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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

So we know that the definition of a swinger is debatable. Thought we could pool our thoughts on the categories of people we get here. Please, no use of the 'hardened' word.

1. Couples for other couples and some singles.

2. The sexually desperate. These have tried every last known avenue to try to secure some form of sex. Rarely find what they want. Typical users of 'fancy a fuck' type messages.

Add the rest of the categories guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forumiters

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forumiters "

I'm in this category I think.

Single and not looking for anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forumiters

I'm in this category I think.

Single and not looking for anything "

I'm single and given up.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Single with sexual needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single happy with chats socials but also have sexual needs

Id go with genuine.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee meets with sexy people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meets with sexy people. "

Mines a latte lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me. "

I second that and add, I still get judged by the numbers I have, and some men think I want strings.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Those of us who use the forum in between whatever meets they can arrange with people they like.

A dull category.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Sparkling water for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that think its a good idea but run at the mere mention of a meet, then return on a new profile and moan they can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me. "
another ancient one here

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Not forgetting the time wasters and the picture collectors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me.

I second that and add, I still get judged by the numbers I have, and some men think I want strings. "

This is my category also. I wouldn't want to pick a guy up in a club for crappy d*unk sex, so it's also about getting sexually compatible partner's as well as not being judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me.

I second that and add, I still get judged by the numbers I have, and some men think I want strings.

This is my category also. I wouldn't want to pick a guy up in a club for crappy d*unk sex, so it's also about getting sexually compatible partner's as well as not being judged."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me.

I second that and add, I still get judged by the numbers I have, and some men think I want strings. "

But your numbers are not high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people here to meet the likeminded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Party people

eg me I have gone past the gangbang stage, now loving the one on ones in private rooms, loving the social side of parties

even to the stage of being virginal organising/hosting parties,done 4 interracial and now on a new project of bbw parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me.

I second that and add, I still get judged by the numbers I have, and some men think I want strings.

This is my category also. I wouldn't want to pick a guy up in a club for crappy d*unk sex, so it's also about getting sexually compatible partner's as well as not being judged."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The married ones who are upfront about it, cant accommodate but are happy to share the cost of hotel, travel is limited but will travel a bit further if it feels right.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! "
oh this is me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just no time to commit to a relationship due to work

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By *eanutButterJellyTimeCouple
over a year ago

the middle of the world

There are also people who treat the site like a dating site... and sometimes are disappointed when the person they've been chatting with just wants a quick shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too "

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Kinksters as well. Don't forget us. We are here too.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Coffee meets with sexy people.

Mines a latte lol x"

Skinny latte please too.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Kinksters as well. Don't forget us. We are here too. "

A definite must that kinksters be included!!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

The old fashioned keys all in the fruit bowl and pick out a key/partner category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles who just shag around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite"

Which words would they be? I'm not quite sure what you're getting at here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meets with sexy people. "

I love my coffee meets

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite"

Please don't hold back on our account. What would you call a woman who wants multiple partners but who wouldn't necessarily call themselves a swinger?

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me.

I second that and add, I still get judged by the numbers I have, and some men think I want strings.

This is my category also. I wouldn't want to pick a guy up in a club for crappy d*unk sex, so it's also about getting sexually compatible partner's as well as not being judged."

Count me in this one too x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Coffee meets with sexy people. "

never got my head around coffee.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Please don't hold back on our account. What would you call a woman who wants multiple partners but who wouldn't necessarily call themselves a swinger?"

Alive and wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Please don't hold back on our account. What would you call a woman who wants multiple partners but who wouldn't necessarily call themselves a swinger?"

Yes,do tell what my label is as I don't have a husband to swing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite"

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite"

I don't class myself as a swinger ,I enjoy threesomes sometimes like clubs have have mmmff but have to admit to enjoying one on one's the most with men I see regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me. "

Or perhaps I'm just a person who likes sex but who doesn't want a relationship. The scandal of it all!

