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THE MEANING OF LIFE!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Our kids.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

42 I believe.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Family and Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

family friends xxxx and fucking my friends heven xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No good saying WHAT unless you say WHY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have just had a lovely man here x been in four poster x been in hot-tud.......... and gone as wife called x and i need fucking hard x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have just had a lovely man here x been in four poster x been in hot-tud.......... and gone as wife called x and i need fucking hard x lol"

Jo behave yourself. Bertie said no ref to fucking on this thread.

Mr B I shall respond once I have retired to my boudoir, had a think, had a wank and had a wash. Give me 2 mins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lady K...I want to see your working out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lady K...I want to see your working out!"

Oh I bet ya bloody do

Ok, the meaning of life for me, Monty Python aside....to exist in with relavance and understanding. To be the best I can possibly be while keeping those around me safe enough to be the best they can be also. To give as much as I recieve, to think of others as much as I think of myself and ultimately to leave our mortal plannet with a peaceful heart and mind. And if I can have a bloody good time doing all that then the meaning of my life will be in my legacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have just had a lovely man here x been in four poster x been in hot-tud.......... and gone as wife called x and i need fucking hard x lol

Jo behave yourself. Bertie said no ref to fucking on this thread.

Mr B I shall respond once I have retired to my boudoir, had a think, had a wank and had a wash. Give me 2 mins. "
ok draling us woman know how to have fun xxxxx your wrlcome xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lady K...I want to see your working out!

Oh I bet ya bloody do

Ok, the meaning of life for me, Monty Python aside....to exist in with relavance and understanding. To be the best I can possibly be while keeping those around me safe enough to be the best they can be also. To give as much as I recieve, to think of others as much as I think of myself and ultimately to leave our mortal plannet with a peaceful heart and mind. And if I can have a bloody good time doing all that then the meaning of my life will be in my legacy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have just had a lovely man here x been in four poster x been in hot-tud.......... and gone as wife called x and i need fucking hard x lol

Jo behave yourself. Bertie said no ref to fucking on this thread.

Mr B I shall respond once I have retired to my boudoir, had a think, had a wank and had a wash. Give me 2 mins. ok draling us woman know how to have fun xxxxx your wrlcome xxxxxxx"

lol...next time honey if they don't fuck you before the wifey calls, charge them for using the hot tub...cheeky fecker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can have sex on my own as a woman x just love peope there to look x lol jo xxxxx snogssss and wet kiseses xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 I believe."

awwww you beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"42 I believe.

awwww you beat me to it!"

Let me refer you to a previous 'TUT'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its so hard finding real bi woman x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its so hard finding real bi woman x"

Did you misunderstand the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its so hard finding real bi woman x

Did you misunderstand the question? "
i always do xxxxxxxxx lol you men are so boring at times i need a woman xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its so hard finding real bi woman x

Did you misunderstand the question? i always do xxxxxxxxx lol you men are so boring at times i need a woman xxxxxx"

A valuable and 'interesting' contribution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its so hard finding real bi woman x

Did you misunderstand the question? i always do xxxxxxxxx lol you men are so boring at times i need a woman xxxxxx

A valuable and 'interesting' contribution. "
YOU COMING AROUND X LOL i am feeling horny x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps to present any argument, which purports there could be a meaning to life. It would firstly be necessary to consider if the existence of life itself was infact created by grand design or perhaps as a consequence of random chance…

Thus rendering the possibility the answer to the question “what is the meaning of life” could potentially be nothing more than to categorically establish why life even exists at all…..

hmmmm....Or maybe the answer to the question its something altogether and completely different…!!!.

pah….I don’t know….. and anyway…..I prefer thinking about shoes……..ahhhhh sigh…….. shoes…

OMG……that’s it……..Crikey ……please,,,,, mentally delete that utter tush I wrote in that first paragraph……… the meaning of life is now obvious…

its to buy pretty shoes….,,,,,……

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

To leave the world a better place than you found it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love the word 'purports'...doesn't it always add something to a, prettily worded, but rather pointless statement!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To leave the world a better place than you found it."

So how do you do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god why get so deep ,,,,,,, horny is just horny x

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?"

my daughter - she is the light of my life, having lost 4 boys and nearly losing her too

my job - as I work with some of the most wonderful people who are like family to me

my friends - as they have seen me through a lot of dark times and never judge me

my divorce - as it empowered me to be the (strong) person I am today

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"42 I believe.

awwww you beat me to it!

