FabSwingers.com forum: Why do lovers choose others ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No no no not you lot,i've been listening to this great track by Richard Ashcroft and I must admit it never fails to have me in bits emotionally.

And why ? Because it's too close to the bone for me and has me asking too many soul searching questions that I'd rather hide away from.

Which brings me to this point.

What tune strikes a chord with you girls and boys on Fab and why ?

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Depends on my mood, it used to be Joe Jackson "is she really going out with him". The thought of that tune is now stirring up memories of teenage angst.

Such a powerful song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No no no not you lot,i've been listening to this great track by Richard Ashcroft and I must admit it never fails to have me in bits emotionally.

And why ? Because it's too close to the bone for me and has me asking too many soul searching questions that I'd rather hide away from.

Which brings me to this point.

What tune strikes a chord with you girls and boys on Fab and why ?

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

One man in my heart by human league used to sing it to my late hubby

Thoughts please."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's Sonnet. Also by Richard Ashcroft when he was with The Verve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me it's Sonnet. Also by Richard Ashcroft when he was with The Verve "

That's right yeah,they were sublime at Glastonbury 2008.Always breaking up though,real shame that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No no no not you lot,i've been listening to this great track by Richard Ashcroft and I must admit it never fails to have me in bits emotionally.

And why ? Because it's too close to the bone for me and has me asking too many soul searching questions that I'd rather hide away from.

Which brings me to this point.

What tune strikes a chord with you girls and boys on Fab and why ?

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

One man in my heart by human league used to sing it to my late hubby

Thoughts please."

Thanks for sharing hope it hasn't upset you. Beautiful that,I'm a bit of a dickhead i've never done that for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on my mood, it used to be Joe Jackson "is she really going out with him". The thought of that tune is now stirring up memories of teenage angst.

Such a powerful song.

C..."

I'll look that up fella and give it a listen,cheers matey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No no no not you lot,i've been listening to this great track by Richard Ashcroft and I must admit it never fails to have me in bits emotionally.

And why ? Because it's too close to the bone for me and has me asking too many soul searching questions that I'd rather hide away from.

Which brings me to this point.

What tune strikes a chord with you girls and boys on Fab and why ?

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please."

Because they think the grass is greener.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Depends on my mood, it used to be Joe Jackson "is she really going out with him". The thought of that tune is now stirring up memories of teenage angst.

Such a powerful song.

C...

I'll look that up fella and give it a listen,cheers matey."

It's different for girls is another Joe Jackson track full on heartache

C...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on my mood, it used to be Joe Jackson "is she really going out with him". The thought of that tune is now stirring up memories of teenage angst.

Such a powerful song.

C...

I'll look that up fella and give it a listen,cheers matey.

It's different for girls is another Joe Jackson track full on heartache

C..."

You see i'm into tracks that bring you to the edge. And strangely enough they're always uplifting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No no no not you lot,i've been listening to this great track by Richard Ashcroft and I must admit it never fails to have me in bits emotionally.

And why ? Because it's too close to the bone for me and has me asking too many soul searching questions that I'd rather hide away from.

Which brings me to this point.

What tune strikes a chord with you girls and boys on Fab and why ?

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

Because they think the grass is greener."

Just looked at your profile sorry.Just can't help it ha ha.Keep cheering the boys home though hey,could be our year !!

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

triad ...by david crosby ...

jefferson airplane version ..sung by grace slick ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please."

Because they want someone else. Nothing more nothing less. *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" triad ...by david crosby ...

jefferson airplane version ..sung by grace slick ..

Thanks, tell you what I'm gonna have some fun creating a new playlist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

Because they want someone else. Nothing more nothing less. *shrug*"

You sure Scarlet,that's it black and white ? No grey area ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on my mood, it used to be Joe Jackson "is she really going out with him". The thought of that tune is now stirring up memories of teenage angst.

Such a powerful song.

C..."

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

She left me for someone with a bigger dick.

And bigger tits.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Heard an unfamiliar artist in a gym class today - found this track really moving! It's Emilia Mitiku - Lost Inside. I wanna blues dance to it!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wa5PMFUS6BU

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Heard an unfamiliar artist in a gym class today - found this track really moving! It's Emilia Mitiku - Lost Inside. I wanna blues dance to it!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wa5PMFUS6BU "

Do you sometimes get that thing where you can't stop playing a track?? I'm on about 500th play lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

Because they want someone else. Nothing more nothing less. *shrug*

You sure Scarlet,that's it black and white ? No grey area ? "

Other people may think differently. What do you think about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She left me for someone with a bigger dick.

And bigger tits."

Guffaw.....you could understand that though couldn't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Heard an unfamiliar artist in a gym class today - found this track really moving! It's Emilia Mitiku - Lost Inside. I wanna blues dance to it!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wa5PMFUS6BU

Do you sometimes get that thing where you can't stop playing a track?? I'm on about 500th play lol!"

Absolutely I never ever kill a track either,I do that all the time.

I'm gonna create a playlist with all your tunes so keep them coming.

Can you do me a favour,I hope you come back to this thread ? Go on YouTube and play Gil Scott Heron. The track is called the other side parts one and two,has me in tears all the time. It's about his addiction to crack cocaine,hope,despair and sorrow.

Powerful doesn't quite cover it !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...

Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

Because they want someone else. Nothing more nothing less. *shrug*

You sure Scarlet,that's it black and white ? No grey area ?

Other people may think differently. What do you think about it?"

