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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... " hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() hi witchy,,yeah thinking is dangerous, couldnt agree more, tell me though would you have done it, if you hadnt thought about it? | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() are you an over thinker courtney? | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() Yes, yes I am. And I drag others down with me ![]() | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I haven't been dated often Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha Feel free to bring it on lol xx" how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() I thought about answering your question then realised I should be resting from thinking, then rrealised I was thinking about resting from thinking, the en realised I was thinking about thinking about resting from thinking, then thought fuck it and pressed..... | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() what would happen if you went 'fuck it' to every thought for a whole day?xx | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() Post message ![]() | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I haven't been dated often Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha Feel free to bring it on lol xx how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx" I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to. I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx | |||
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"Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you! Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare!" ooohthe going back/ going forward challenge..interesting..do you feel you got everything you could from it last time?.. some run towards things and some run back..which is this for you..and big hugs back Mr PB..mmmmmm nice xx ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier." Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x" I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times. As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile). | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() We'll find out cuz that's what I'm doing today ![]() | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() so write something else...write some poetry, a line of anything..that springs from your psyche...might be quite interesting to see your flow mr witchy ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it " I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier." hello lovely nell.. well im trusting that you express yourself here today, thanks for being here.. let your fingers do the talking..big hugs to you and your impending freedom of expression..xx ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I find looking like you are thinking is very useful...people leave you alone. I dont go as far as actually knowing anything..then you get asked tricky questions ![]() If I'm deep in thought I get told "cheer up! It might never happen!" I need to practice a new thinking face..... | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I haven't been dated often Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha Feel free to bring it on lol xx how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to. I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx" what do you think about people who say they dont think about things..and do you like being out of your comfort zone? what happens if you get taken there? x | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx" Your regular little cilla aren't you? | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act." That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind..... What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss. I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() I wrote some alternative lyrics to a song on the cheapest item of clothing you've bought, earlier ![]() | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) " good afternoon miss barker ![]() | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I haven't been dated often Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha Feel free to bring it on lol xx how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to. I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx what do you think about people who say they dont think about things..and do you like being out of your comfort zone? what happens if you get taken there? x" As yet no one has dared me something to take me that at out of my comfort zone so I don't know to be fair OP.... As for those who say they don't think that's completely their choice I will always have a little think as to how it might effect me if it goes wrong due to work etc | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it " awesome x what made you come to that conclusion? xx | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() Big fan of naughty and flirtatious truth or dare games indeed | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it awesome x what made you come to that conclusion? xx" Sitting behind emails in FAB as a single guy when I first joined was quite a daunting thing.... Decided to go to a club and actually speak to people simply as that if you want something in life as for it if they say no what have you lost..... | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times. As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile)." hey flirt man.. hehe do you see it as a competition thing then? ahh the joys of past experience colouring the procedure into the unknown...other people influencing action..interesting xx they make you, they stop you..... | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() Afternoon Suzy ....it does indeed excite me , light relief after a Challenging few months ahead is very much required ! ![]() | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() most excellent challenge..i hope you flow with us this afternoon..xx | |||
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"I find looking like you are thinking is very useful...people leave you alone. I dont go as far as actually knowing anything..then you get asked tricky questions ![]() the trickster..fabulous.. and then you get sucked in?..is that how you see it? xx | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind..... What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss. I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx" I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously. | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() I'll keep that in mind when I'm in and around Reading lol xx | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx" being thought provoking as usual I see ![]() | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() Poetry? Humid seal of soft affections, Tenderest pledge of future bliss, Dearest tie of young connections, Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss! Speaking silence, dumb confession, Passion's birth, and infant's play, Dove-like fondness, chaste concession, Glowing dawn of future day! Sorrowing joy, Adieu's last action, (Lingering lips must now disjoin), What words can ever speak affection So thrilling and sincere as thine! One of my favourites... | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() I dare you to take a trip up to Leeds! ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act." yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x" Spot on xx | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx Your regular little cilla aren't you?" hey liddy. i wouldnt know, i have very little self reflection.. i get the urge i act..i find life fun that way,and amazing and beautiful and magical... not taking on board conformity or expectations of what others might think of me.. that challenge i have successfully completed in life..thank goodness xx | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx" Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind..... What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss. I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx" ![]() | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() mmmm getting creative..is that what a dare is? mr witchy..i must go peek later xx | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I haven't been dated often Do I enjoy the challenge..... I'd say LOVE the challenge haha Feel free to bring it on lol xx how does challenge excite you?..and you never know, thread magic is about and waiting to be felt xx I love the idea of how other people's minds work.... Things that enter their mind which excites them and may turn them on to a degree to. I'll always be honest if it's out of my comfort zone I'll say Let's see what thread magic crops up in my inbox then xx what do you think about people who say they dont think about things..and do you like being out of your comfort zone? what happens if you get taken there? x As yet no one has dared me something to take me that at out of my comfort zone so I don't know to be fair OP.... As for those who say they don't think that's completely their choice I will always have a little think as to how it might effect me if it goes wrong due to work etc " you have rules? | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence." You have to learn about others and their body language and quickly if unsure approach with caution lol | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() me too... | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() Well all you have to do is ask LOL I'm game xx | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it awesome x what made you come to that conclusion? xx Sitting behind emails in FAB as a single guy when I first joined was quite a daunting thing.... Decided to go to a club and actually speak to people simply as that if you want something in life as for it if they say no what have you lost..... " yes i didnt join here first i went to a club first and heard about this place while i was there..that was my challenge..launching myself onto the scene as a single...took some processing... | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence." I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me. | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() ![]() then please , feel free..all about freedom here xx enjoy the opportunity..x | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me." I still look at women and think they are well out of my league too but you never actually know so will still send a message if it gets deleted move on. I was the same a few years back it took me to a bad place as it felt like harsh rejection but hey I've had a lot of good times on here so enjoy it | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind..... What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss. I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously." love you Nell xxx ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me." I absolutely understand that, but I didn't rank people on looks and popularity but on intellect. I got over that pretty quickly and started messaging. It's worked out very nicely! ![]() | |||
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"Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you! Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare! ooohthe going back/ going forward challenge..interesting..do you feel you got everything you could from it last time?.. some run towards things and some run back..which is this for you..and big hugs back Mr PB..mmmmmm nice xx ![]() I didn't last time, that's why if I do go back it needs to be completely different - that's the challenge - It would have to be going back to run forward if you know what I mean? | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() hi miss Innocent...what does it do, for you?..good to see you..nice of you to join us xx ![]() | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx being thought provoking as usual I see ![]() hehe well at least you dont see it as just being 'provoking'...hehe good to see you honey..do you like being provoked? x ![]() | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() oooh you still havent found, what your looking for? (im listening to U2, and it seemed apt) xx | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times. As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile). hey flirt man.. hehe do you see it as a competition thing then? ahh the joys of past experience colouring the procedure into the unknown...other people influencing action..interesting xx they make you, they stop you....." I used to be a very good road runner and cross country skier so I'm ultra competitive - so a dare becomes a completion especially if others are given the same dare too; even if it goes against my nature - fortunately it doesn't happen very often these days ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence." being honest i feel thats a life long thing .....a life lesson if you will..one long term dare..like loving... | |||
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"Your post made me think of truth or dare for some reason ;0) good afternoon miss barker ![]() are you ever willing to fall in love again? | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me." amazing journey... ive had the same over the last 6 months and its continuing...being on my own for 5 years and being a hermit..its been a huge challenge to accept any attention at all.. | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx being thought provoking as usual I see ![]() ![]() is that provoked or poked? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me. I still look at women and think they are well out of my league too but you never actually know so will still send a message if it gets deleted move on. I was the same a few years back it took me to a bad place as it felt like harsh rejection but hey I've had a lot of good times on here so enjoy it " do we learn to be more open or more closed? | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind..... What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss. I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously. love you Nell xxx ![]() Love you too Suzy, for facilitating these discussions.xxx | |||
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"Afternoon Suzy - sorry you've lost your voice - PB hugs for you! Hmm - I'm possibly daring to go back to something I left over a year ago. Will it be better, more fulfilling... Dunno, this is my dare! ooohthe going back/ going forward challenge..interesting..do you feel you got everything you could from it last time?.. some run towards things and some run back..which is this for you..and big hugs back Mr PB..mmmmmm nice xx ![]() i totally get you.. never seek the same experience twice as it never happens, rather build towards a new one, to learn and experience more things that you like, or things you would enjoy the challenge of....there is the seen and the unseen and unknown in all things xx | |||
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"I was asked something yesterday as a dare and enjoyed it a lot actually..... hey swinging....welcome..do you get dared often? do you enjoy the challenge?x I hate being dared because I just have to it - it has got me into trouble at times. As for bottling it on fab; I very rarely do this - if I do, it's normally about revealing my marital status as it can sometimes provoke a lot of negative comments (even though it is in my profile). hey flirt man.. hehe do you see it as a competition thing then? ahh the joys of past experience colouring the procedure into the unknown...other people influencing action..interesting xx they make you, they stop you..... I used to be a very good road runner and cross country skier so I'm ultra competitive - so a dare becomes a completion especially if others are given the same dare too; even if it goes against my nature - fortunately it doesn't happen very often these days ![]() what it your 'nature' ? can you define it? x | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() very nice...would you allow your deep to be consumed by a woman's ocean once more? | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx being thought provoking as usual I see ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() most definately its not interupting anything..go with the flow...what would you like to know?.. ![]() | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. That's understandable I think it's key to know a little about someone in an ideal world but never be afraid to speak your mind..... What's the worst that can happen.... Someone doesn't like it oh well their loss. I used to be terrible wouldn't say boo to a goose whilst I am not in anyway shape or form rude or nasty I'm flirtatious cheeky and will show it xx I'm much the same now but it's been a very long and difficult journey. Being on fab has helped enormously. love you Nell xxx ![]() i felt it today i acted, with neither expectation or intent..just to hold space invite and wonder...xx | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() I would love to!! | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me." You're one of the nicest people on here xxxx | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What makes you think it isn't? ![]() | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i didn't think at all..i just asked the question from the 'flavour' of the poem .... | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Informed by experience but neither allegorical or autobiographical.... Just a stream of consciousness brain fart ![]() | |||