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

A very honest lady.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Single men who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up girls in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me. "

Sorted that for you.

This is me.

Looking for the above without hurting anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my Fabites into two categories

1. No discernable pulse

2. Playing hard to get

I find I need to put in less effort with the former

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me. "

Funny innit how you can be dragged along to a swinging club by a man week after week,take dick all night from men you have barely spoken to and you're a nice swinger,yet a single woman who meets men one to one after getting to know them is looked upon as something less than a nice swinger. I won't put words into anyone's mouth as he hasn't told us yet what he would call us

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Women in relationships who play as a single with their partners consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cliques...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite"

No, I'm not a swinger. I make no secret of the fact that I would rather be in a monogamous relationship anyway, but until I can find the right person who lives near enough and wants the same I simply refuse to go without sex.

I think you'll find that's called pragmatism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me.

Funny innit how you can be dragged along to a swinging club by a man week after week,take dick all night from men you have barely spoken to and you're a nice swinger,yet a single woman who meets men one to one after getting to know them is looked upon as something less than a nice swinger. I won't put words into anyone's mouth as he hasn't told us yet what he would call us "

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite"

Let me guess ..... If a man has more than one sexual partner he becomes a

Legend

Stud

Super hero

It's not one rule for men one for women you can't define a woman as a "polite swinger" because she wants her choice in life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Many years ago when I was growing up I thought I was "odd" because I didn't view sex like my friends, I'd happily shag around doing what I wanted when I wanted, now the strange thing was I was referred to as "a good time girl" me er a slag or a slut(to my face) yet other girls got called it for doing the same. I struggled with this as not talking about sex in those days I thought there was something wrong with me, now growing up this affected me quite badly, it wasn't until I came across the word swingers that I realised there was lots of people like me who could have sex with lots of different people, it was only then I realised I wasn't alone.

I thought we had moved forward along way from referring to women as slags and whores for being sexually liberated its sad to see some still think like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a swinger, I am a free man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many years ago when I was growing up I thought I was "odd" because I didn't view sex like my friends, I'd happily shag around doing what I wanted when I wanted, now the strange thing was I was referred to as "a good time girl" me er a slag or a slut(to my face) yet other girls got called it for doing the same. I struggled with this as not talking about sex in those days I thought there was something wrong with me, now growing up this affected me quite badly, it wasn't until I came across the word swingers that I realised there was lots of people like me who could have sex with lots of different people, it was only then I realised I wasn't alone.

I thought we had moved forward along way from referring to women as slags and whores for being sexually liberated its sad to see some still think like that"

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

In the chat rooms you get 'keyboard swingers' who like to think they are swingers but never meet and hide behind the anonymity of the internet lol. also known as 'sofa swingers'

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me.

Funny innit how you can be dragged along to a swinging club by a man week after week,take dick all night from men you have barely spoken to and you're a nice swinger,yet a single woman who meets men one to one after getting to know them is looked upon as something less than a nice swinger. I won't put words into anyone's mouth as he hasn't told us yet what he would call us

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to."

And I'm sure it has nothing to do with the fact that some ladies don't respond to messages from men they are not attracted to.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the chat rooms you get 'keyboard swingers' who like to think they are swingers but never meet and hide behind the anonymity of the internet lol. also known as 'sofa swingers' "

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me.

Funny innit how you can be dragged along to a swinging club by a man week after week,take dick all night from men you have barely spoken to and you're a nice swinger,yet a single woman who meets men one to one after getting to know them is looked upon as something less than a nice swinger. I won't put words into anyone's mouth as he hasn't told us yet what he would call us

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to.

And I'm sure it has nothing to do with the fact that some ladies don't respond to messages from men they are not attracted to..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in the couples category looking for other couples only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer the social side really, met some great people. We also prefer gay pubs/clubs although niether of us are Gay/Bi

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm just a desperate man trying to fix his feelings with sordid sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just a desperate man trying to fix his feelings with sordid sex.. "

Is it working?

