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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When using the loo for number 2's ?

We stayed in a pod hotel in Amsterdam last weekend.

That meant that rather than having a bathroom, the shower and the loo were in pods in the room

Despite being together over two years and being more than intimate in that time, I could not use the loo in the room and instead went down 4 floors and used one in reception.

So, sorry to ask whilst ur likely just settling down to ur dinner, but can you use the loo with your OH in the room ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gawd no need privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd get stage fright. Privacy is essential for such activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my ex for 6 years and I couldn't have dealt with that. Some things are best left private. Also if we were showering together I'd make him get out before I did any shaving!

I'll pee in front of my girl mates no problem though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant even wee with ppl present,or even outside the cubicle.so no way on earth I cud do number twos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know the romance is over when one of you can stand at the sink and brush their teeth while the other one sits on the loo for a number 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been together almost 10 years and I still lock the door for a number 2. Mentally, I can't even handle a bathroom without a lock.

-Courtney

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

No way could I go to the toilet in front of him, I like privacy.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wouldn't bother me, maybe not on a first date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was kind of a shame because the hotel and the room were otherwise great.

It wasn't the cheapest option either at €142 a night.

I thought it'd be something different, I thought I'd be OK, but when it came down to it ... nah, was never gonna happen

Still, we had a great weekend and I guess that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the Nike advert says

Just do it

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple
over a year ago

North West

We visited Singapore in 2010 and our hotel bathroom was a glass cabinet in the corner of the room with a shower and toilet in it ... We were mortified! Had only been together for 12 months and absolutely no way I could go - good job we were only staying 24 hours.

Now after 2 years of marriage and one baby later ... Different story! We do prefer privacy but if you gotta go you gotta go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wanted privacy but I have to say when the bestie is here that fine line tends to get crossed and neither of us feel uncomfortable which is a biggie for me

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I was away last year and my Dad was with me. We shared a room and in one of the hotels the bathroom was a glass thing... not really what you want whilst in a twin room with your parent!

There was a lot of loitering in corridors that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you had a poo in the middle of reception?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I have no problems with doing either in front of my partner - he finds it very refreshing, but I don't think he means the smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex would just come in the bathroom and use the loo while I was in the shower. Used to really wind me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer privacy but we've been together that long we have definitely shit in front of each other at least once. Now in a house with two toilets, no more of my relaxing baths interrupted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To begin with yes. I've been in 2 long term relationships and had no problem with chatting to me at the same time

A friend of mine had not even farted in front of her boyfriend of x amount of years! That too much effort for me. Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 23 years nothing is sacred. It's more of a rarity to have bathroom time alone than to share with one or more family member. If I insisted on privacy I'd never go!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

YES! It's why I remain single. I hated it when my partners would just stroll in, even when it was just a pee.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am used to the dog being in there with me. He comes and sits between my legs when am in the loo at home

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Am used to the dog being in there with me. He comes and sits between my legs when am in the loo at home "

I used to hate it when my old cat used to do that but it was the way I could catch her to take her to the vet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Am used to the dog being in there with me. He comes and sits between my legs when am in the loo at home

I used to hate it when my old cat used to do that but it was the way I could catch her to take her to the vet. "

If he was let he'd be in the shower with me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the bathroom door has never been shut in my house

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It was kind of a shame because the hotel and the room were otherwise great.

It wasn't the cheapest option either at €142 a night.

I thought it'd be something different, I thought I'd be OK, but when it came down to it ... nah, was never gonna happen

Still, we had a great weekend and I guess that's all that matters "

That was cheap - the city was overrun because of a huge conference etc.

As for no 2s, I'd rather not and it isn't my style. If you're rough camping, there's still space to keep between you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was kind of a shame because the hotel and the room were otherwise great.

It wasn't the cheapest option either at €142 a night.

I thought it'd be something different, I thought I'd be OK, but when it came down to it ... nah, was never gonna happen

Still, we had a great weekend and I guess that's all that matters

That was cheap - the city was overrun because of a huge conference etc.

As for no 2s, I'd rather not and it isn't my style. If you're rough camping, there's still space to keep between you."

It was half an hour of the centre by tram. I guess because of the marathon and the cycling event that was in too prices were up

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If I gotta go, I gotta go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no my shit smells too good. I'd have to charge for the fragrance

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When I was in a couple we both regularly had a piss while the other one was in the bath, but no 2's were a definite no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I like privacy, doesn't matter how long I've known someone unless it's an absolute emergency I don't want anyone else in the toilet with me!

I've shared hotel rooms before with colleagues and its a bloody mare that I can't go for a no 2 knowing they're in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Privacy please my functions get stage fright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my little personal sanctuary

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I hate using urinals for a wee.......always if I can use cubicle

Which is odd as I will wank and have sex in public

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