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How many messages do you send a day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been chatting to a few guys who have complaining about getting no interest from members on here, I asked one how many messages he sent, he said about 20 on a daily basis

I'll send one or two a day which I thought was enough, cause by the end of the week, my sent box was a river of yellow (unread messages) so I just deleted them, so what's the most you have sent in one day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to a few guys who have complaining about getting no interest from members on here, I asked one how many messages he sent, he said about 20 on a daily basis

I'll send one or two a day which I thought was enough, cause by the end of the week, my sent box was a river of yellow (unread messages) so I just deleted them, so what's the most you have sent in one day?"
600

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't include replies just messages off my own back the most in a day is maybe 12 xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends who it is.....

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

These days 0- maybe 1 if someone really really grabs my attention

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

None at the moment unless you count replies to people we already know but we aren't meeting currently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely message.maybe two or three a week,not including replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry, talking about intro messages, not conversations with one member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends sent loads this morning as in a few conversations with a few different friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just send replies, dont send off the cuff messages anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends sent loads this morning as in a few conversations with a few different friends.

"
Awwww I'm not a friend then ,gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, talking about intro messages, not conversations with one member."

Not many as I usually wait till I get a message which thinking about it is bloody lazy ...goes to find sexy men and women to message I may be gone awhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intro messages about 2 or 3 per month for me.

Although I get the theory about the more arrows you fire the more likely you are to hit

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Not many at all from me, count on one hand how many I send in a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't send any intro messages anymore. Just because we have people we are happy meeting (unless someone who messages us catches our fancy).

When we did send intro messages, maybe 7-9 a week?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 with the intent of a meet with a new person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't send intro messages fullstop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't send intro messages fullstop "

I do cheeky sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't send intro messages fullstop

I do cheeky sod "
give me a name so can confirm it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't include replies just messages off my own back the most in a day is maybe 12 xx"

0 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I've been completely sucked into the forum and nothing else now. I've only been here 2 weeks as well,not what I signed up for but hey ho !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fat "zero"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't send any intro messages anymore. Just because we have people we are happy meeting (unless someone who messages us catches our fancy).

When we did send intro messages, maybe 7-9 a week?

-Courtney"

I'm still waiting for mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't send intro messages fullstop "

You know that's not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send intro messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can message me frist anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we are out looking for fun we may send a couple but other than that , none

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never used to send intro messages but do now, not loads just when I like the look of someone, sent quite a few to start with now maybe a couple a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None unless it is a reply to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only sent 1 ever x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I only ever reply, though occasionally I might wink or fab a pic if I see something I really like....

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We sent 5 in our first week, since then just replies, and even these can take a while for us both to get around to.

I find myself sending apologies for forum posts, or clarifications if I don't want stuff aired publicly.

If someone was sending 20 introductory messages a day, I'd wonder if their initial short-listing needed improving.

Mr ddc

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Been chatting to a few guys who have complaining about getting no interest from members on here, I asked one how many messages he sent, he said about 20 on a daily basis

I'll send one or two a day which I thought was enough, cause by the end of the week, my sent box was a river of yellow (unread messages) so I just deleted them, so what's the most you have sent in one day?"

I usually never message women/couples etc off here usually I just talk to people in the chat/forums etc and the only lady I talk with regularly via PM is a friend not in real life just off here...

as for the rest I rarely message some one first via PM unless I know them prior or had some form of interaction etc.. in the past once in a while it's usually been a woman who messages me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't send intro messages fullstop "

Yes they do and OP depends how horny I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't send intro messages."
see what I've been saying and most in fact 96.5% don't and most newbie women who receive an intro message from a guy don't reply at the rate of98.2%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't send intro messages.see what I've been saying and most in fact 96.5% don't and most newbie women who receive an intro message from a guy don't reply at the rate of98.2% "

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"None. I've been completely sucked into the forum and nothing else now. I've only been here 2 weeks as well,not what I signed up for but hey ho !"
so what did you "sign up" for?

(I don't recall signing up for anything but I did join a few years ago)

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Intro messages, not something I do really - sounds a bit contrived.

However, If someone sparks my interest, either profile or forum post then I'll message to chat.

Don't check read messages so only matters if they reply. I get lots of no reply too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most days I send no messages at all. I've once sent a first message. I thanked them for liking my photos. However that's been it. The rest of the time I only reply

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Usually only one or two (to people that I've never messaged before) but now that I'm off work for awhile with little else to do, I'm sending @ 5 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sporadic really some weeks none. However today I have sent 5 and currently 0 to 5 ratio. If only I had boobs and a vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont send any messages any more, gets abit boring in the searches, however I do send lots of msgs via the forum and chat to forumiters in pm, not sure the total if msgs but its many

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I don't send intro messages because I have hundreds of people who have messaged me 1st who I never got around to replying to don't want to add to the to-do list

I did send one message this week to a forumite who asked a question on his status though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how many guys I find I want to introduce myself to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days it's one or two others can be up to 40/50 I guess depending on my working movements etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We sent 5 in our first week, since then just replies, and even these can take a while for us both to get around to.

I find myself sending apologies for forum posts, or clarifications if I don't want stuff aired publicly.

If someone was sending 20 introductory messages a day, I'd wonder if their initial short-listing needed improving.

Mr ddc"

When looking for something specific I'd send about 40-50 messages. Most people don't bother replying and of the ones that do, many wouldn't lead anywhere. Life's too short to piss about with all that.

I don't blame guys for getting fed up of it.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Maybe 2 a month, when we get the urge, we don't like to send too many, otherwise our outbox will just fill up with unread messages.....depressingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None. I've been completely sucked into the forum and nothing else now. I've only been here 2 weeks as well,not what I signed up for but hey ho !so what did you "sign up" for?

(I don't recall signing up for anything but I did join a few years ago)"

Loose term mate lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average, a message to a new person maybe once a week ... if I'm in conversation then it can flow indefinitely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I sent out 23 over the past 2 days, not one was read or if it was it was while I was offline and they marked it as unread before I logged back on again, but cleared them all out my sent box before, having a dry spell at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't send intro messages fullstop "

You're right on that one. I dont, some men are ignorant on here. Delete, no reply and they say women are rude.

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