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

OK, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite.

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me.

Or perhaps I'm just a person who likes sex but who doesn't want a relationship. The scandal of it all!"

Everyone loves a bit of scandal!!

Making new special friends is what it's all about - ignore the stereotypical names as they mean nothing but are used to label someone only!

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I'm just a desperate man trying to fix his feelings with sordid sex.. "

But this isn't a sex-related site! It's here solely for chatting in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to."

You can get a dictionary at your local library. choose whatever you're happiest with.

As for spines, do you mean like the one that starts a thread last week and tells everyone she's about to leave the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! "

This sounds like my category. I enjoy clubbing too but not always for sex with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The forumiters

I'm in this category I think.

Single and not looking for anything "

That is me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And I'm sure it has nothing to do with the fact that some ladies don't respond to messages from men they are not attracted to..... "

This made me laugh.

If you're referring to me - the last time we spoke, over a year ago I believe - was when I told you I wasn't interested.

I didn't really expect a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if it counts as a catagory but I don't want a relationship but I like doing the things you can normally only do in a Relationship I like having people who we can steal a few hours or a few days of a different life than our own every so often.

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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are so many categories to put into the compendium. I think Shag has his own category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many categories to put into the compendium. I think Shag has his own category."

Horny horticulturalist?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

And I'm sure it has nothing to do with the fact that some ladies don't respond to messages from men they are not attracted to.....

This made me laugh.

If you're referring to me - the last time we spoke, over a year ago I believe - was when I told you I wasn't interested.

I didn't really expect a reply.

"

Nope, the profile shows that you mailed me and I never mailed you. You don't match my height criteria sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many categories to put into the compendium. I think Shag has his own category.

Horny horticulturalist?"

Yes or the haribo category lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gentleman fabster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to.

You can get a dictionary at your local library. choose whatever you're happiest with.

As for spines, do you mean like the one that starts a thread last week and tells everyone she's about to leave the site?

"

Is that relevant to this conversation? I've also publicly explained why I thought I needed to take a little break and why I came back. I'm a pretty direct person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to.

You can get a dictionary at your local library. choose whatever you're happiest with.

As for spines, do you mean like the one that starts a thread last week and tells everyone she's about to leave the site?

Is that relevant to this conversation? I've also publicly explained why I thought I needed to take a little break and why I came back. I'm a pretty direct person."

Yeah but then you go and hide in the land of darkness, do you have any idea how much cab fare to mount doom is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to.

You can get a dictionary at your local library. choose whatever you're happiest with.

As for spines, do you mean like the one that starts a thread last week and tells everyone she's about to leave the site?

Is that relevant to this conversation? I've also publicly explained why I thought I needed to take a little break and why I came back. I'm a pretty direct person.

Yeah but then you go and hide in the land of darkness, do you have any idea how much cab fare to mount doom is?"

I'll send a ring wraith free of charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't believe he has the spine to directly state what he was alluding to.

You can get a dictionary at your local library. choose whatever you're happiest with.

As for spines, do you mean like the one that starts a thread last week and tells everyone she's about to leave the site?

Is that relevant to this conversation? I've also publicly explained why I thought I needed to take a little break and why I came back. I'm a pretty direct person.

Yeah but then you go and hide in the land of darkness, do you have any idea how much cab fare to mount doom is?

I'll send a ring wraith free of charge "

. Not my ring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos."

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died "

I don't quite see how that works, puppy dies so delete profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died

I don't quite see how that works, puppy dies so delete profile?"

Do you have dogs? If not you will never understand.

It was very upsetting and I couldn't and didn't want to be on fab at that time.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

The type that wish they had found out about this a lot sooner and having lots of fun whilst single.

Isn't sure if they would want a swinging relationship if the opportunity arises. But then doesn't want to give up on their own fun to pursue a vanilla relationship.

That's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died "

I've only just sussed who you are!

