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"What do you mean by other people? People on here or people in the real world? On here, some will like me, I hope! Others won't. Nobody in my real life has seen me on here or if they have, they've not said anything ![]() People in the 'real world'. ![]() | |||
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"What do you mean by other people? People on here or people in the real world? On here, some will like me, I hope! Others won't. Nobody in my real life has seen me on here or if they have, they've not said anything ![]() ![]() oh in the real world, haven't openly told anyone, but they know I meet people of the internet, have them to my house and go to socials and my son now knows I'm on here, | |||
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"What do you mean by other people? People on here or people in the real world? On here, some will like me, I hope! Others won't. Nobody in my real life has seen me on here or if they have, they've not said anything ![]() ![]() I dont tell people about myself (swinging, cross-dressing or homosexualism) not because I'm scared what they think of me. It's more of the pain and disappointment that they might get if they know the truth. | |||
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"Some people have public face pics. Some people are very open with friends/ family/ colleagues etc. What do other people think of you? What has been your experience as a "known swinger"?" My family dont know. Couple of friends do and workmates. My boss doesnt understand why I do it, she said she worries about me, which is sweet. People here, well the ones I meet mostly say in the veris that it was good etc, and im nice. | |||
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"What do you mean by other people? People on here or people in the real world? On here, some will like me, I hope! Others won't. Nobody in my real life has seen me on here or if they have, they've not said anything ![]() This, saves me writing it ![]() | |||
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"by my loved ones, I am loved and cherished. I only have a small family and they mean the world to me. on the internet, I am probably not liked by the majority as I participate in the forums/swinging the way that suits me, no one else. my online persona has evolved and I have taken accountability for a lot of my mistakes. I won't make them again." Power to you for that. | |||
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"by my loved ones, I am loved and cherished. I only have a small family and they mean the world to me. on the internet, I am probably not liked by the majority as I participate in the forums/swinging the way that suits me, no one else. my online persona has evolved and I have taken accountability for a lot of my mistakes. I won't make them again." I like you. I like your honesty. | |||
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"I think my friends who know I'm on here are not surprised I'm here. I'm seen as the very liberal and brave one. For those who I don't know me as well they would maybe be shocked . I'm not shy about who I am and what I like. Nor am I worried I'm 'found out ' really. The only reason I hide my face photos is because I don't want it getting back to my son his mum is on a sex site Although to be fair websites like pof and tinder are just as bad bit yet seem more socially acceptable. I'll never understand that as I've met far nicer people here than there " Totally agree with that. I have 3 girls and I would hate to think they got bullied at school due to something dad had done,for example someone spotting me on here and then spreading it around. All my mate's know and have a little chuckle about it,in fact 2 used to be on here a few years back. Apart from that,who cares really. | |||
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"I have never told anybody I come on sites like this or use clubs, to be honest I don't think anybody would believe me if I did I think they would think I was pissing about to get a reaction all my friends and family think I haven't had sex since I split with my ex husband 7 years ago and I'm happy with them thinking that " ![]() | |||
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"I share information about me and my choices depending upon trust. If I trust others, it's invariably a good choice. My friends are somewhat similar in their outlooks on life - we're here to enjoy it and support each other, come what may. I may share information about my holidays with my hairdresser but sexual pursuits is a different matter. People who know me are variously interested or not in sexual pursuits - we share sometimes. It can amuse, frustrate and sometimes embolden others. I'm a person of little uncertainty - I've spoken to people years after a very brief encounter and they've remembered my opinions on things. We make our marks. And shape our way through the jungle out there. If someone has a confidence and passion for their life, others would smartly assume that this person is open to pursuits that will engage and match them, irrespective of what others think." very well said...thank you for your eloquence x ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() Love you Nordy ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Shall I get one for you too? ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I used to have a t-shirt that said: I SHAG LADS AND LASSES ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll get one of those when I've shagged you mate. ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Uh... I don't think it works quite like that, dude. | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll just get my original one then. ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Aww spoilsport. ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'd love an 'I'm Mr Nordy from Fab' t-shirt. ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I meant an " I'm NellGwynn from FAB and I don't give a toss", ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know, I'm teasing. I thought it could be Fab's version of 'I'm Spartacus'..... | |||
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"I don't understand why people have a problem with what other people do, if it isn't affecting them in anyway, sod it, I'm getting a t-shirt done with ' I'M MR NORDY ON FAB AND I COULDN'T GIVE A TOSS' on it, so there. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Sorry, I missed that one, lol I'll get a job lot done for all. ![]() | |||