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"Beautiful Poem Suzy xx" thankyou xx | |||
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"Beautiful Poem Suzy xx Seconded ![]() thankyou xx | |||
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"All too dangerous. I did some thinking yesterday so resting today ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i dont feel consciousness.is a brain fart..do you? is the brain and the mind different? x | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() do you mind anyone thinking differently about them? | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() not at all. I get a build up of linguistic gas and ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() in the spirit of truth or dare.. is that a ruse? | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx" We have nicked named today - freaky Friday. And I do wish you hadn't used the word dare, as I find it difficult to refuse one ?? | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx" We have nicked named today - freaky Friday. And I do wish you hadn't used the word dare, as I find it difficult to refuse one ?? | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() I am not a fool all of the time I just like to play the Fool ![]() | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() I'd love to come to your birthday party lol Used to live a lot closer to you than I do now too haha | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() why? | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() both are being held at jaydees.. threads for both are in the event forum and are mentioned on the webite.. if you can make it, you would be very welcome xx | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll check the date and see what my plans are xx | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx We have nicked named today - freaky Friday. And I do wish you hadn't used the word dare, as I find it difficult to refuse one ?? " hi handbage, good to see you xx really? ok so as a dare, i dare you to tell us, what youd like us to dare you, to do..;) xx | |||
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"Daring to speak, that's my biggest setback in life. Too afraid the speak out and say what I really think/feel/want. The safety net of a keyboard and a screen makes self-expression much easier. Agreed easy to hide behind a keyboard but every now and again it's good to have a little bit of a daring attitude You get one shot at life don't regret a minute of it I'm learning. I have aspergers so it's a little more complicated than just being shy, but in the last couple of years I've been finding my voice, and I'm daring to act. yes..but valuing yourself as an individual just as you are, we all have quirks about us, that's what makes us individuals, and ultimately lovable don't you think? x Spot on xx Definitely. I do value myself. It's not lack of self-esteem that has been my hurdle in learning how to interract with confidence. I think a lot of people on here (initially at least) put up an internal ranking system with everyone else..there is the classic he/she is out of my league. It is a weird sensation when you finally break through that reserve and go...actually, fuck it. I am going to message XYZ. I like them, what do I have to lose? I was in a really bad place a year ago, but being active on the forums has helped me be the person I always was but never showed to anyone. Its an odd sensation for me to realise that people actually like me and some ladies who I would never have dared speak to a year ago are interested in me. I absolutely understand that, but I didn't rank people on looks and popularity but on intellect. I got over that pretty quickly and started messaging. It's worked out very nicely! ![]() Yes, if in doubt go for the lowest common denominator and talk about funny shaped cocks haha... Glad it is working out for you ![]() | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I find it amusing. It provides an escape from the more serious things I need to accomplish in life. I think laughter is one of life's great healers. It's also a form of self-protection. | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yes. thank you.. i love you for sharing that x it works, especially if others dont want to seem pushy you know xx | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Will need to check for a hotel too lol bit of a trek for me lol | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() see the clubs profile name on the event thread.. they may have a room still free at the venue for £20 a night..or they may let you camp there for nothing if you told them your circumstances..they do , do that. for your information i will be there both the friday and saturday night that weekend..although the party is on saturday.any issues come find me on the forums or post on the event thread xx | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() no im suggesting that playing the fool when others want to touch underneath that, can lead them to back off, when they dont want to be pushy with you x | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() Had a meeting at work and have lost track of the thread! Where is Jaydees? I know I could look but I won't so better to ask ![]() | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Your an angel thank you xx | |||
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"Wow! This is all a bit deep! Have a good Friday everyone x" Lol lets lighten it up then people..... I still think that some lovely people should see how daring I'll be haha | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() nr st neots courtney xx a little way from bedford..just off of A1 for folkk coming from the north or down from A14 from east or west xx | |||
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"I nearly always say yes to a dare ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() you are welcome x | |||
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"Wow! This is all a bit deep! Have a good Friday everyone x" interesting it diverted that way.. some engage and some dont wish to, such is the choice this friday it seems.. xx | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i would play the fool less if I was.interested in meeting people on here. I am not looking to attract that kind of interest to be honest, So I guess as a repellant it works well. | |||
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"All my poems are brain farts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yes it does xx good method of choice of self protection xx | |||
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"Pops in with some flowers n choccy for suzy xx" thank you honey.. thats really sweet of you..i appreciate you and your input, did you know that xx | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx" I'm daring to do something for the first time later this evening. | |||
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"i know its not thursday;) its friday, but i couldnt resist a little social gathering this week.. as some of you know, ive lost my voice this week, it got me thinking of how many people bottle it, then wanting to ask a question, write a message, or basically, wanting to say hi to someone.. so this weeks friendly online thread, in honour of losing my voice, is all about that, daring to think, daring to speak and daring to act... lets see what we all dare to do today,or discuss what we dont... keeping it fun, flirty and good natured xx I'm daring to do something for the first time later this evening." then i truly hope you enjoy it xxx | |||
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