Let me refer you to a previous 'TUT' "

Not being one to usually split hairs (except of the pubic variety at need! ) It should be somewhat less than 42!!

42 is the answer to the meaning of "Life, the Universe and everything"!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"god why get so deep ,,,,,,, horny is just horny x"

Why not so deep???...if you want a 'shallow' thread there are plenty

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

But to be serious for a moment.. My Children.. (at 29 & 27 they are still my children!) and our Grandchildren who make me feel so fulfilled. My siblings who seem to know just what is wanted and when and always come through for those in need. And of course, my darling lady.. We have been together since she was 14 and I was 16 and we are as much in love as we were then, just differently.

Our friends, both vanilla and swinging. We are very lucky to have some great mates and some lovely acquaintances from all walks of life. Some we have been able to help out and some have helped us at need, we are truly fortunate.

I don't measure possessions in this, they can come and go, family is forever. Not interested in "empowerment" on any level, my business is a means to an end and any other "high brow" meaning is just tosh to make people feel important. Well, my family & friends do that for me so guess I am a very lucky guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god why get so deep ,,,,,,, horny is just horny x

Why not so deep???...if you want a 'shallow' thread there are plenty "
yes read yours , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the word 'purports'...doesn't it always add something to a, prettily worded, but rather pointless statement!"

Well I guess it must!... if you say so...!

.....awww ... now easy tiger.... go-on shush ya-self........ cuz I ain't bein nasty pr nowt....... honest I'm not !!!........its just the bitch in me,,,,

mwuahhhhh....mwuahhhhh......mwuahhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah Rumour that post had me tilting my head to one side and smiling. Thank God for the simple things in life, the things money can't buy. I don't know what the meaning of life is but its those things that give a life true meaning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"god why get so deep ,,,,,,, horny is just horny x

Why not so deep???...if you want a 'shallow' thread there are plenty yes read yours , lol"

Now that's just mean

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

The signs are there all around you everyday: a babies giggle, a beautiful snatch of birdsong, the sun through new leaves, a spontaneous declaration of love from your child...

The rest is just infill between these moments.

Right, that's it I'm off to the shallow end again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah Rumour that post had me tilting my head to one side and smiling. Thank God for the simple things in life, the things money can't buy. I don't know what the meaning of life is but its those things that give a life true meaning. "
thats really lovely xxx Rums know them years fab couples say it how it is in the forum kisses xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"god why get so deep ,,,,,,, horny is just horny x

Why not so deep???...if you want a 'shallow' thread there are plenty yes read yours , lol

Now that's just mean "
your seen nothing xx i pay it down here xlol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?"
if you know why dont you tell us?

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Ah Rumour that post had me tilting my head to one side and smiling. Thank God for the simple things in life, the things money can't buy. I don't know what the meaning of life is but its those things that give a life true meaning. thats really lovely xxx Rums know them years fab couples say it how it is in the forum kisses xxxxx "

We have known each other a long time, eh? We think you are fab too, Jo xxxx Seems a long time since we seen you both...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?if you know why dont you tell us? "

Sorry I don't understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah Rumour that post had me tilting my head to one side and smiling. Thank God for the simple things in life, the things money can't buy. I don't know what the meaning of life is but its those things that give a life true meaning. thats really lovely xxx Rums know them years fab couples say it how it is in the forum kisses xxxxx

We have known each other a long time, eh? We think you are fab too, Jo xxxx Seems a long time since we seen you both... "
i hope i get to meet you again soon xx and i love your post here in forum xxx it feel like old times sdc xx i know how lovely you two are xx kisses xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it?

Sorry I don't understand that"
its being yourrself and loving life and a open mind x just being who you are x inside and out x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it?

Sorry I don't understand thatits being yourrself and loving life and a open mind x just being who you are x inside and out x"

...And the connections you have with other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people around the world find themselves involved in unjustifiably evil manmade situation, where the struggle for daily survival can never be fully understood by those of us who live in relative comfort and safety…..

Perhaps these people share the true understanding of the meaning of life, a meaning which somehow sustains their ability to cling onto a hope of better times ahead or perhaps allows some shelter from terrifying fears that death itself can be somehow present a worse form of suffering than the treacherous existence life has cruelly presented them…

and all done without an offer or incentive to understand why.,,,,, or perhaps maybe they just have a common faith in love and all thats good in humanity,,,,

and maybe that is the true meaning of life is for anyone... (trust and faith, in who and what we love)

Sox.... over and out !

