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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How I feel about parties that you pay for specifying no Asians

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pass It by and go and find a party from which I'm not excluded.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'd find a party I wasn't excluded from or the people I was interested in weren't excluded from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

offer them a lil extra and maybe they`ll let you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand it with individuals but for a commercial party I find it a bit wrong. I would avoid such parties even though I'm not Asian.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"offer them a lil extra and maybe they`ll let you "

I'm not Asian

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.

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You're such a single woman!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.

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Lol that solves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.

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Me neither !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but yeah it does seem a bit off. cant imagine it would be everyone attending s preference

why not just let everyone in and avoid who you wanna avoid

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.

You're such a single woman! "

I think it's weird. I'm happy to pay my way going to a club etc. but these commercial parties are just run by some wanker exploiting people to make some cash. They have no business dictating who can/cannot go based on race.

If I go to house parties I'd never turn up empty handed (cause that's how I was brought up) and any socials that need a contribution to venue or food then I'm more than happy to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all types of guys so it wouldn't bother me if any particular type was excluded. I don't seek sex with a certain type of guy at any time, i'm actually offended if people use me as some kind of fetish as well.

Some people don't find asians attractive, no big deal. Same as i don't expect everyone to fancy me, i can still find people who do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to a party I had to pay for.

You're such a single woman!

I think it's weird. I'm happy to pay my way going to a club etc. but these commercial parties are just run by some wanker exploiting people to make some cash. They have no business dictating who can/cannot go based on race.

If I go to house parties I'd never turn up empty handed (cause that's how I was brought up) and any socials that need a contribution to venue or food then I'm more than happy to pay.

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I agree with you, really. We've only been to one house party. They did have a fee for entry, but they provided some food and drinks (non alcoholic). But we much prefer clubs anyway.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd not go:

1, tarring any group of people with one brush is naff to the extreme and I've found the percentage of peeps who are of Asian heritage and are lovely to be just the same as anyone else.

2, I think paying for a party is also naff, unless it is just a reasonable aid to expenses

3, I think things should be inclusive, not exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.

I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"How I feel about parties that you pay for specifying no Asians

Thoughts?"

let them have it that way if they want leggy, just go to a party where it does not say that and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.

I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. "

killing kittens??

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.

I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. "

Is that a euphemism?

I think if you're having a private party you should invite whomever you choose.

But for a commercial event to specify an exclusion is not only rude but most likely against the law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.

I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to. "

Why did they call it that? I keep imaging they're crushing little kitties.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Depends on who is hosting the party, as if it's a business, they might find it illegal.

But, for private parties, who the host invites is up to them and guests can choose if the guest list/types attracts them. We are all definitely allowed to decide who we wish to associate/play with, as the numerous 'no asians or x category desired' threads illustrate.

If a party is hosted by someone privately my preference is for contributions to be there to cover costs, or include taking your contribution of food and wine, unless accommodation has been paid for, as an additional fee by the host. For licensed sex venues, such as clubs, they already have their business overheads and obviously will charge some/all, depending on admission policies.

Otherwise, parties that are organised may do exclusions behind the scenes and you'll never potentially know who was excluded, whether deemed unattractive physically or whatever the criteria were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.

I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to.

Why did they call it that? I keep imaging they're crushing little kitties. "

I have no idea if I've used the correct name now. I may have made it up.

Is it Kissing Kittens? Kooking Kitchens? I'm hopeless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me. People can invite whoever they like. I'm not welcome at Killing Kittens type parties but I'm not offended.

I meet people I'm attracted to. It would be rude of me to say other people should invite people they aren't attracted to.

Why did they call it that? I keep imaging they're crushing little kitties.

I have no idea if I've used the correct name now. I may have made it up.

Is it Kissing Kittens? Kooking Kitchens? I'm hopeless. "

It is killing kitens, i googled it. £100 a month for sex, if you want VIP sex. No actual harming of kittens from what i could see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How I feel about parties that you pay for specifying no Asians

Thoughts?"

I'm pretty confident that it is illegal for a commercial enterprise to exclude people based on their ethnicity, colour, or religion.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sexual elite?! Haha... is that where the perfect people go then?

Killing kittens is a term for girly wanking? How ridiculous... where did that even stem from?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


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Sexual elite?! Haha... is that where the perfect people go then?

Killing kittens is a term for girly wanking? How ridiculous... where did that even stem from?"
I can't even join, too fucking old not sure I will be losing much sleep for being excluded

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Not sure how I feel about parties that you pay for specifying no Asians

Thoughts?"

Only you can decide which parties you want to go to, and the sort of people you are likely to meet.

There are many 'paying' events/parties in the vanilla world that I'm not welcome to as a man, I just concentrate on the others.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see Asian women be excluded? Asian men yes due to public perspective of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Killing kittens is a bit like club 18-30 as far as I can tell.

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