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"I keep this part of my life very private, so not even my close friends know I am on here. Like others have said, with kids, especially ones reaching adult age, I don't want them knowing, so the fewer people who know, the better. " And what happens if your kids find out somehow? Would they be hurt more by the fact you are a swinger or that you lead a double life? Just curious to know why people are happy to be swingers but so ashamed of anyone finding out about it? ![]() | |||
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"I keep this part of my life very private, so not even my close friends know I am on here. Like others have said, with kids, especially ones reaching adult age, I don't want them knowing, so the fewer people who know, the better. And what happens if your kids find out somehow? Would they be hurt more by the fact you are a swinger or that you lead a double life? Just curious to know why people are happy to be swingers but so ashamed of anyone finding out about it? ![]() I've always had a similar _iew it's why I don't mind my pics being public Ooh I like sex - shoot me now | |||
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"Don't care, Its my life, I choose to show my face because I have nothing to hide, I'm a grown up, and anything I do on here involves consenting adults" Well said!!! ![]() | |||
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"I don't know really . Hopefully its nice bloke with a happy dog ![]() That's definitely how you come across on here.x | |||
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"I consider them friends and there are benefits lol) " Very true | |||
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"I don't know really . Hopefully its nice bloke with a happy dog ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Men on fab assume I'm a "slut" which I'm not, I'm very selective who I sleep with. As soon as you give someone a polite no, some people get arsey. I actually think I'm quite a decent human being, I just enjoy sex." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Everybody loves me of course ![]() ![]() ![]() Well of course you do. Why wouldn't you? ![]() | |||
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"Everybody loves me of course ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() exactly x ![]() | |||
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"I keep this part of my life very private, so not even my close friends know I am on here. Like others have said, with kids, especially ones reaching adult age, I don't want them knowing, so the fewer people who know, the better. And what happens if your kids find out somehow? Would they be hurt more by the fact you are a swinger or that you lead a double life? Just curious to know why people are happy to be swingers but so ashamed of anyone finding out about it? ![]() I am just a private erosion full stop. Not just about me being on here, but about a lot of things that happen in my life. | |||
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"As for what people on here tjink of me...i have no idea ![]() ![]() I think you're lovely ![]() ![]() | |||
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"As for what people on here tjink of me...i have no idea ![]() ![]() Where should I start? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"As for what people on here tjink of me...i have no idea ![]() ![]() . We all think your swell, ![]() ![]() | |||
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"As for what people on here tjink of me...i have no idea ![]() ![]() I think you are bodacious ![]() | |||
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"As for what people on here tjink of me...i have no idea ![]() ![]() a dreamer, clever, witty and beautiful x some people love to love me, some people love to hate me. some see the truth in me and some like to tell lies about me..all in all, i live quite happily in my own skin and those that really know me, like knowing me..so all's good in my world x | |||
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"I don't think anyone knows about this side of me from my vanilla life. If they do, nobody has said anything but they're probably sniggering behind my back ![]() ![]() well said that man let's face it nobody knows anyone on here until they meet them ,we are all just a group of text messages ![]() | |||
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"Some people have public face pics. Some people are very open with friends/ family/ colleagues etc. What do other people think of you? What has been your experience as a "known swinger"?" None of my friends, family or colleagues know about this side of our life, I doubt they've even guessed. When we meet people within a swinging environment they sometimes say we're the last people they would expect to be swingers from outward appearances. So you could say that as a known swinger people think I don't look the type ![]() | |||
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"Some people have public face pics. Some people are very open with friends/ family/ colleagues etc. What do other people think of you? What has been your experience as a "known swinger"? None of my friends, family or colleagues know about this side of our life, I doubt they've even guessed. When we meet people within a swinging environment they sometimes say we're the last people they would expect to be swingers from outward appearances. So you could say that as a known swinger people think I don't look the type ![]() I think you're a nice couple. ![]() | |||
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"Some people have public face pics. Some people are very open with friends/ family/ colleagues etc. What do other people think of you? What has been your experience as a "known swinger"? None of my friends, family or colleagues know about this side of our life, I doubt they've even guessed. When we meet people within a swinging environment they sometimes say we're the last people they would expect to be swingers from outward appearances. So you could say that as a known swinger people think I don't look the type ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"tbh i couldnt careless what people think of me i show my face because ive got nothing to hide im nt really a swinger tho just want a lil excitement in mylife and nt with numerous guys either i know that this is a sex site but i do have morals" Oh lol. At what number does it move from a "lil excitement" to immoral? ![]() | |||
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"As for what people on here tjink of me...i have no idea ![]() ![]() I think your cuckoo quite frankly ![]() ![]() | |||
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