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

You sure it isn't 42 Sox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You sure it isn't 42 Sox?"

if it is.....42.......ya gotta feel a tad sorry for anyone hoping was gonna be 69....

and there wiil no doubt be more than a few who where hoping for that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"42 I believe.

awwww you beat me to it!

Let me refer you to a previous 'TUT'

Not being one to usually split hairs (except of the pubic variety at need! ) It should be somewhat less than 42!!

42 is the answer to the meaning of "Life, the Universe and everything"! "

42 - life - universe, say, 0.33333 recurring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found out the meaning of life.

It's a noun and the description is on page 327 of the Oxford English Dictionary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More 'TUTS' for you lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life is given meaning by the sight of beauty. This does not have to be physical or consumable. There is beauty in every act of kindness, caring and generosity, even a smile.

Why? because it moves me, makes me smile, laugh and sometimes cry, has no borders nor a price.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My life is given meaning by the sight of beauty. This does not have to be physical or consumable. There is beauty in every act of kindness, caring and generosity, even a smile.

Why? because it moves me, makes me smile, laugh and sometimes cry, has no borders nor a price.

"

Now THAT is what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We owe so much to vanity

We people hear on Earth

Although we have the gift to see

Beyond the obvious the false.

We care not

and throw our precious jewel to the wind .....

Perchance one day to pluck it forth

Then, what a world we could have.

love to wax, love a good muse. xxx

all me own work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We should always try to find room for beauty in our lives...from wherever it comes.Beauty that shakes you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are but tiny lights in the prism of life and one day we will all shine together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am keeping a list from the genuine replies on here...on it goes 'beauty'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am keeping a list from the genuine replies on here...on it goes 'beauty'."

you are right, we should always remember to "feed the soul" as well as the body. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmmm I think I read that somewhere before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm I think I read that somewhere before "

Maharishi Phucknuckel's Gude to Zen. excellent stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have two views

first: the individual

e.g. kids, hobbies, family, friends

second: has to be a trait that can be shared by everyone. we all have emotions etc so theoretically we should be challenged by one big thing that keeps us together and not something driving us apart from our neighbour like in the art of war(though war can be a neccesity at times)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'Sharing'...is on the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?"

Was actually thinking about this very thing whilst at work today.

Had just been listening to Merry Christmas War Is Over, and the lyrics, "And so this is Christmas, and what have you done?

Another year over, a new one just begun..."

And reflecting on gains this year (few) and losses (too many).

So was also thinking about my faith, or lack of it, as I am about to attend another funeral next week, and thinking, just what Is the Point of it all?

I know you all think 'sad bitch', but the net result was that there is this thing in me now, that wasn't always there, that I have learned, and its this thing called Hope, so that is my answer, Hope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'Hope' goes on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is happiness on the list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is happiness on the list?"

happiness, happiness the greatest gift we can posses ... good ol song that un

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is happiness on the list?

happiness, happiness the greatest gift we can posses ... good ol song that un"

I thought it was "a penis,a penis,the greatest gift that I possess, I thank the Lord that I've been blessed with my fair share of a penis"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is happiness on the list?"

Happines is the end...the others are the means to that end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is happiness on the list?

Happines is the end...the others are the means to that end "

the end of what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is happiness on the list?

Happines is the end...the others are the means to that end

the end of what?"

Now...I think you are making sport with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whether you agree or not.

in life the only thing that matters is money.

without it you got fuck all and life is terrible.

with it you have a better standard of living and a chance.

we all need money. the root of all evil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is happiness on the list?

Happines is the end...the others are the means to that end

the end of what?

Now...I think you are making sport with me "

to me happiness is the beginning.......the creation of life itself is such a beautiful thing..........as any parent will testify. so that to me is happiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whether you agree or not.

in life the only thing that matters is money.

without it you got fuck all and life is terrible.

with it you have a better standard of living and a chance.

we all need money. the root of all evil."

so life did not exist before money???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whether you agree or not.

in life the only thing that matters is money.

without it you got fuck all and life is terrible.

with it you have a better standard of living and a chance.

we all need money. the root of all evil."

aha so you believe it's survival of the fittest. Recent postulations suggest that we are mere gene carriers and that it is the survival of genes that motivates us. The gene is everything in this case. But then what is the meaning of life for the gene?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

'Money' will never get on my list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whether you agree or not.

in life the only thing that matters is money.

without it you got fuck all and life is terrible.

with it you have a better standard of living and a chance.

we all need money. the root of all evil."