Hope you're feeling a bit better now. I was sorry to hear about your puppy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The type that wish they had found out about this a lot sooner and having lots of fun whilst single.

Isn't sure if they would want a swinging relationship if the opportunity arises. But then doesn't want to give up on their own fun to pursue a vanilla relationship.

That's me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died

I've only just sussed who you are!

Hope you're feeling a bit better now. I was sorry to hear about your puppy xx"

Thankyou, and thankyou for the message passed on by Howard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died

I don't quite see how that works, puppy dies so delete profile?

Do you have dogs? If not you will never understand.

It was very upsetting and I couldn't and didn't want to be on fab at that time. "

No but I've lost friends and family members but at no point did my brain go, quick delete random social networking accounts!!!

I just didn't log on till I wanted to again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's no ancient people on here there all sexy in there on way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died

I don't quite see how that works, puppy dies so delete profile?

Do you have dogs? If not you will never understand.

It was very upsetting and I couldn't and didn't want to be on fab at that time.

No but I've lost friends and family members but at no point did my brain go, quick delete random social networking accounts!!!

I just didn't log on till I wanted to again"

Good for you. Just as well we are not all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the yoyo swingers? In and out, profile one minute then unlos.

Bit like me! Although I stay longer than a week

And last time i left was because my 1 week old puppy died

I've only just sussed who you are!

Hope you're feeling a bit better now. I was sorry to hear about your puppy xx

Thankyou, and thankyou for the message passed on by Howard x"

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London


"Single women who want NSA sex without being judged for picking up guys in nightclubs. Especially ancient ones like me. "

Lucky me there are still girls who do not care in clubs...very rare though. This world is wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meets with sexy people.

Mines a latte lol x

Skinny latte please too."

I'll get a tray and some cookies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere between this


"Just no time to commit to a relationship due to work "

And this


"

There are also people who treat the site like a dating site... and sometimes are disappointed when the person they've been chatting with just wants a quick shag "

Cant have a relationship as have very little time to put into it just now but would like a little more than one off fucks! struggle to find a fwb as opposed to a fuck buddy that wants to turn up at a moments notice or shag and go

Little bit dissapointed as i thought there must surely be others out there who want a middle ground

Oh and if theres a category for people exploring voyeurism and exhibitionism count me in that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ones who aren't actually into swinging, but want to find a few good friends for a lot of good sex! oh this is me too

Why would you need more than one partner, if you're not a swinger?

Ok, suppose there are a lot of words we can use for this type of behaviour - swinger is probably most polite

Slag, slut, village bike? Is that what you're getting at? If so well that's me.

Funny innit how you can be dragged along to a swinging club by a man week after week,take dick all night from men you have barely spoken to and you're a nice swinger,yet a single woman who meets men one to one after getting to know them is looked upon as something less than a nice swinger. I won't put words into anyone's mouth as he hasn't told us yet what he would call us "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that think its a good idea but run at the mere mention of a meet, then return on a new profile and moan they can't get a meet "

Dreamers and fantasists...

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By *eonardoLoveMan
over a year ago

London

I treat this as dating site. Knowing each other before having sex is much better

...not essential but better.

I am not interested in having a lot of partners, just good ones.

So if there is the occasion, I will take it and have a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rugby world cup and sex at same time viewers ,form an orderly queue and put names on list and if you have apartments with balconies overlooking ground even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aint a swinger tbh just want a regular guy to bring out the bad girl in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmm under Trademark dont make me just lie there like a sack of spuds hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coffee meets with sexy people. "

What about us mingers? Charity coffee?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

single who likes being single and explore themselves through there intimate encounters and journeys with others.i call that poly...a middle ground of repeat meets at mutual convenience..with some threesome and more some fun when the opportunity arises at clubs and parties

i dont want to be exclusive, i can maintain relationships based on friendship, trust and sexual chemistry.. has it been insinuated i am a whore?..yes..do i give a shit..no..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single who likes being single and explore themselves through there intimate encounters and journeys with others.i call that poly...a middle ground of repeat meets at mutual convenience..with some threesome and more some fun when the opportunity arises at clubs and parties

i dont want to be exclusive, i can maintain relationships based on friendship, trust and sexual chemistry.. has it been insinuated i am a whore?..yes..do i give a shit..no.."