I think life in general can make couples drift,over familiarity,different needs,sex becoming apologetic.Or the old classic where feelings for another become too overwhelming. Do people really set out to hurt each other Scarlet ? Those that you love ?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Not really into Gil Scott Heron but the revolution will not be televised makes for a good philosophical discussion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really into Gil Scott Heron but the revolution will not be televised makes for a good philosophical discussion

C..."

Ha ha ha good man. The bottle not do it for you ? Tell you what work for peace off his Spirits album....another discussion there me thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hazel oconners "will you" It was my first true loves song. He unfortunately died far to young. When I hear this, which isn't very often. It takes me back and leaves me all melancholy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

Because they want someone else. Nothing more nothing less. *shrug*

You sure Scarlet,that's it black and white ? No grey area ?

Other people may think differently. What do you think about it?

Ouch. Fair point. Do I come across as thinking that?

I agree with your first point. Yes people can drift apart etc but then they just want someone else. That's all I meant. Things and people change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it."

Have you heard Johnny Cash's cover of Personal Jesus.......tip-top!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Or if you're not bothered in answering that one then simply why do lovers choose others ?

Thoughts please.

Because they want someone else. Nothing more nothing less. *shrug*

You sure Scarlet,that's it black and white ? No grey area ?

Other people may think differently. What do you think about it?

Ouch. Fair point. Do I come across as thinking that?

I agree with your first point. Yes people can drift apart etc but then they just want someone else. That's all I meant. Things and people change. "

No you don't,I was just thinking there's a multitude of reasons. Sad for all parties nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heard an unfamiliar artist in a gym class today - found this track really moving! It's Emilia Mitiku - Lost Inside. I wanna blues dance to it!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wa5PMFUS6BU

Do you sometimes get that thing where you can't stop playing a track?? I'm on about 500th play lol!"

Thanks for the link.. I can see why

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"A Thousand Years"

A thousand years, a thousand more,

A thousand times a million doors to eternity

I may have lived a thousand lives, a thousand times

An endless turning stairway climbs

To a tower of souls

If it takes another thousand years, a thousand wars,

The towers rise to numberless floors in space

I could shed another million tears, a million breaths,

A million names but only one truth to face

A million roads, a million fears

A million suns, ten million years of uncertainty

I could speak a million lies, a million songs,

A million rights, a million wrongs in this balance of time

But if there was a single truth, a single light

A single thought, a singular touch of grace

Then following this single point , this single flame,

The single haunted memory of your face

I still love you

I still want you

A thousand times the mysteries unfold themselves

Like galaxies in my head

I may be numberless, I may be innocent

I may know many things, I may be ignorant

Or I could ride with kings and conquer many lands

Or win this world at cards and let it slip my hands

I could be cannon food, destroyed a thousand times

Reborn as fortune's child to judge another's crimes

Or wear this pilgrim's cloak, or be a common thief

I've kept this single faith, I have but one belief

I still love you

I still want you

A thousand times the mysteries unfold themselves

Like galaxies in my head

On and on the mysteries unwind themselves

Eternities still unsaid

'Til you love me

to me this is the experience of life, which matters, but matters not.. and for me its not about one soul for this 'me' its about the understanding of interactions with fellow humans on a large scale.. a bit deep, but then so am i x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it.

Have you heard Johnny Cash's cover of Personal Jesus.......tip-top!!"

Not really into Johnny but yeah i did like his cover of NIN. A version of Closer might have been good too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well what could I add to that Suzy ? A bit deep ? Good enough for me,thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it.

Have you heard Johnny Cash's cover of Personal Jesus.......tip-top!!

Not really into Johnny but yeah i did like his cover of NIN. A version of Closer might have been good too."

I like a few Depeche Mode tracks particularly Enjoy the Silence but i've never bought an album.I'm more of a Smiths lad myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it.

Have you heard Johnny Cash's cover of Personal Jesus.......tip-top!!

Not really into Johnny but yeah i did like his cover of NIN. A version of Closer might have been good too.

I like a few Depeche Mode tracks particularly Enjoy the Silence but i've never bought an album.I'm more of a Smiths lad myself."

Haha, when i was a kid i did nick that record "shoplifters of the world unite" out of Woolies, my best mate thought it would be funny to do that. Yeah the smiths are good, some good covers of their songs about too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it.

Have you heard Johnny Cash's cover of Personal Jesus.......tip-top!!

Not really into Johnny but yeah i did like his cover of NIN. A version of Closer might have been good too.

I like a few Depeche Mode tracks particularly Enjoy the Silence but i've never bought an album.I'm more of a Smiths lad myself.

Pmsl.....get in there you beaut. I forgot to mention Blasphemous Rumours what a dark,dark track,great tune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhmdlLXkTMw

Depeche Mode - A Question Of Lust (Kaiser N-I Fusion Remix 2011)

I am in love with this tune right now. Loved the original as a kid but never understood the lyrics. Proper nice, simple tune.

Dunno why people choose others, don't really care. If it pisses you off then dump them, if you like then enjoy it.

Have you heard Johnny Cash's cover of Personal Jesus.......tip-top!!

Not really into Johnny but yeah i did like his cover of NIN. A version of Closer might have been good too.

I like a few Depeche Mode tracks particularly Enjoy the Silence but i've never bought an album.I'm more of a Smiths lad myself.

Pmsl.....get in there you beaut. I forgot to mention Blasphemous Rumours what a dark,dark track,great tune."

I like some of their upbeat stuff as well, but most of this playlist is their deep stuff. Really like Vince Clark in general and most of his music and remixes.

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