I do hope you have lots of money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whether you agree or not.

in life the only thing that matters is money.

without it you got fuck all and life is terrible.

with it you have a better standard of living and a chance.

we all need money. the root of all evil.

I do hope you have lots of money "

Money will only make you happy up to about 50,000 a year, above that and it's just about powwer and pretige, appaerntly. What is obvious though is that poverty can and does make people miserable, unless you're some kind of Indian mystic happy in a loincloth but to be honest most of them look gloomy as fuck. The meaning to life. There isn't one, none more than there is a meaning to bein dead, or a rock or a drop of water. You just are, for a brief time....then you're not. That's it. However nothing to say that you can't and shouldn't be positive and open Never intentionally hurt,give openly, never take what isn't freely offered, learn the lessons of life and you'll be right. Oh and a damn good fucking is always tip top in my book. Gets those endorphins and seratonin rushing lol Be happy everyone coz this is all there is....

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

If you mean life in general, I don't think it has any meaning at all - it just happens because of natural circumstances. If you mean conscious human life, I think it has no more meaning than the life of an amoeba, except what the individual believes it to be. If you mean my life, for the world to be no worse when I leave it than when I found it. Perhaps just a little better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i lost my sister this year, i sat in tears and wondered why we all bothered.

There are those who go through life shitting on all those they meet, those who kill and maim and still live in relative comfort.

And then i thought about the fight she gave for ten years...

She fought with every breath she had to live another day.

To wake up with those she loved , to see her beautiful sons and to offer comfort to others suffering.

The meaning of life to me now is to honour her memory by enjoying my life and making the best of every day.

To treat everyone with a little kindness and hope to get a little back sometime .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i lost my sister this year, i sat in tears and wondered why we all bothered.

There are those who go through life shitting on all those they meet, those who kill and maim and still live in relative comfort.

And then i thought about the fight she gave for ten years...

She fought with every breath she had to live another day.

To wake up with those she loved , to see her beautiful sons and to offer comfort to others suffering.

The meaning of life to me now is to honour her memory by enjoying my life and making the best of every day.

To treat everyone with a little kindness and hope to get a little back sometime ."

And when you have someone that close to you...you never really lose them.Your sister will always be with you...and when the sorrow lessens you are left with all that was good about them.My dad died in 2004 but at times I can hear him laugh as surely as if he were in the same room.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Evolution.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Evolution."

They say men don't read profiles...well some don't even read the thread questions they post on

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We exist in a universe that has no rules only what we *think* are the rules as defined by a common ignorance. Every so often one of us comes close to getting to the real truth behind the eternal question "What are we and why are we here?" but they inevitably fail when they try to answer those questions.

The Universe does not care one iota if you are in an explosion or a car crash and you survive and the person next to you doesn't - it is not fate. It is merely you survived and he/she didn't. No plan was effected to ensure your survival.

The Universe does not give a damn if you don't procreate as enough people will to make your non-contribution absolutely meaningless.

The Universe does not care one jot if this planet is destroyed by an asteroid as there are millions of other planets out there with an equal if not higher level of life on them.

In short, we are ants scurrying around thinking we're important but the reality of it is: we're nothing in the big scheme of things. Absolutely Zero, Nada, Zilch, NOTHING!

That's the Meaning of Life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuddling our 5 month old grandson that we never thought our daughter would be able to have... pure heaven

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over a year ago


"We exist in a universe that has no rules only what we *think* are the rules as defined by a common ignorance. Every so often one of us comes close to getting to the real truth behind the eternal question "What are we and why are we here?" but they inevitably fail when they try to answer those questions.

The Universe does not care one iota if you are in an explosion or a car crash and you survive and the person next to you doesn't - it is not fate. It is merely you survived and he/she didn't. No plan was effected to ensure your survival.

The Universe does not give a damn if you don't procreate as enough people will to make your non-contribution absolutely meaningless.

The Universe does not care one jot if this planet is destroyed by an asteroid as there are millions of other planets out there with an equal if not higher level of life on them.