hey we are all whores in one way or another as long as we are nice and affect no-one in a negative way who cares

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"single who likes being single and explore themselves through there intimate encounters and journeys with others.i call that poly...a middle ground of repeat meets at mutual convenience..with some threesome and more some fun when the opportunity arises at clubs and parties

i dont want to be exclusive, i can maintain relationships based on friendship, trust and sexual chemistry.. has it been insinuated i am a whore?..yes..do i give a shit..no..hey we are all whores in one way or another as long as we are nice and affect no-one in a negative way who cares "

people who choose to take offence at me not becoming exclusive will do that whether i want them to or not, being nice wont stop them feeling that way..i am not malicious , just truthful. at least i am nice by being truthful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single who likes being single and explore themselves through there intimate encounters and journeys with others.i call that poly...a middle ground of repeat meets at mutual convenience..with some threesome and more some fun when the opportunity arises at clubs and parties

i dont want to be exclusive, i can maintain relationships based on friendship, trust and sexual chemistry.. has it been insinuated i am a whore?..yes..do i give a shit..no..hey we are all whores in one way or another as long as we are nice and affect no-one in a negative way who cares

people who choose to take offence at me not becoming exclusive will do that whether i want them to or not, being nice wont stop them feeling that way..i am not malicious , just truthful. at least i am nice by being truthful x"

hey Suzy I didn't take offence at you not being exclusive ,I was slightly miffed at you not answering two innocuous questions ,I am not a fan of your lifestyle but I don't have a problem with you as a person you seem lovely maybe a touch eccentric but hey so am I

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We're just here for sex with other couples and for Mr when bored at work xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single who likes being single and explore themselves through there intimate encounters and journeys with others.i call that poly...a middle ground of repeat meets at mutual convenience..with some threesome and more some fun when the opportunity arises at clubs and parties

i dont want to be exclusive, i can maintain relationships based on friendship, trust and sexual chemistry.. has it been insinuated i am a whore?..yes..do i give a shit..no..hey we are all whores in one way or another as long as we are nice and affect no-one in a negative way who cares

people who choose to take offence at me not becoming exclusive will do that whether i want them to or not, being nice wont stop them feeling that way..i am not malicious , just truthful. at least i am nice by being truthful x hey Suzy I didn't take offence at you not being exclusive ,I was slightly miffed at you not answering two innocuous questions ,I am not a fan of your lifestyle but I don't have a problem with you as a person you seem lovely maybe a touch eccentric but hey so am I "

Are you here to make friends or have sex?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"single who likes being single and explore themselves through there intimate encounters and journeys with others.i call that poly...a middle ground of repeat meets at mutual convenience..with some threesome and more some fun when the opportunity arises at clubs and parties

i dont want to be exclusive, i can maintain relationships based on friendship, trust and sexual chemistry.. has it been insinuated i am a whore?..yes..do i give a shit..no..hey we are all whores in one way or another as long as we are nice and affect no-one in a negative way who cares

people who choose to take offence at me not becoming exclusive will do that whether i want them to or not, being nice wont stop them feeling that way..i am not malicious , just truthful. at least i am nice by being truthful x hey Suzy I didn't take offence at you not being exclusive ,I was slightly miffed at you not answering two innocuous questions ,I am not a fan of your lifestyle but I don't have a problem with you as a person you seem lovely maybe a touch eccentric but hey so am I "

i wasnt referring to you..

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not a fan of labels so don't really call myself a swinger or anything else comes to that but I've been around long enough to spot bullshit when its around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couple were its actually the female on here doing the chatting and messaging. is that a category ?

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