want to message again and appear weird (got to grin!)

I have his mobile but would never get in contact on that as our private life's are private

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

It could be that he is now in a regular relationship.

Think about what you want and if you were to so desire be brave and send him one more message.

Tell him that you value his friendship and the qualities that he has and if you want more ask him if you should come off of Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are both in relationships we have no desire to affect, it was just a great friendship to enjoy.

This week will tell, if he gets in touch. I would be disappointed if he doesn't, more so for him not taking the time to message and explain nicely but just disappearing. But I fully accept its the "risk" you take on here I guess xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are both in relationships we have no desire to affect, it was just a great friendship to enjoy.

This week will tell, if he gets in touch. I would be disappointed if he doesn't, more so for him not taking the time to message and explain nicely but just disappearing. But I fully accept its the "risk" you take on here I guess xxx"

If your both in relationships it could be a number of reasons. His gf may have found out you two were talking, he could of suddenly felt guilty, who knows?

Time is a great healer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Onwards and upwards

Thanks everyone for being so nice x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Onwards and upwards

Thanks everyone for being so nice x"

We are a nice crew here.

Now...as you are at a loose end...

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