In short, we are ants scurrying around thinking we're important but the reality of it is: we're nothing in the big scheme of things. Absolutely Zero, Nada, Zilch, NOTHING!

That's the Meaning of Life."

True but a rather nihlistic though. what of love, family, companionship, friends etc. The universe does give a toss about us because we are part of it and of it. The universe is self aware because we are self aware and we are part of it. Cheer up.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

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"Evolution.

They say men don't read profiles...well some don't even read the thread questions they post on "

You presume that I find evolution unsatisfying...

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over a year ago


"cuddling our 5 month old grandson that we never thought our daughter would be able to have... pure heaven "

There you go, a small part of the universe is very happy indeed. No doubt because of some deeply embedded evolutionary mechanism that evolved as a reward system for all the effort and risk put into procreating...BUT SO WHAT.

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over a year ago


"We exist in a universe that has no rules only what we *think* are the rules as defined by a common ignorance. Every so often one of us comes close to getting to the real truth behind the eternal question "What are we and why are we here?" but they inevitably fail when they try to answer those questions.

The Universe does not care one iota if you are in an explosion or a car crash and you survive and the person next to you doesn't - it is not fate. It is merely you survived and he/she didn't. No plan was effected to ensure your survival.

The Universe does not give a damn if you don't procreate as enough people will to make your non-contribution absolutely meaningless.

The Universe does not care one jot if this planet is destroyed by an asteroid as there are millions of other planets out there with an equal if not higher level of life on them.

In short, we are ants scurrying around thinking we're important but the reality of it is: we're nothing in the big scheme of things. Absolutely Zero, Nada, Zilch, NOTHING!

That's the Meaning of Life.

True but a rather nihlistic though. what of love, family, companionship, friends etc. The universe does give a toss about us because we are part of it and of it. The universe is self aware because we are self aware and we are part of it. Cheer up."

I'm very happy thank you very much lol

I have been happy all my life, ever since I broke free of the shackles man tries to continually place upon me using things like 'love', 'family', 'companionship', 'family', 'honour', 'loyalty' to bind me. I do feel those things but I know they are transient - they are liable to diappear just as quickly as they appeared. So I live for the moment.

Siren often comments that she wishes she could shake her troubles off as easily as I seem to be able to. The truth of it is that I really don't care about much of what happens in this world apart from what directly affects me and mine. Nothing I do is going to change someone's life in Africa for example, and what's more, I don't really care if it does or not.

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over a year ago


"What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?

Was actually thinking about this very thing whilst at work today.

Had just been listening to Merry Christmas War Is Over, and the lyrics, "And so this is Christmas, and what have you done?

Another year over, a new one just begun..."

And reflecting on gains this year (few) and losses (too many).

So was also thinking about my faith, or lack of it, as I am about to attend another funeral next week, and thinking, just what Is the Point of it all?

I know you all think 'sad bitch', but the net result was that there is this thing in me now, that wasn't always there, that I have learned, and its this thing called Hope, so that is my answer, Hope."

Hope surrounds my circle of friends and family this christmas...we have just 4 weeks to raise £380,000 so that my daughters friends little girl(my 5 yr old grand daughters bestest buddy) can have a life saving bone marrow transplant in america..she has a very rare terminal illness not treatable in the UK....THE REAL MEANING OF LIFE is just to be alive or at least have the chance to stay alive........

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"What is it?

Just let me say "TUT" to anyone thinking of posting 'sex'

Sex,on it's own,has no meaning other than to temporarily satisfy a physical need...much like a drink when you are thirsty or food when you are hungry.

So what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?"

Right, that was the question asked! Not what is the meaning of life in relation to the universe, but "what is it that REALLY satisfies you that gives your life meaning?"

Questions on a forum can reveal lots about respondents as this one (and some others I have read) has shown.

For those that care about their fellow person and do want to make a difference to others, life can be very fulfilling. They are the ones with "sorted" lives and will ultimately have satisfaction. Yes there are worries along the way, but that is not a bad thing.

For those who don't care about others.. Well, perhaps either there is something missing or there is an element of depression lurking there somewhere. All of us with children should be worried to some extent about “tomorrow” because if we don’t, we are not worried about our children future.

At the end of the day, this is just my thought process on the actual question asked and not some cosmic wandering.. But I do worry about others and I actively support any of my friends and family who are in need, not to do so would leave me feeling very empty…

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